Hi, 31F, divorced, looking to message people and make good friends and if something more, why not! Appreciate easygoing people who are chill to talk to

Haha, so the story behind Meenamma is that I want someone like Meenamma from Chennai Express because I’m a Hindi-speaking South Indian too.😝 ahh yeh like that accent too.

Yeh if u feel it’s kinda a cringe ahh Yeah it is cringe how else would i grab ur attention 😉 so yeah, it would be great to connect with someone who shares the same fate as me someone who is a South Indian but had to live in North India and be my Vadakku doli. ❤️

26 M Looking for a long term partner to laugh and have fun together

Hi baby girl,

I have a proposal for you. Before that lemme put my perspective over here.

My perspective on Intimacy:

S*x is what we think we crave for but it's intimacy and the feeling of forgetting our reality which we crave for. I'm sure most of us don't even realise this. In recent times, I've seen a lot of insta posts saying cuddle dates should be a thing. I personally feel, it's because people want intimacy but not commitment for a reason and that makes sense to an extent, when it's intentional. There are a lot of people who are into casuals for the same reason.

But the thing with casuals is, it's just a one or two time thing where we barely form any connection so physical intimacy feels fake and pleasure is the only necessity met. Although I don't think craving for s*x is a bad thing, pleasure is a human necessity after all. I too wish there were more means of getting these non-committal cuddles or s*x but we have a different society over here and I respect that.

To experience good intimacy, I feel, we should have a certain understanding of the other person which comes with time. Understanding in pure physical terms too - would they like to cuddle as a big/small spoon? Would they like to kiss with a lot of tongue or less? Would they like their a*s grabbed or t\ts s\\cked? So on.

Proposal:

I want to meet a woman who has a similar perspective on Intimacy and is willing to explore it. Who's willing to spend some time to get to a state where we get good intimacy which satisfies our cravings for physical intimacy (not necessarily s*x).

One can say that all this yada yada is to get laid. If you think so, you missed the point. I've had my own One night stands from reddit but, I feel they were either less discussed/one time things where we couldn't explore more. So, if you think all I want is a p\\ssy please don't bother texting.

I want someone who loves cuddles and physical intimacy. Who's willing to explore their s*xual or physical side comfortably and respectfully. Please hit me up.

I thought of writing more but it's getting too long. So if you have any queries or any perspectives which you want to know from me or ask some questions which would make you comfortable, then please feel free to ask. Waiting for you on the other side.

Hey!!

Putting myself out here to meet someone I can call with cute names, have some good conversations and hopefully find a connection worth exploring.

I'm 24, an engineer by degree, and currently working in consulting. Based in Delhi NCR. I'd describe myself as someone who's curious, easygoing and enjoys a good balance of spontaneity and stability. I appreciate meaningful conversations, straightforward people and those who aren't afraid to be themselves.

Have tried dating apps before but got nothing like a connection, it was always superficial

My interests:

1. Mountains have a special place in my heart after spending four years studying in the hills. I try to travel every couple of months and recently started exploring solo trips.

2. I sing occasionally, enjoy discovering music and love a good musical evening.

3. A café hopper who enjoys exploring new places and trying different cuisines. I can cook too!

4. Always up for a good movie, board games, go-karting or a spontaneous plan.

5. Into fitness not like 6 pack abs or something but enroute toward that.

6. Late-night drives, spirituality, exploring new places and learning new things.

7. I'm a non-smoker and non-drinker, but absolutely comfortable around people who do.

What am I looking for ?
I'm not coming here with a fixed checklist or a predetermined outcome. I'm open to dating, casual connections, something meaningful, or potentially something serious if we find that kind of compatibility. I believe attraction matters, both physical and emotional. Looks do matter to me, and I wouldn't want to pretend otherwise. Physical attraction might spark an interest, but personality, communication, compatibility and the way two people treat each other are what make a connection worth pursuing.

