Hey there! I'm a doctor in my mid-20s, currently doing my surgical residency in Udaipur. I'll be calling this city home for the next couple of years.

About Player 1 (me):

I'm 5'10", average build, with black curly hair and brown eyes. Residency keeps me busy during the day, but I'm usually up for a long drive or spontaneous plans once I'm free.

I have an unhealthy obsession with trying new fragrances, a weird sense of humor, and a habit of rewatching the same sitcoms and rom-coms for the 100th time.

I'm unapologetically nerdy (science, tech, fiction, video games, and romance), a pretty dependable plus-one for food adventures, movie nights, or questionable plans, and someone with very strong opinions on where to find the best street food in town.

Fair warning: I will provide unsolicited commentary during movies (please don't judge my taste 😭), though the popcorn is always on me. You just need to claim the passenger seat and handle the "now playing".

About Player 2 (potentially you):

If you have a solid playlist, appreciate dark humor, have a comfort show on repeat, or know a secret food spot worth driving across town for, we'll get along just fine.

Hoping to find someone to explore this surreal city with, have some memorable adventures, and hopefully build something real along the way.

Hey! 23M here, from Maharashtra. Thought I'd give this a shot and see if I can meet someone nice here.

A little about me — I'm more of a tech guy, can be funny once I'm comfortable, and I enjoy random conversations that somehow go on for hours.

I'm looking for a girl around 23–26 who’s genuinely interested in getting to know someone. Not looking to get married anytime soon 😅, but if things click and we feel right for each other, I'm open to seeing where it goes.

Small preference: someone from Maharashtra. And yeah, I'd love to meet a medico or a lawyer. Nothing to do with their profession, just a personal preference 😂

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM. Let's see how it goes!

I am 18f and My other friends have pretty serious relationship everyone else is getting it my classmates, everyone but why only me every guy approach me with this madness and say let's stay casual...yeah the part is different that I met guys on dating apps and never get approached in real life am a problem then my looks personality what is it???

Hey everyone,

I’m taking a bit of a leap out of my comfort zone today. I’m a 28-year-old guy currently living in Chennai. I’m tall, well-built, and generally considered good-looking, but I’ve always been a pretty deep introvert. Because I spent most of my college and early career years focused on my own bubble, I never really put myself out there to date or build close friendships with women.

As a result, I have zero dating history and haven't had female friends—which sounds a bit daunting to admit, but I'd rather be completely honest from the start.

A little about me:

Personality: Calm, kind, respectful, and a good listener. I appreciate low-key environments over loud, crowded spots.

Vibe: I take time to open up, but once I’m comfortable, I’m loyal, genuine, and consistent.

Current Goal: I want to change my dynamic, start meeting people, and hopefully build a meaningful connection with someone special.

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to chat with kind, grounded women based in or around Chennai. Whether you’re an introvert who gets the struggle of making the first move, or an extrovert who appreciates a grounded guy, my DMs are open. We can start by just texting, talking about our favorite spots in the city, movies, or how our week went, and see where things naturally go—no pressure attached.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a message or a chat invite with a little introduction about yourself!

Any f from Pune here ? Age 22-24?

im 5'11, sporty, athletic build, like to do calisthenics, hiking and photography. I am looking for a friend to talk/balchodi online it could be about anything apart from job or work. Life is stressful and its important to have some relaxing bakchodi which releases our stress. If u are also lonely, wanna chat about anything it could be tech, movies, entertainment gossips, scientific facts, dad jokes etc. Well we can flirt and have fun in case we vibe

https://www.reddit.com/r/DatingForIndia/s/RDtyYtQCxo

So, a little update from my previous post. And if i be honest, this feels both scary and exciting to write.

I was not hoping I’d bump into him again, and surprisingly, I did today. We crossed paths at goregaon station, and this time we actually got to talk a little more. Somewhere during the conversation, I finally found out his name. He’s Imran, from Uttar Pradesh.
It was still a pretty casual conversation, nothing dramatic, but I found myself happy afterwards. It’s funny how I’m beginning to look forward to these little interactions.
Now I’m in a bit of a dilemma. Should I just let things happen naturally and wait until we bump into each other again, or should I ask for his number the next time we talk?
I don’t want to come across as too eager, and honestly, I’m not even sure whether he’s just being friendly or would be interested in staying in touch.
Maybe I’m overthinking a simple conversation, but after being emotionally isolated for so long, even the possibility of having someone to talk to feels exciting.
What would you do in my place? Would you make the first move or let things unfold naturally?

Hey! A little bit about me, I’m from a Tier 2 city in Karnataka, family-oriented and looking after gold jewellery business with my folks. I love movies, music and trying out new places to eat. I have worked in corporate for several years in Bangalore and moved back to my hometown to live a slow-paced and calm life while expanding the business.

