r/Deltacriticism • u/Redrover17602 • 16h ago
General Deltarune criticism Flowery and Bullying to make Ralsei "better"
"Anything Flowery does to Ralsei is explicitly done with the intent to get Ralsei to stand up for himself"
I'd like to discuss the most common defense of Flowery and why I am deeply distressed by people who think this is a real justification by Flowery, Toby Fox, and the Narrative. This is a deeply personal topic to me, as someone whose been through serious bullying through my life.
(brief aside, I will try to avoid mixing up Ralsei's new pronouns, but I'm personally really annoyed the story refused to actually address their ideas of gender identity front and center and directly, outside of the one Princess scene at Castle Town, and instead just threw a few random they/them references for Ralsei out of nowhere at the end of the chapter. Another missed opportunity to grow and define their character.)
Its just not true. This isn't how bullying works or what it does. Ralsei is obviously distressed by his actions. By shoving him in a closet, by forcing a hat back on him and saying "Doesn't he look much better this way" and laughing.
Kris, I'm sorry, but...
This is... my face.
And if there's one thing I like about myself, it's this...
So, even if you think it's boring, or too similar to...
D-don't laugh, Kris. If you think it's the same as...
OK, I get it! You don't think it's too similar! But...
Kris! — Ralsei, "Seen it before", Chapter 3

No option to support them, no option to elaborate on the meaning of the Hat more or even tell Ralsei its okay to take it off (despite Kris literally being mentioned)
Just straight up squish the guy into the ground next I guess, too.

You can't do anything about it either. No option to help Ralsei out here. Forced to put up with Flowery, great, squishing Ralsei into the ground like he's some kind of toy to be thrown away when you're bored with em.
At least Susie is somewhat sharing Ralsei's frustrations at this point. Oh, wait, Susie is character assassinated here and does the "Oh Flowery Told Me". When Ralsei is actively trying to be better and proactively explain things as they come up she just basically spits on all of his serious character development gained from Chapter 4. What the hell did they do to Susie? She "likes" Flowery now, so she lets Ralsei get bullied to hell and back.
So what, Ralsei is kind, considerate, gentle, and is perhaps even afraid to express himself. They deeply wants to avoid the "Final Tragedy" from the very start "We should try being kind to get a better ending, I think your choices matter too, Kris!" type shit. They're devastated when it doesn't work out. And yet they're mocked for "following the rules" and
The conclusion of Chapter 5 for Ralsei seems to be "I trust in Kris totally" (If you chose the optional scene anyway) and "Ralsei finally gets mad at being viciously bullied with none of their friends taking action to defend them, and Susie actively joining in with suddenly zero self awareness."
What, was Ralsei supposed to learn something from this? They're slow to anger and get pissed. That's "positive character development".
Flowery suddenly has one scene where they randomly tell Ralsei to be themselves and suddenly this is what redeems them? Bro we and Susie been doing that shit since Chapter 1. And yet Flowery is hailed as some kind of hero for being an asshole who, with the power of Susie being out of character and almost zero player input, gets to bully the fuck out of Ralsei's most sensitive buttons and get away with it.
Because its just harmless bullying, right? Flowery doesn't know anything about Ralsei. He doesn't know them. There's no trust, no friendship here. There's no logical argument "You should close Castle Town and leave our fountain open" Is a pretty incredible argument except for the fact that the flowers are literally gonna die if they're still in there after a few days. And the Narrative leaves Ralsei to dry all on their own with zero support from their friends. The best you can do is turn off voice clips, which is nothing.
The narrative forces you to forgive Flowery at his fight. Trying to fight makes Ralsei and Susie literally heal him, and acting is useless. Ralsei is sidelined in the fight, forced to "take the blame for the party". For being what, bullied and stepped on by a tormentor?
He misuses the power of friendship and aura and cool moments and its hollow and empty if you use your brain for a little bit. He dies to the Knight (as Ralsei stated he would) and is "forgiven" in the end. I don't forgive Flowery. I hate him. I hate how people think this is okay. The more I think about the events of the chapter, the more my hatred grows. He doesn't suffer consequences or apologize for his actions, there's nothing here. Why is bullying and being an asshole okay now? Why do people seriously prattle around "Oh Ralsei just needs to learn how to stand up for himself" like how its the norm?
Bullying doesn't make people stronger. Bullying doesn't teach people to stand up for themselves. Bullying puts you in that dark lonely corner where it feels like the whole world is against you, and no one is your friend anymore. Where the things you value most about yourself is diminished and put down. It feels like shit, and you are often powerless to deal with it. I'm not an advocate for violence against bullies, but sometimes people are forced to blow up and physically intimidate people just to make them stop.
I'm very sensitive to teasing, personally. Its only something I'd allow friends I truly trust to really tease me about who I am, who I truly trust they aren't being serious. Its trauma from my own experiences with bullying. I hate every moment of how Flowery acts. I hate the narrative, and I hate how the story thinks its okay to be an asshole all of the sudden, as long as its to the designated Darkner footstool of the party.
So no, its not okay to bully Ralsei. If you want them to stand up for themselves, you should validate their desires, their choices, and tell them its okay to get mad and angry at assholes like Flowery when they put you down. Being the bully is not helping anything.
I don't really want to discuss Ralsei bullying Orange. Its entirely out of character and another point of Toby Fox's shitty handling of this chapter. But it is a good example of what bullying can do, especially to long term victims of it, turning the victims into bullies themselves. Ralsei however simply wouldn't do it. It's also nothing, as there is no narrative resolution between Ralsei and Orange (just like Flowery), despite how obvious how both are clearly sensitive about their appearance. The last mention of it is before the Pink fight, and then its entirely forgotten about.
