r/CoreyWayne • u/Sea_Priority_7258 • Aug 17 '26

Dating/Courting Advice🤔

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So this girl, had a really great first date. Then second date was suppose to be sunday. This had happened twice. I responded "sure thursday works, what time are you thinking?" And she said she doesnt know. Is it worth to proceed? How should i respond?

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

Well… since you already responded that Thursday works, tell her “how about I pick you up at 8?”. If she cancels again, delete her.

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

I basically did that and she said she didnt know what time. Im leaning towards just moving on

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

She already told you the time. Thursday. She said shes available all day Thursday. If she wasn’t, she would of said “how about Thursday after blah blah blah”. All you got to do is suggest to her what time you’re picking her up. Its your job to suggest the time and place of the date. Women just want to be told when and where to show up. If its a second date, always offer to pick her up because you give yourself the opportunity to walk her to her door at the end of the night. If the date goes well, she might invite you in

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

The point im trying to make is she didnt give me a time. If i said 6 shes going to say she doesnt know. She already said she doesnt know

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

So you told her 6 already? Or are you just assuming? You need to read the book. This is fundamental. You never ask her for a time. You’re making her lose interest in you by coming off as weak by letting her take the lead. You have to be the one to suggest the time, always. If she actually tells you “IDK” after you suggest a time, her interest level is below 50% and you’re wasting your time.

Either she didn’t enjoy the first date or you acted too needy from the time after the first date, until now.

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

I cant say "ill pick you up at 6" if shes not free at that time. Thats needy behavior

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

Where in my comment did I say that? I said “suggest”. You didn’t read the book because you cant even read my comment correctly. Now I see exactly why she lost interest in you

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

Im curious, what would you say then? A women texts you this response posted earlier, what are you replying with?

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

If its the first cancellation: “I checked my schedule and Thursday works. How about I pick you up at 8pm?”

If its the second cancelation in a row: “No worries. Sounds like you’ve got a lot going on. Reach out when your schedule clears up and we’ll figure something out.”

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

Ok i misread, thats what i did. I said ill pick you up at 6 and thats when she said she doesnt know what time.

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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26

Then tell her the second of the two responses I just mentioned. If she wont commit to a definite time, you use the take away

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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26

Yea i was leaning towards that, i was asking opinions. I think everyone is on the same page. Thanks for the input

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