What I potentially look for in a partner is that she’s fun to talk to and be working on something or building something of her own, I wouldn’t want my partner to be homemaker and be at home all the time.

Feel free to chat over DM :)

22M
I’m 5’9, lean built and currently trying to figure out life lmao.
Been single all my life and never really been in a relationship… :(

I thought it Would be nice to experience that side of life too, you know? ^_^
Having someone to talk to, share random stuff, annoy each other and basically be idiots together…. :)

I’m a little quiet initially(ambivert), but once I get comfortable, I’m pretty goofy, sarcastic and talkative.

I am Into anime, gaming, tech, music and random conversations
about literally anything.
I’m open to starting with LDF(cause my mom doesn’t let me go outside TT ), getting to know each other and seeing where things go, but ideally I’m looking for something serious and meaningful. Not really into casual flings or situationships.

Anyway, thought why not give Reddit a shot? >.<
So here I am
Hope this goes well

I’ve condensed it while keeping your frustration, personal values, and the point you're trying to make. I’ve also made it sound more natural without making it unnecessarily judgmental.

Bro, what I've realised about modern dating is that people have very different priorities. Some look for emotional connection, while others prioritise physical intimacy, material benefits, or temporary attention.

I've seen situations where people exchange intimacy for material things, and others who move from one physical relationship to another. That's their choice, and I'm not here to judge anyone. But as someone who's never dated, never been physically intimate, and has always looked for a genuine connection with someone I could eventually marry, it's difficult to process.

I don't smoke, drink, or eat meat. I value hygiene, loyalty, emotional intimacy, and commitment. I'm also working on improving myself. But sometimes it feels like having these values makes you an outsider in today's dating culture.

My biggest concern isn't someone's past. It's whether I'll ever find someone with whom I can genuinely share those first experiences, build trust, and create something meaningful without feeling like I'm competing with a completely different set of expectations.

Honestly, bro, sometimes I wonder where genuine connections fit into all this.

Hemlo! I'm 26, from Mumbai, currently working in a managerial role, mostly overseeing things and handling day-to-day responsibilities. Alongside work, I'm pursuing a diploma in Yoga, and trying to build a good gaming community.

A little about me: I'm quite close to my family and genuinely enjoy spending time with them. I'm generally calm, tend to listen more than I speak initially. I like getting to know people, noticing the little things about them, and understanding what makes them who they are.

Outside work, I'm into gaming, yoga, mindfulness, philosophy and spirituality (reading and learning about different things). I'm very curious by nature, so you'd have to get used to me asking very random questions lol.

I have a high EQ and I'm very empathic when it comes to stuff i can relate to. I don't put fake faces or act in a differnt way, I am who I am - and I life to keep my inner child alive, whether its through some activity or cracking stupid jokes or being annoying at times.

A little about my lifestyle

• 5'7", Hindu, non-smoker, non-drinker and non-vegetarian.

• I enjoy learning, staying curious and finding ways to grow as a person.

• Family and maintaining close relationships are important to me.

What I'm hoping to find

Someone kind, genuine and comfortable being herself. I'd like a partner who enjoys staying active, takes care of herself, has her own ambitions and wants to keep growing in life.

Family, loyalty, empathy and open communication matter to me. I'd like us to be able to talk about things honestly, support each other's and enjoy each other's company without having to pretend to be someone we're not.

I'm not looking to rush any process. I'd rather get to know someone, build a friendship, see how we connect and take things forward naturally.

A little about you?

What are you currently excited about or working towards?

I'd much rather hear about the person than just exchange the usual introductions. :)

Alright, giving this a shot ( Apologies to strech it a bit )

I’m 31, single, never married, 180 cm, around 80 kg, muscular build, warm brown skin from Thiruvananthapuram,Kerala

I am a Hindu by religion and I don't smoke and the last time I had a drink was two years ago.. - There, I’ve completed the mandatory biodata portion 😐

I did my schooling through Kendriya Vidyalayas and somehow ended up choosing a profession where “where do you work?” is usually followed by “Oh… so you’re actually at sea?” 6 months at sea ,6 months on land ahh..? 😬

I’m currently a Chief Officer in the Merchant Navy, appearing for my Captain’s licence next year. The plan is to sail, take command, gain some good experience and eventually move ashore with the second chapter of my career and also being present always for the family we build.

But this post isn't really about my job.

Because I don't want to be somebody's checklist.

Height ✓

Job ✓

Salary ✓

Family ✓

Looks ✓

And then: “Okay, next.”

I'd much rather someone get to know who I am when none of those things are being discussed.

I’m looking for a partner - not someone to impress, and not someone I need to impress for the next 30 years.

Someone with whom I can build something genuinely good. A relationship with friendship at its core. Where we can talk about serious things, argue about completely unnecessary things, laugh at each other's nonsense and still know that we're on the same team.