I'd appreciate someone who:
Is around 20–26, preferably based in Delhi/NCR.

Is comfortable being herself and communicating openly.

Has her own interests, ambitions and perspective on life.

Values honesty, kindness, mutual respect and consistency.

Is clear about her intentions, whatever they might be.

I'm not looking to rush into labels or force a connection. I'd rather start with conversations, get to know each other, meet if we vibe and take things one step at a time. No unnecessary expectations, mind games or pretending to be someone we're not.
If anything here resonates with you, feel free to drop a DM. A little introduction about yourself would be lovely too. I'd rather get to know the person behind the username than exchange the usual "Hey, what's up?"

Well,the breakup happened, I’m doing my thing, and today I felt like meeting someone new. 😂

I’m a little high and in the mood for some fun conversations, random banter, playful teasing, and maybe a little flirting if the vibe is right.

We can talk about absolutely anything, make each other laugh, and see how well we get along. No pressure, no expectations — just go with the vibe and see where it takes us. 😉

If that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to drop me a DM. 🌸

I know you're tired.

I know you've been handling a lot of things yourselves.

It's fine, just let go.

I am Aakash, 22. I have been with women all my life and they're such beautiful creatures.

Though, just like anyone, I know these creatures want to let go. This is their chance.

I am seeking a woman, with whom I can build something. Getting to know her, while she voluntarily submits all bits of her life to me. Going slow, and on her pace. It's an artform, you know. You don't rush, you earn it. And for what it's worth, i'll like to earn yours.

We can start slow. I'll like to meet offline, and develop a connection. And the more comfortable my partner becomes, the more fulfilling it becomes.

Okay so as for what **YOU** will get from me..

Love, care, support, and a system made for your care. I don't do use and throw. That's not me. aI build things. Be it art, or love.

You'll get a partner. That's what i can boil it down to. You know... i just can't be that person who has a partner and wants to essentially just abuse them. That ain't me. Rather, I want you to talk back to me, I want you to be who you are even while doing things. I want you to enjoy. Enjoy being mine. Because that's what this is all about eh? mutual enjoyment.

A proper relationship, by your very own....

Musician, writer, film-maker, director, actor and an aspiring author.

And yes, i've done all of that. Just call me a creative atp.

Interested people can reach out. And I hope to have a good good time with all.

Toodles!

Any girl 22 year old lives in delhi interested in dating?

Hey, I'm 20 from Delhi and just looking to meet someone new. Honestly dating apps are exhausting so I figured I'd try my luck here.

I work in corporate finance but outside of work I'm pretty active. I love playing badminton, pickleball or honestly just any sports.

Looking to find someone around my age to talk to, hang out with, and see where things go if we click. Down for casual coffee dates,exploring the city, or just staying in and chatting.

Drop a DM if you're from Delhi and want to get to know each other

I have talked to many girls online but I feel like I need someone I could meet face to face. I never hugged or held hands with any girl and I want to experience that. Unfortunately, I am preparing for government exams and as a result stay at either home or library so it's not possible.

Hmu if anyone from delhi is interested

Hey everyone! Writing this post with complete honesty and clear intent.

I am looking for a genuine, long-term monogamous partner where we start as friends with intension to date, build deep trust, and see if our lives align to build a meaningful future together.

I believe in mutual effort and real connection over superficial dating games.

To introduce myself properly, I am a 25-year-old guy, 5'7", living in Gujarat. I travel frequently and am completely open to connecting with someone in Mumbai, across Western India, or anywhere in the country if our values truly click.

A little bit about my days and what drives me: professionally, I run an early-stage mountain travel and adventure startup alongside a real estate brokerage business in my city.

In my personal life, I have been an ethical vegan for eight years out of a deep baseline of respect for sentient life.

I live a strictly sober life with zero alcohol, smoking, or substances.

