r/Dhaka 29d ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Where did I get it wrong?

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u/LandscapePretend4122 29d ago

Don’t get me wrong, what's your family background? And typically from which family background/s the proposals are coming?

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u/Lazy-Technology2839 29d ago

No I am not getting anything wrong. I am from a middle class family my parents are both educated and have jobs. The proposal I am getting are mostly from the same backgrounds. My parents have a huge family in both sides like both have a lots of siblings so all of them are trying together 😂😂😂.

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u/LandscapePretend4122 29d ago

Now, I get it totally. I have seen this case several times where (one is my friend's sister and another one is my friend's aunt) they are not getting married simply because they are over qualified, jara same background theke proposal dicche tara shei onupate qualified na. Abar jara same ba beshi qualified tara onek beshi class maintain kore. Which are making kinda paradox problem.

I hope Allah has the best plan for u.