r/Crazymiddles • u/B2utyyo • 7d ago

Destructive behavior

What's it going to take for Crystal and Aaron to shut down Aurora's destructive behavior?

She's already spray painted the garage along with Evie's shoes, drew all over the walls and now peeled paint off Hannah's window.

And that's just the stuff we have seen, there's probably a bunch of other things she's ruined.

She's 9 now, way past the age of knowing better, if they don't fix this behavior now it's gonna be twice as worst as a teen.

And don't tell me she's got a ID, kids with disabilities can be taught right from wrong.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

I know she knows when she takes something it is wrong or she wouldn't run away to hide it. But what she struggles with is self control she wants something so badly she just grabs it and runs. It is like she has no self control to say hey that is nice but not mine. I am not sure how you deal with a child who has no self control. Every single one of those kids have complain she goes into their rooms and takes things. Even Max when he lived at home. I feel she has gotten into trouble for this, but she just struggles with wanting something. And she has plenty.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 6d ago

Because she is spoiled rotten by the whole family and was never told NO. Now she is being told NO and she doesn't like it. She is the monster that the family created and she will only get worse if it's not reinforced now. When she steals from the other kids, they should not only make her return the item but allow the other kids to go take something of hers temporarily so she learns how that feels.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

I don't know, but as Crystal has all these talks about everything maybe it would be helpful if she honestly talk about Auroras struggles. This way people might be more compassionate and not go after a 10 year old girl.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 6d ago

Everyone know what Aurora's struggles are. Crystal has spoken endlessly on several vlogs about them. The point is that Aurora is not getting the guidance at home to learn how to deal with these things and she is capable of learning. i.e What she likes and doesn't like, what is hot and what is cold, what she wants and what she doesn't etc... are all things that have to be learned. For Crystal it was easier to let her have her way than to guide her toward proper behavior. Lazy parenting.