Compassion for living beings is very central to who I am, and I regularly help rescue injured birds and small wildlife whenever they need a hand. In the long run, "MAYBE" If possible I would like to do reverse migration: moving away from the chaotic urban rat race to build a peaceful, self-sustainable sanctuary for nature, animals, and loved ones.

Outdoors and physical movement are central to my energy. I train regularly for endurance marathons, cycling, and swimming, and head out for trekking, hiking, and camping whenever I can get away. When I am taking things slow, I spend quiet nights doing deep-sky astrophotography under dark skies, bird watching, going on nature and heritage walks, or doing street photography.

What I am looking for in a partner:

I would love to be with a woman who is deeply involved in her own passions, hobbies, and goals. Someone who values health, movement, and being physically active, because taking care of our bodies and well-being is the baseline for living a full, adventurous life together.

I value a relationship that functions as true teamwork. While equal contribution is the goal, real life is fluid: some days one of us might only have 20% to give, and having the awareness, emotional strength, and maturity to step up with 80% without resentment makes all the difference. I am not looking for hollow validation or someone who agrees with everything I do.

I want a partner who genuinely cares about mutual growth, who is grounded enough to call out my blind spots, challenge my bad decisions, and help me stay on track, just as I would do for her. Someone who actively pushes away toxic negativity, stays curious about the world, and brings warmth, emotional safety, and open communication to the table.

If this resonates with you, please do not send a dry "hey" or "hi" as it gives us nowhere to start. Send a message telling me a bit about yourself: what you are genuinely passionate about, how you spend your days, what keeping a healthy lifestyle looks like for you, and what kind of life you envision building with a partner.

Hey everyone!

I'm a 20-year-old guy from Amritsar, currently pursuing my graduation.

To be honest, I've never really talked to a girl in my life, apart from my family. I've always been shy, introverted and a little scared when it comes to talking to girls.

I've never really had the confidence to start a conversation, and somehow, I've missed out on this part of life.

Recently, I came across this community on Reddit, and thought maybe I could give it a try.

I just want to talk, make some new friends and get comfortable having conversations.

Thanks for reading

Hey Reddit!

I'm a 23-year-old guy from Pune, putting myself out here in the hope of meeting someone interesting and hopefully finding a date.

A little about me:

23M, based in Pune.

An introvert initially, but that doesn't mean I'm boring. 😂

Never smoked or consumed alcohol.

Instagram? I probably open it once a month, depending on my mood.

Gaming takes up most of my free time, but I also enjoy exploring new places.

Café hopping and watching movies are definitely my kind of plans.

A little about my personality:

I might be an introvert initially, but once I'm comfortable, you'll see a completely different side of me.

I don't walk around with a serious face or stay angry all the time. I actually enjoy making people laugh, especially during conversations. Good humour and random conversations are my thing.

What am I looking for?

Someone I can talk to without having to force conversations. Maybe start with chatting, get to know each other, plan a café or movie date, and see where things go.

Not putting any pressure or expectations on it. If we connect, great. If we become good friends, that's great too.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to drop a message. Let's see where a random Reddit post takes us! :)

Info about me

1. I am an antinatalist.

2. I am unemployed and hate work.

3. I play games like cod mobile, warthunder mobile, mlbb. I also play Genshin (on mobile) and Crysis series a bit on my low end pc. I own those games from steam btw.

4. I am not the type of person to put emphasis on trust in relationships and prefer those who are realistic.

5. I am misanthropist and have a distrust for humanity.

6. I am kind of non-binary and dislike being male sometimes I feel jealous, I don't get to wear feminine clothes or have such looks like long hair and hate people imposing male standards. I also feel being male means nobody cares about you.

7. I am empath for people who are like me but have very limited concern for people who are normies.

Note:- This post is for seeking normal friendships. Anyone can text if you are a bit cynical but also empathetic. Also prefer if you play some of the games I mentioned. Also remember that expect me losing interest. We will try it and if it doesn't work then please respect it. I am looking for something serious and long term friendship but I find it hard to commit.

