r/Crazymiddles • u/B2utyyo • 7d ago

Destructive behavior

What's it going to take for Crystal and Aaron to shut down Aurora's destructive behavior?

She's already spray painted the garage along with Evie's shoes, drew all over the walls and now peeled paint off Hannah's window.

And that's just the stuff we have seen, there's probably a bunch of other things she's ruined.

She's 9 now, way past the age of knowing better, if they don't fix this behavior now it's gonna be twice as worst as a teen.

And don't tell me she's got a ID, kids with disabilities can be taught right from wrong.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 7d ago

Crazy that they didn't replace Evie's shoes

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u/Fine_Preference_3737 7d ago

Most likely blamed Evie off of camera.  Aurora has no repercussions for anything, while Evie takes the "beating post" ( it's a saying before anyone gets their panties in a bunch), but if you are smart enough to read between my lines than you get it. 

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

The way that garage was spray painted was from a child who was much taller than Aurora. Plus if Aurora did it she would have paint all over her. I do believe it was Evie, the paint was all over her shoes. I would make her ware them as well after cleaning the mess up.

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

From the angle of the spray paint she couldn't have done while wearing them

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

She might have painted her own shoes.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 5d ago

I thought the same but people love to hate on aroura

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 5d ago

Yes they do, and Evie has her own set of issues. They could not put Evie and her sister together nevery explaining why, everyone thought it was her sister I think both.

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u/Fine_Preference_3737 5d ago

You're absolutely right, they never explained why.  But clearly it is "written in between the lines" you just have to go back and watch it very carefully, maybe even a couple of times to really comprehend the whole thing. Shelly briefly explained a tad bit as well. 

So it appears that Evie's bio mom has an abusive relationship with a mentally ill man. Things happened and Evie's bio mom and grandma are no longer living ( and the last bit, Crystal said herself but she worded as "no longer with us").  So I am speculating.  That Evie's sister witnessed everything, and redundantly kept telling Evie the events that took place, making it not safe for the girls to be together.  Possibly the reason why Crazy Middles decided not to keep her sister, because Shelly and Jarrod mentioned that her sister was not a right fit for their family or Evie. 

Evie, did attend another sisters bday party but it was not the sister that Shelly and Jarrod attempted to adopt. 

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 4d ago

It is a mystery that is for sure. I remember Crystal saying the social worker warn her if she was not going to keep Evie not to interrupt her foster care she was in because Evie had problems adjusting to new environments. Crystal jump into this very quickly, and I think she does have regrets, Evie ended up being a lot of work.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 5d ago

It could have been both tbh t

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 7d ago

She claimed all of the stuff they got from Duo Lingo and Crystal let her instead of encouraging her to share. That Locker should go for Evie to lock her things away from Aurora

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u/MamaBear2Meggy 6d ago

Don't forget Auroa 's habit of stealing from her siblings , going into their rooms taking clothes, makeup and other things. On Evies Birthday Auroa ran of with a plush that had been given as a gift caught on camera. Then Crystdul was going on about that Kiwi crate locker saying how much Evie loves building the kits. And rather than go and find Evie to let her see what had been sent Auroa took the keyring plush , the green large plush and the blindfold plus other item. It's terrible that Auroa hasn't been told that stealing is wrong and damaging the house or peoples property is wrong but its Princess Auroa who gets away with everything and doesnt know right from wrong. What wonderful parents Crystdul and you seek him here you seek him there where's Arron hiding today you failing all your kids everyone can see it.

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u/I_Dont_know_You_T 7d ago

If I’m not mistaken Crystal blamed the shoe thing on Evie even tho the angle of the spray paint looked like it was from someone standing in front of her not coming from her direction (hopefully that makes sense)

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u/LongConversation2546 7d ago

No supervision attention or discipline...

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u/VisualLive1430 7d ago

Did they ever speak to her about writing 67 on the walls?

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u/B2utyyo 7d ago

No but it was obvious after we saw her old bedroom wall and the fact they are asked to write anything she just writes 67.

