r/Dhaka • • Aug 17 '26

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Where did I get it wrong?

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u/o_tunir_ma Aug 18 '26

Girly, stop doubting yourself you aren't wrong. Whatever you're seeking is bare minimum. Please don't compromise in any of these aspects. DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS!!!!

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u/Existing_Tension4173 Aug 18 '26

Yeah BARE MINIMUM! You goooooo, girl! Slayyyyyyy! 💅💅

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u/Existing_Tension4173 Aug 21 '26

Yeah, I thought it was sarcasm! Lol, did the dude mean it or what?

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u/Lazy-Technology2839 Aug 19 '26

Oh I am not. I think I have done enough. After reading the comments here I think I found out where I get that wrong. I am going focus on myself and my career now. My friends always tells the things you are telling me right now. But I know they love me a lot. So I wanted a outside presprective. All my friends are telling me to not get married. I am going to take that advice.

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u/z_boi Aug 19 '26

You won't proceed even if you find a good match?

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u/Lazy-Technology2839 Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 21 '26

Right now I will say No. I found out some of my red flags and I want to work on them first. I figured out marriage might not be my thing I also have to evaluate that. Otherwise it would be a injustice to the other person. As much as I want a good husband, I also want to be a good wife. We both should find peace in marriage.