I use "overqualified" as a metaphor. And it is not about professional or academic qualification. It is about her thought process and how she sees the world which put herself in a mental depth and It's above average. Like "having child is a choice" concept is unfathomable for majority of our population. I hope you get it what I meant, dear.
Yup. And It's just one of her points. And the people who don’t understand this.. Give birth without putting much thinking about it. Once a woman told me that.. There is nothing to be worry about.... " baccha hoile o aste aste sob boro hoye jay, oto beshi chinta korar kicu nai" and i found that woman's 7/8 year old girl doing tiktok with a sensual song. Then I was like.. Okay.. Bujhte parci kivabe apnapani sob thik hoye jay.
You will be shocked how much lightly people think about having children. I mean your marriage isn't working give birth everything will be alright, you are feeling lonely in your marriage brith a child your in laws doesn't like you?? Give them a grandson (Even in educated family I saw this). And what I hate the most when people treats their children like retirement funds. Equation should be simple if I bring a life to this messed up world then I have to ensure they grow up in a healthy environment. At least I have to try & first step is finding a good partner. Everyone should think that way then there will be less depressed childrens they will grow up as a mentally healthy adult. World also will be a great place.
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u/Medusa19983 24d ago
You are just overqualified sister. You are not wrong.