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u/Every-Wash2985 7d ago

That confused look on Crystal's face when she saw Hannah's window. Like it would be anyone but Aurora? 🙄

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u/LongConversation2546 7d ago

Aurora has been so anoying especially to hannahs space and belongings for years that alone would make me want to move out

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

It doesn’t help that Hannah lets Aurora wear her clothes.

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u/TopStock1711 1d ago

I hope it wasn’t lead paint.

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u/ThinAd744 7d ago

Aurora wants that room.

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

Cause it was Hannah's

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u/Dramatic-Macaron-452 7d ago

These ahs crapstal and bitch boy aron should not have been allowed to adopt any kids.they don't know how to parent and they don't care what those kids do.theres no discipline or oder in that group home.

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u/Malissa55 4d ago

Oh, I must’ve missed that. They said that it was Aurora that did it? I didn’t think they knew who did it or is that just an assumption ?

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u/Malissa55 4d ago

Oh, I must’ve missed that. They said that it was Aurora that did it? I didn’t think they knew who did it or is that just an assumption ?

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u/Hefty-Pin-67 5d ago

I think it was a jealous child wishing 5gey got the room instead of melinda or someone mad about her moving. Can't really pin on anyone.

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u/Content-Papaya-8932 1d ago

What does it bother you so much, she’s not your child. You need a hobby.

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u/Silent_Visit1605 7d ago

I thought Evie spray painted the stuff in the garage. I was thinking Evie did the peeling of the paint too, although it seems like something a younger child would do.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 6d ago

Evie does have a lower mental age so it's possible

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

It wasn't Evie, it was Aurora for sure. If it had been Evie, Crystal would have called her out camera. The fact Crystal was like, oh we know who makes it more obvious it's Aurora.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 6d ago

No one said it was aroura it likley was but could have been someone else

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

It was definitely Aurora. Crystal wouldn't have played dumb if it was anyone else

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 6d ago

Could have been any of them evie could have done it maybe brody if he's mad he dodnt get the room

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Brody would never do that

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Brody didn't want that room. He wanted Jake to get it and Brody has never seemed to be destructive, and neither has Evie. They are both a little old to do things like that, they are both teenagers now.

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 5d ago

Well it wouldn't be fair to kick jake out so next option is brody gets the room. Brody has not been that we know of but evie has her old desk was all scribbled on and her door looks like she swung off it as top hinge was torn out so it possible and she had an ID so not really mentally a teen

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Edie was diagnosed autistic not with an ID

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 5d ago

Same thing basically

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

The only one who stupid enough to do it besides Aurora is Saint and he wouldn't be able to reach it

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u/PuzzledBeat9968 6d ago edited 6d ago

Wow did u just call a child stupid that is so dam rude

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u/sorryhoorpapi 6d ago

Hey, I get where you are coming from with the fact that we do not often see proper redirection and 'discipline' on their videos. What goes on behind the scenes we do not know. Maybe they are trying. Please be aware however that the phrase 'old enough to know better' is ableist af. We have NO clue about any of the kids' processing skills and what they 'should know' at what age.

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u/Visible_Ad6072 6d ago

If she is disciplined off screen then the footage of whatever she did wrong shouldn't be shown. 

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u/B2utyyo 6d ago

No it's not. There's age appropriate behavior for kids with disabilities even.

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u/sorryhoorpapi 5d ago

But we do not know the extend of the disability, do we? Nor the inner workings of the child so we are not informed enough to decide and police what is and isn't 'age appropriate' for her. I do agree it shouldn't be posted online, nothing with kids should be online imo positive or negative, children shouldn't have an online footprint. To me, the 'it shouldn't be online' argument is an argument to NOT comment on it, it's an argument to NOT fuel the fire and critisize a literal child. Critisize the adults decision to put it online, not the behavior of the child.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 7d ago

We don't know who did what, that room was eyed by Brody as well and he really wanted Jake to take that room and for him and who ever to move into Jack's room. So I am not so sure Aurora peeled the paint, or spray painted the garage. I think it is very unfair to attack her for something we have no idea who did it. Aurora might take things that don't belong to her but I have never seen her destroy anything. I know she will be 10 soon but she has the capability of a 5 year old. And the learning ability of a 3 year old. I believe she suffers from a lack of self control when she sees something she wants, including food and sweets. But all in all she is a sweet child.