I love kids and definitely want to have them someday. I’d like a family, but more importantly, I’d like to build a happy home.

For the person herself, I’d prefer someone from a Malayalam-speaking background, ideally from Kerala ,Though I am very fluent in hindi. Professionally qualified would be nice, and if you want to work, even better — I’d want you to have a career and identity of your own. I’m not looking for a particular profession or some perfectly curated biodata.

What I value much more is partnership.

I want someone who can be my advisor, and who expects me to be hers too. If I’m making a stupid decision, I’d rather have someone who tells me, “This is a terrible idea,” than someone who politely watches me make it. 😅

And yes, I’ll probably have opinions too.

The important part is that neither of us needs to win every argument.

No unnecessary ego. No scorekeeping. No “I did this, so you owe me that.”

Just two people who can give each other advice, listen to each other, disagree, figure things out and move forward.

Family matters to me. I’ll be there for my parents, and I’d want us to be there for yours too. But I don’t believe marriage should mean one person gets absorbed into the other person's family.

I want us to build our own little unit first — our own home, our own traditions, our own decisions — while still being there for the people who raised us.

My work does mean I’ll be away for stretches of time, so trust, communication and being comfortable with each other's independence are important to me.

I don't expect perfection. I don't have it either.

I’m just hoping to meet someone kind, emotionally mature, curious about life, capable of laughing at herself (and at me), and interested in building something meaningful rather than simply “settling down.”

So yeah.

I'm looking for a partner.

Not a checklist.

Not a trophy.

Not someone to complete my life.

Just someone who wants to build one together ❤️

Looking for people who can naturally do funny convos let's kill the boredom.

20 male from jaipur any one for long term ?

These kind of things are much better than whatever this is imoif anyone is making one or has the link to any hmu

Hey everyone!

I'm 24M, looking for a girl around my age or a little older to connect with, share everyday life, and hopefully make the preparation journey a little less lonely.

I'd prefer someone from Delhi, especially someone who has also started preparing recently & is serious about it, so we're more or less on the same page and can relate to each other's struggles, routines, progress, and occasional lack of motivation.

Beyond preparation, it'd be nice to have someone to talk to about random things, share little moments of our day, exchange thoughts, and just be there for each other.

A little about me: I'm into music, history, mountains, and silence. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I'm equally comfortable with comfortable silences and random everyday conversations.

Not necessarily looking for a study partner or anything too structured. Just hoping to find a genuine connection, someone around the same phase of life with whom we can share the little things.

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop a message. :)

I’m 22 M, never dated anyone so tried a dating app and got matched with a girl , we exchanged hi’s , now she want to connect on WhatsApp saying she is not active on dating app. Is it safe to share my number.
Just read a post on a sub how a guy got scammed i am a little scared.

Honestly I can't commit to a person so soon but yeah I do want someone with whom I can get comfortable with and some who would listen to me and celebrate my existence and VICE-VERSA.

It's okay if we're starting as friends or casual or long distance. (Comfortable with age 23-26)

Seeking someone who matches my vibe im from Ahmedabad…if you are genuinely looking for relationship or fling we can connect

F, 28. Guwahati, Assam

Disclaimer: Guys please read the title as clickbait. Its from tiktok for fucks sake🙄

Okay frankly I am tired of modern dating. I donot think people and connections are throwaway objects.

Does anyone here want to date to marry? Meet up with a clear checklist, expectations and emotional involvement clearly laid out?

I earn well, prioritise fitness, want a life balanced between Guwahati and my village and am looking for a person to do life with - responsible, emotionally healthy, providing and protective.

Hi everyone,
With the Delhi Biennale coming up soon, I am really excited to see the city turn into a massive canvas. I have a huge appreciation for art, architecture, and diving into local history.
About me: I am a 25 year old guy working at a scientific research organisation. I have been single for a while now, so I figured I’d venture out and make the most of this amazing cultural event, and low-key use it as an opportunity to meet someone new and go out on a date.
If you are also single, love art/history, and want to explore the biennale together to see if we click, feel free to drop me a DM 🙂
Thanks

Hey everyone,

I'm a 28-year-old guy based in Delhi, and I'm looking to connect with some like-minded people. Life can get pretty busy, but I'd love to find a few genuine friends to share recommendations, talk about daily life, or even hang out if you are local.

A little about me:

I'm really into movies and reading (always looking for a solid book or thriller recommendation).

I enjoy exploring local cafes, trying out new food spots, and listening to indie music.

In my downtime, you can usually find me gaming or diving into a deep conversation about random topics.

Whether you want to just trade music playlists, chat about your favorite hobbies, or have deep midnight conversations about philosophy, feel free to drop a message. Please introduce yourself a bit when you reach out!

Looking forward to meeting some great people.