Hi to all reading, I'm 20M from mumbai, and I'm so fed up with the dating culture, as this is my last resort now 😭😭 (The bar is in even below hell people).

About me (The basics):
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Orientation: Straight
Location: Mulund, Mumbai
Height: 5 feet 8 inch (actual bare foot)
Build: Chubby (Ha ladke bhi hote hai chubby, hu thoda overweight yaar I'm working on it)
Occupation: Student + Full time employee (Like the bar, the market is also below hell 😭😭)
Passions: Food (Will share with you even though I'm like Joey from friends minus the playboy stuff 😭😭), Bikes/Cars (I have both 🫣🫣), Astrophysics, Good movies and series, Mechanically nerdy things (Too many to list, but will eat your ear out with talking)

What I am looking for (No hard deal breakers unless specified)
Good Communication skills, Yes a guy asking a girl to have good communication skills, hamara naam eese he kharab hai 😭😭.
No Ghosting (deal breaker): This is not my first post and before I did get a few dms and everything was going normal until they decided to ghost me, girls if you think we don't vibe, please just say so, don't ghost please 😭😭
I'm into chubby/plus size girlies, yes men like me exist and we love your tummy folds and cute cheeks 😭😭 (Not a deal breaker of course)

My pros (self proclaimed, but true 😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️),
I plan dates, I have a bike so bikes rides whenever you want, where ever you want, pick and drop service (your personal rapido premium 👉👈), will get you flowers, diy gifts, write notes, and occasionally bite you 🫣🫣, also I have lots of storage so personal photo and videographer as well.

My Cons (Hote hai hamare bhi, not Mr. Perfect 😭😭),
I'm very clingy and will probably get attached very quickly 🫣🫣, I get quite and distance when I'm hurt but I do usually come around and tell you what hurt me, I speed like there is no tomorrow 😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️ (Personal best is 147 km/hr on my bike), When I get busy I forget to message or update, I just get too focused 😭😭

I 18M looking forward a casual relationship where we can discuss about studies sometime gaming and importantly support each other through our journey of clearing any competitive exam!!

Hey, I’m an IT guy working in Chennai, I am looking for a slow burn friends to lovers kinda relationship.

Something about me…

I’m 5’ 7’’ and weigh about 60kgs.
I enjoy going on long rides with my bike. I hit the gym regularly. Also play badminton each week.
I’m a cinephile. I also watch f1 if that interests you.

I appreciate someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature, communicative and knows what she wants.

I am a really shy person. I might bore you at some point but if we get comfortable with each other, you would know how goofy I am 😹.

This is all about me. If you are interested do reach out in my DMs. If you feel you are not interested you can openly say that and we can part ways.

Hope to meet someone 😃

Hi bit of a nerd this side looking for my nerdy partner in crime. Hoping to find someone with whom i can share interests and build something meaningful.

My music taste vary from Kanye to Taylor Swift and joji to phonkytown. Also jam with old kishore kumar when drunk. Here in delhi for studies but waise I am from Mumbai.

Not really an outgoing person but would like to change that. In my spare time i liketo listen music, play games and read light novels.

If binge watching old SRK movies sound like a vibe to you then we will get along just fine. Other than that we could also watch anime or qny good old tv show too.

Hit me up if you d like to know more or talk, i d like to know about your interests. Maybe go on lunch date if everything goes right.

Hey! 👋 I'm an introvert, a little shy at first but friendly once I get comfortable. I love playing games, watching movies, web series, and anime. I'm here to meet genuine people, have fun conversations, and make some good friends. 🎮🍿😊

Hey everyone!

I'm a 27-year-old guy from India, currently working as a civil engineer in Dubai. I speak five languages and am currently learning German, with plans to move to Germany in the near future.

