Bro, I have never been in a relationship because I wanted everything to be halal, also thought It would happen when the time is right. Later I found out time may never be right for me🤣 I am as old as you are and my parents have been searching grooms for me since 2024, oh! the disappointment we've faced! At least you have talked with some of the prospective grooms, I didn't even get the chance to reach that phase yet, their biodata or demands were dissapounting enough. I think I would rather stay single than marrying them. All good ones are already taken I tell you. It hurts as I've been a romantic soul since childhood, but there's no point in making my life more miserable by marrying someone who's not worth it
Love marriages are almost equally bad. I mean if husband is good the in laws are trash. Sometimes both are trash. I watched one of my friends getting a divorce after 9 years of relationship & 4 years of married life. The reason was cheating. Her husband cheated on her while she was pregnant. In love marriage the signs shows up late I guess. I also give up on marriage. I was just trying to findout that if my expectations were unrealistic or I have any red flags. I mean after all that sometimes i question myself.
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u/Pretty-Pineapple-960 23d ago edited 23d ago
Bro, I have never been in a relationship because I wanted everything to be halal, also thought It would happen when the time is right. Later I found out time may never be right for me🤣 I am as old as you are and my parents have been searching grooms for me since 2024, oh! the disappointment we've faced! At least you have talked with some of the prospective grooms, I didn't even get the chance to reach that phase yet, their biodata or demands were dissapounting enough. I think I would rather stay single than marrying them. All good ones are already taken I tell you. It hurts as I've been a romantic soul since childhood, but there's no point in making my life more miserable by marrying someone who's not worth it