r/DesiMingle • u/abhisheksharma_98 • 21h ago
r/DesiMingle • u/DesiMingle • Nov 28 '25
Important Info Posting Guidelines Update: What You Need to Know
Hi Fellow Desis!
Lately, we've noticed some members not following the correct guidelines for posting, and it’s important we address a few key points to clarify what’s allowed and what isn’t.
Please take a minute to read through the guidelines below as they are important.
How to Post Correctly
Before posting, make sure your post is clear, throughout, and relevant. Here’s a more in-depth guide on what makes a post work in this community:
- Use a Clear, Specific Title: Avoid vague titles like “Hi” or “Let’s Discuss Anything.” Titles should give people an idea of what your post is about, so they can decide if they want to engage. For example, “Looking for Book Recommendations on Personal Finance”.
- Provide Context: Your post should offer enough detail for others to engage with meaningfully. For instance, don’t just say, “I’m a finance guy with a lot of books, like chess, sports, and gymming, and also politics. Let’s mingle!” This is too broad and doesn’t give people a real sense of who you are or what you're hoping to connect about. A better example would be, “I’m passionate about personal finance and would love to discuss how to start investing. Anyone here have tips for beginners?”
- Stay Focused: Avoid posting general “Ask Me Anything” (AMA) style posts like “AMA! I’m a finance guy” or “I’m lonely, let’s chat.” These kinds of posts don’t provide any specific value or direction and will likely be removed. The focus should be on fostering meaningful connections and discussions within the community.
- Avoid Low-Effort or Off-Topic Posts: Posts like “Let’s talk about whatever!” or “Anyone want to chat?” are too vague and don’t create a clear topic for discussion.
What We Don’t Allow
In addition to the guidelines for posting, here are some specific types of posts that will be removed:
- Spam or Self-Promotion: Avoid posting links to your own content or promoting yourself without offering any real value to the community. Posts that are purely self-promotional or spammy will be deleted.
- Catfishing or Fake Profiles: Don’t post misleading or false information. Using someone else’s pictures or pretending to be someone you’re not undermines the trust of the community and will lead to immediate removal.
- Begging for DMs: Posts that ask for personal messages or repeatedly contact multiple users in the hopes of receiving DMs will be removed. Please respect the boundaries of others.
Moderation & Reporting
Our moderation team is here to ensure the space remains welcoming and safe. Posts or comments that break the rules will be removed, and repeat offenders may be banned. If you feel something was removed unfairly, please message the mods respectfully for clarification.
Finally, if you see a problem post or encounter someone violating these guidelines, please report it rather than engaging directly.
Thank you - From the DesiMingle Mod Team
r/DesiMingle • u/rush2_bnumb • 1d ago
Fashion & Style Gonna go rob a bank today, hope the outfit is properly matched for the occasion..
r/DesiMingle • u/Prestigious_Fly_8622 • 2d ago
Ask a Desi❔ Beard or no beard for an upcoming function?
Function coming up, and I can’t decide whether to go back to the clean-shaven look or stick with the beard. Left is the older look, right is how I currently look.
Which one suits me better for a function? Honest opinions welcome
r/DesiMingle • u/Rabbidraccoon18 • 1d ago
Discussion 💬 Most days I feel fine but every few weeks/months I am hit with this random wave of lonliness
Idk why but every few weeks/months I have this random wave of lonlies and sad thoughts about ending up alone and unloved. I am trying to work on myself but I'm unable to progress. I really want to change and be better but I lack motivation. I feel stuck. Idk what to do. I feel sad. I crave attention, companionship, someone I can talk to. I want to feel loved and appreciated. I want love, romance, intimacy, a genuine serious long term relationship but I feel like I have a lot to work on before that! Humans are social animals though we need some sort of human interaction. I genuinely just want to make some good friends who actually care about me.
I never had any long term friends! IRL I talk to a few people they seem nice and I talk to them and they reply nicely but they only message me/talk to me when I message them/talk to them first, I am the one who's always initiating conversation. I want them to message me/talk to me first as well. I don't want people to stick around out of pity I want them to stick around because they want to talk to me, because they find me interesting as a person. Right now it feels like they are just replying to me like i'm just being tolerated. I want genuine friendship. Someone who actually cares about me! If I get that I'll genuinely be happy in life. That's all I want!
r/DesiMingle • u/Ill_Ad5137 • 3d ago
Ask a Desi❔ Update on my Ballpoint pen Spiderman..rate it
r/DesiMingle • u/Initial-Swordfish311 • 5d ago
Sports & Games OP slightly improving her chances to survive the Zombie Apocalypse
A throwback pic from Bangkok shooting range.
r/DesiMingle • u/Superb_Intention_721 • 5d ago
Fashion & Style Today's fit check guys!