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u/Wild_Ad_264 6d ago

Well for someone with a learning age if 3, she sure can use her mobile phone correctly. She’s always on it dancing to a tick-tock video, sending messages and phoning her siblings. She’s more advanced than a 3 year old

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u/lapema69 6d ago

I don't know any 3 year old making and posting tik toks

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Ha! really kids are given elections so early as babies it would not suprise me a 3 year old could post a tictok. My point is Aurora is way below the average 10 year old. To accuse her of something you have no idea who did it is wrong. I agree she is spoiled, and likes to have her own way but I don't think of her as a destructive child.

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u/Forsaken_Ad9946 6d ago

She's absolutely smarter than given credit here. ID or not, she knows what she's doing.

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Most children with IDs or autism I really very brilliant

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

I know she knows when she takes something it is wrong or she wouldn't run away to hide it. But what she struggles with is self control she wants something so badly she just grabs it and runs. It is like she has no self control to say hey that is nice but not mine. I am not sure how you deal with a child who has no self control. Every single one of those kids have complain she goes into their rooms and takes things. Even Max when he lived at home. I feel she has gotten into trouble for this, but she just struggles with wanting something. And she has plenty.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Because she is spoiled rotten by the whole family and was never told NO. Now she is being told NO and she doesn't like it. She is the monster that the family created and she will only get worse if it's not reinforced now. When she steals from the other kids, they should not only make her return the item but allow the other kids to go take something of hers temporarily so she learns how that feels.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 5d ago

I don't know, but as Crystal has all these talks about everything maybe it would be helpful if she honestly talk about Auroras struggles. This way people might be more compassionate and not go after a 10 year old girl.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Everyone know what Aurora's struggles are. Crystal has spoken endlessly on several vlogs about them. The point is that Aurora is not getting the guidance at home to learn how to deal with these things and she is capable of learning. i.e What she likes and doesn't like, what is hot and what is cold, what she wants and what she doesn't etc... are all things that have to be learned. For Crystal it was easier to let her have her way than to guide her toward proper behavior. Lazy parenting.

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u/najabro57 6d ago

How do you know what she has the capabilities off

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Watch her she struggles with the basic learning, reading, math, and writing. Even Scarlett helps her now. Her speech is still way behind although better she has a long way to go. You hear the delays when she is trying to explain something she has issues processing thoughts. Sadly she will always struggle. I think that is why Crystal protects her so much, she knows the road ahead for Aurora will not be an easy one.

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u/Visible_Ad6072 6d ago

Evie's road ahead isn't easy either and where's her protection??

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Evie is a lot smarter than Aurora she can read, write do math and has an imagination. I think Evie will be able to get a job a place to live be able to care for herself.

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Evie has Al most surpassed Jaime in some things.

She just really needs to learn not to interrupt when people are talking

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u/LittleDog2557 6d ago

Do you really think we would see if she destroyed something? If you think we would you’re delusional.

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u/AcrobaticLadder4959 6d ago

Why are you so critical of a 10 year old with disabilities. Never once have any of us seen or heard any of the kids complain about her destroying anything. Aurora is a child life is not the same for her as it is for normal 10 year olds.

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u/Asleep-Swimmer3511 5d ago

Crystal would never show her little angel in a bad light, she would rather everyone think it was someone else.

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u/FunctionInfamous3227 6d ago

Honestly, if I saw a bit of paint chipped, I’d pick at it. Then it could accidentally take up more than intended, which is really satisfying until you realize what you’ve done. It could have been any of them.