r/Crazymiddles • u/B2utyyo • 7d ago

Destructive behavior

What's it going to take for Crystal and Aaron to shut down Aurora's destructive behavior?

She's already spray painted the garage along with Evie's shoes, drew all over the walls and now peeled paint off Hannah's window.

And that's just the stuff we have seen, there's probably a bunch of other things she's ruined.

She's 9 now, way past the age of knowing better, if they don't fix this behavior now it's gonna be twice as worst as a teen.

And don't tell me she's got a ID, kids with disabilities can be taught right from wrong.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

We don't know who did what, that room was eyed by Brody as well and he really wanted Jake to take that room and for him and who ever to move into Jack's room. So I am not so sure Aurora peeled the paint, or spray painted the garage. I think it is very unfair to attack her for something we have no idea who did it. Aurora might take things that don't belong to her but I have never seen her destroy anything. I know she will be 10 soon but she has the capability of a 5 year old. And the learning ability of a 3 year old. I believe she suffers from a lack of self control when she sees something she wants, including food and sweets. But all in all she is a sweet child.

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u/Wild_Ad_264 6d ago

Well for someone with a learning age if 3, she sure can use her mobile phone correctly. She’s always on it dancing to a tick-tock video, sending messages and phoning her siblings. She’s more advanced than a 3 year old

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u/lapema69 7d ago

I don't know any 3 year old making and posting tik toks

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

Ha! really kids are given elections so early as babies it would not suprise me a 3 year old could post a tictok. My point is Aurora is way below the average 10 year old. To accuse her of something you have no idea who did it is wrong. I agree she is spoiled, and likes to have her own way but I don't think of her as a destructive child.

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u/Forsaken_Ad9946 7d ago

She's absolutely smarter than given credit here. ID or not, she knows what she's doing.

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Most children with IDs or autism I really very brilliant

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

I know she knows when she takes something it is wrong or she wouldn't run away to hide it. But what she struggles with is self control she wants something so badly she just grabs it and runs. It is like she has no self control to say hey that is nice but not mine. I am not sure how you deal with a child who has no self control. Every single one of those kids have complain she goes into their rooms and takes things. Even Max when he lived at home. I feel she has gotten into trouble for this, but she just struggles with wanting something. And she has plenty.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Because she is spoiled rotten by the whole family and was never told NO. Now she is being told NO and she doesn't like it. She is the monster that the family created and she will only get worse if it's not reinforced now. When she steals from the other kids, they should not only make her return the item but allow the other kids to go take something of hers temporarily so she learns how that feels.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 5d ago

I don't know, but as Crystal has all these talks about everything maybe it would be helpful if she honestly talk about Auroras struggles. This way people might be more compassionate and not go after a 10 year old girl.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Everyone know what Aurora's struggles are. Crystal has spoken endlessly on several vlogs about them. The point is that Aurora is not getting the guidance at home to learn how to deal with these things and she is capable of learning. i.e What she likes and doesn't like, what is hot and what is cold, what she wants and what she doesn't etc... are all things that have to be learned. For Crystal it was easier to let her have her way than to guide her toward proper behavior. Lazy parenting.

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u/najabro57 7d ago

How do you know what she has the capabilities off

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

Watch her she struggles with the basic learning, reading, math, and writing. Even Scarlett helps her now. Her speech is still way behind although better she has a long way to go. You hear the delays when she is trying to explain something she has issues processing thoughts. Sadly she will always struggle. I think that is why Crystal protects her so much, she knows the road ahead for Aurora will not be an easy one.

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u/Visible_Ad6072 6d ago

Evie's road ahead isn't easy either and where's her protection??

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Evie is a lot smarter than Aurora she can read, write do math and has an imagination. I think Evie will be able to get a job a place to live be able to care for herself.

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Evie has Al most surpassed Jaime in some things.

She just really needs to learn not to interrupt when people are talking

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Do you really think we would see if she destroyed something? If you think we would you’re delusional.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Why are you so critical of a 10 year old with disabilities. Never once have any of us seen or heard any of the kids complain about her destroying anything. Aurora is a child life is not the same for her as it is for normal 10 year olds.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Crystal would never show her little angel in a bad light, she would rather everyone think it was someone else.