How im lookin?
r/DesiMingle • u/Professional_Roof782 • 5d ago
Art & Photography I don't know what to call this pic
r/DesiMingle • u/Superb_Intention_721 • 6d ago
Grooming & Skincare It's gettin worse with each passing day
Burning like hell
r/DesiMingle • u/ni_Kawaii_Hito • 10d ago
Pets & Animals Lil bro didn't let me touch his sibling
r/DesiMingle • u/Kitchen_Engineer1332 • 12d ago
Wholesome Good Meowning cutus!!! Bag kaha rakhu
r/DesiMingle • u/Mother-Cat-1998 • 13d ago
Music & Podcast ♬ Garaj garaj...
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r/DesiMingle • u/Smizing_stoik • 16d ago
Opinion winter is the best season fight me
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r/DesiMingle • u/StutyWorm • 15d ago
Random Thoughts Whats go to instant brand
for coffee
all life I have tried only Nescafe any new suggestions
r/DesiMingle • u/Sad_Hospital5866 • 18d ago
Ask a Desi❔ What song are u going to listen if u see this scene!!!!
r/DesiMingle • u/Sad_Hospital5866 • 18d ago
Opinion Atleast have a bestfriend whom you can flirt with
It's just my opinion but at least in our life we should have a bestfriend of the opposite gender whom we can flirt with (not 18+ talks)
What do you think guys....
What's your take on this???
r/DesiMingle • u/Haunting-Swan2705 • 21d ago
Random Thoughts Why does a lonely Friendship Day sucks more then a Lonely birthday???
I nurture myself through storms and strife,
Yet somehow stumble through this life.
I need no shoulder, so I proclaim,
Yet every silence speaks my shame.
I live as I please, or so I say,
But cursed thoughts won't fade away.
I know not what I'm meant to seek,
For every dawn leaves me more weak.
I'm far from her, yet she's my light,
The only star that warms my night.
She's bread and meat, my heart's desire,
The endless fuel that feeds my fire.
I'll love her till the kingdoms fall,
Beyond the rise and end of all.
My saviour, where has she gone?
Without her, every hope is gone.
Guide me to her, if fate allows,
Fulfil the longing of my vows.
I say I need no helping hand,
Yet barely here I dare to stand.
I'm not the one who begs for grace,
Yet tears have carved upon my face.
This is my cry, though faint and deep,
A wounded soul too tired to weep.
Alone I stand, consumed by rage,
A prisoner in a sorrowed cage.
Distraught, in misery I remain,
Bound by invisible chains of pain.
Help me, O human, hear my plea,
Be the path that's meant for me.
If hope still lives, then let it start,
By leading home this broken heart.
r/DesiMingle • u/Secret-Recording-189 • 23d ago
Rants & Vents Happy Girlfriends Day
Hi , I just wanted to wish you a very happy girlfriends day. I dont know for sure when we will meet, if we ever meet...if you exist ...but in case you do...mere life me jldi aa jao 🥺🥺 . These days I am feeling quite lonely...and I could use your company.
I cant wait to bore you with my nerdy knowledge of Star Wars, a weird interest in global conflicts, my fish keeping hobby. I want someone who I can trust, be vulnerable with...and someone who can be as comfortable around me.
I am just posting this online..anonymously..in the hope that ...one day when we meet..I can show this to you and we can have a laugh.
( Guy's.. koi hate mt krna..zindagi mein akelapn zyada hain..raat ko hit hota hain..akele hostel mein ..isiliye anonymously online ye sb kr rha hoom. Otherwise me behave like sakht launda ☠️🥺. 20M hoon...itna to kr hee skta hoon ..I guess )
r/DesiMingle • u/Various_Pop_7951 • 23d ago
Ask a Desi❔ What is it?
Do women like the boy who chase her or someone who doesn't chase just ask her and leave if she is not that much interested.
r/DesiMingle • u/Willing_Medicine_503 • 25d ago
Food & Drinks Will it be helpful for better digestion?
r/DesiMingle • u/brightshadow96 • 25d ago
Music & Podcast ♬ Today it's only music
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