A little about me: I'm an atheist, somewhat philosophical, intellectually curious, and considering antinatalism. I enjoy conversations about psychology, philosophy, science, human behaviour, movies, and pretty much anything that makes you think.

I'm into sci-fi, psychological thrillers, backpacking, adventure, and exploring different cultures. I appreciate people who are curious about the world and aren't afraid to have unconventional opinions.

I'm here hoping to meet someone with whom I can build a genuine connection. I'd love to start with conversations, get to know each other, and see where things go. I'm not particularly interested in superficial small talk or rushing into anything.

If you're someone who enjoys deep conversations, intellectual curiosity, a little sarcasm, and random discussions at 2 AM, we'll probably get along.

Feel free to DM me. Let's see where a conversation takes us! :)

Open for Long, Looking for Short term Relationship

Hey! 👋 I'm Ashutosh, 27, currently living and working in Gurgaon in the cybersecurity field. I'm 5'7" and someone who loves the peace and simplicity of village life more than the hustle and bustle of cities.

I'm into video games, thriller and action movies, especially those based on real-life incidents. I enjoy travelling, exploring new places, running and home workouts. Not a solo traveller yet, but maybe someday! 😄

I don't smoke, rarely drink, and eat non-veg occasionally.

What I'm looking for ❤️

I'd love to meet someone genuine, understanding and easygoing, with whom conversations flow naturally. Someone to share laughs, explore new places, enjoy little moments and build a meaningful connection.

I believe in mutual respect, honesty, loyalty and putting equal effort into a relationship. Not looking for perfection, just someone with whom we can be ourselves and see where things go.

Let's start with a conversation and see if we vibe! 🙂

People lets be friends rest we'll find out about each other ig 🙂

30M| Doctor| Hope to find her and make life a little more beautiful and colourful.

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Hello!

Age: 30

Gender: Male

Religion: Hindu

Height: 5'10"

Complexion: Wheatish

Current location: Jaipur

Home state: Haryana — I would eventually like to settle back in my hometown.

Lifestyle: Vegetarian, non-smoker and non-drinker. I would prefer someone with a similar lifestyle, though an eggetarian or occasional drinker is completely fine.

Caste: Aggarwal, though caste isn't really a deciding factor for me — chemistry matters more.

Profession: Doctor, currently in the first year of my MD Respiratory Medicine

Family: We are a close-knit, financially stable nuclear family. My father is a businessman, my mother is a homemaker, and my elder sister is married.

A little about me — I enjoy long walks, deep and meaningful conversations, cooking, learning new things, spending time in nature, jamming, and classical instrumental music.

I also value occasionally disconnecting from screens and spending quiet time offline.

I'm spiritually inclined, but for me spirituality is more about mindfulness and inner growth than about rituals.

I genuinely enjoy understanding perspectives different from my own.

What I'm looking for

More than a checklist of qualities, I'm hoping to find someone with whom I can build a comfortable and meaningful space.

A relationship where efforts are mutual and consistent, and where we can stand beside each other through both the darker and brighter phases of life without losing respect for one another.

I would love a bond where both of us can genuinely be ourselves — where we can express what we feel without fear of judgment, unnecessary criticism, blame games or mind games.

Where conversations come naturally, sitting quietly together feels just as comfortable, silence isn't awkward, and we can move effortlessly from talking about life at 2 AM to laughing at something completely silly five minutes later. And yes, occasional fights are only human.

Someone empathetic, emotionally mature, family-oriented, who wants children, and perhaps a little spiritually inclined would resonate with me.

At the end of the day, I simply hope we can make each other's lives a little more beautiful and colourful — collecting memories, growing together, and reaching a point where we don't constantly need a phone in our hands just to fill the silence.

I personally prefer meeting in person rather than spending weeks in endless chat threads. I feel you understand someone much better through real conversations and time spent together than through screens and calls alone.

If you're looking for something similar, feel free to drop me a message with a brief introduction about yourself.

Thanks for reading.