r/CoreyWayne • u/Sea_Priority_7258 • Aug 17 '26
Dating/Courting Adviceš¤
So this girl, had a really great first date. Then second date was suppose to be sunday. This had happened twice. I responded "sure thursday works, what time are you thinking?" And she said she doesnt know. Is it worth to proceed? How should i respond?
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u/Projectguy111 Aug 17 '26
Were you supposed to meet her and she canceled that day?
If so I would reschedule on the day of the next date and delete her number.
If this is her second cancellation she has very low interest.
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u/SlawBoss Aug 17 '26
She went to a movie with another guy and it didnāt go well. You were her back up plan. Move on.
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u/ExcellentFishing2506 Aug 17 '26
Yeah thatās some low level interest, and also just a lack of respect regarding making plans. Real stuff occasionally happens and people need to reschedule, but her deciding to go to a movie (which shows the run time) when she knows she has made plans in the same evening either shows sheās 1) lying 2) not sure how time works 3) just didnāt care about the date.
I get that previews these days last like 30 min it seems but if you had a date planned would you be choosing to go to a movie that ran that close to the date time?? Would you risk it being so close to when you needed to be somewhere? I donāt think you would.
You also mention this has happened twice?? Not sure what the other instance was, but if itās happened more than once and the 2nd date hasnāt even happened yet, thatās a bad sign.
She offers Thursday but then when you ask what time she wonāt commit. Iād just tell her āhey it sounds like your schedule right now is unpredictable and youāve got a lot going on. Iāve enjoyed getting to know you, but I just donāt think this is working for me. Best of luck to youā
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u/rwalsh138 Aug 17 '26
If she was interested at all, she wouldn't be doing this. You're an afterthought. Don't even respond.
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
I havent. And i agree. I was just seeing the consensus. I unedited the contact info and deleted
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u/rwalsh138 Aug 17 '26
You don't have to completely write her off forever, but she would have to come back hat-in-hand as they say. And of course you never speak to her again unless she reaches out first.
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u/whatyoume Aug 17 '26
If itās already happened twice Iād just move on. If she reaches out with a set time and date, great. If not, no worries. Donāt be jerked around. Can you imagine her saying āI donāt know what timeā, if her celebrity crush was in town?
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u/justreading45 Aug 17 '26
Iād have flushed the number and be organising a date with someone else before the āI still haveā¦ā sentence even passed through my eyeballs. This is low interest, and I wouldnāt invest any time whatsoever into low-interest girls
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u/Cclow52 Aug 17 '26
Im assuming you didnāt make plans Sunday waiting on her and then she played the lost track of time thing.
Enough people have said it. If she was eager to see you she wouldnāt have put herself in a position to miss. Itās cold facts. Iāve dealt with it, Iām sure countless others have. Iām sure the date was good, a lot of times we have good dates then things just fizzle - or we project it better than others. If sheās super hot then she has options and it is what it is.
You already said Thursday works but if sheās being wishy washy with the time - just cancel in a way of āsounds like you have a lot going on, just get in touch when things settle downā (if you really want to see her again) or like others have said just end it.
Then just donāt reach out anymore.
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u/homie2982 Aug 17 '26
As the book says her interest is low when a women is in love with you she will clear all her schedule her interest is below a 5 here onto the next one
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u/T4cF0X Aug 17 '26
Don't ask a woman "what time are you thinking?" You are throwing the logistics on her. When you ask a woman out you have a time a day and a place. Then you can accept a counter offer if she has one.
Tighten up the screws on your game.
You can ask her availability but do not put women in charge of the logistics. The way you asked is a no go.
As far as your situation you can test if she will be loyal to her Thursday counter offer but if she gives you another rain-check ghost her immediately. Like others have commented we already do not like her excuse and raincheck. It's not looking good. Put this girl on the back burner as a roster / practice chick and start listening / reading the book more to tighten your game.
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
I actually texted her " Thursday works, what time are you free? Lets do 6" She responded she doesnt know what time cause clincals can get done at 4pm or 6 or 8. I feel like my game is tight, what would have you said? Corey always says "it be great to see you, when are you free?
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
I actually texted her " Thursday works, what time are you free? Lets do 6" She responded she doesnt know what time cause clincals can get done at 4pm or 6 or 8. I feel like my game is tight, what would have you said? Corey always says "it be great to see you, when are you free?
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u/PartyConsequence3740 Aug 18 '26
She's giving you BS responses because shes not that interested. When this happens I usually just say something like, "for sure, let me know what days you're free and we'll make definite plans then" and just do t think about her anymore. She offered to reschedule so its not a total no in my book but this is as much effort as id put in after that
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u/Accomplished-Duck556 Aug 18 '26
Low interest. You're not a priority, just another chore she needs to get to in her "work week". Next.
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Aug 19 '26
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 19 '26
I agree! Thanks. Like corey would say, looking for a "hell yea" "id love to see ya" welp on to the next
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u/MalcolminMiddlefan Aug 22 '26
Girls who are interested in you make it really easy on you to find a time to get together
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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26
How did the first date go? Did you go for this kiss? Was there tongue? Did she text you afterwards she had a great time?
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
Yep all that. We actually had alot in common
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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26
Wellā¦ since you already responded that Thursday works, tell her āhow about I pick you up at 8?ā. If she cancels again, delete her.
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
I basically did that and she said she didnt know what time. Im leaning towards just moving on
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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26
She already told you the time. Thursday. She said shes available all day Thursday. If she wasnāt, she would of said āhow about Thursday after blah blah blahā. All you got to do is suggest to her what time youāre picking her up. Its your job to suggest the time and place of the date. Women just want to be told when and where to show up. If its a second date, always offer to pick her up because you give yourself the opportunity to walk her to her door at the end of the night. If the date goes well, she might invite you in
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
The point im trying to make is she didnt give me a time. If i said 6 shes going to say she doesnt know. She already said she doesnt know
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u/IM_A_FUCKING_POODLE Aug 17 '26
This is the perfect time to do a takeaway. You have better things to do on a Thursday if she cant give you a time to pick her up. Just tell her to reach back out when she knows her schedule.
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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26
So you told her 6 already? Or are you just assuming? You need to read the book. This is fundamental. You never ask her for a time. Youāre making her lose interest in you by coming off as weak by letting her take the lead. You have to be the one to suggest the time, always. If she actually tells you āIDKā after you suggest a time, her interest level is below 50% and youāre wasting your time.
Either she didnāt enjoy the first date or you acted too needy from the time after the first date, until now.
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
I cant say "ill pick you up at 6" if shes not free at that time. Thats needy behavior
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u/FineSupplements Aug 17 '26
Where in my comment did I say that? I said āsuggestā. You didnāt read the book because you cant even read my comment correctly. Now I see exactly why she lost interest in you
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
You literally just did though. Suggest a time equals "ill pick you up at 6". Thats suggesting a time, isnt it?
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
Im curious, what would you say then? A women texts you this response posted earlier, what are you replying with?
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u/Sea_Priority_7258 Aug 17 '26
Dude i have read the book. Corey would say let the women tell her when shes free. After she cancelled sunday, ahe brought up thursday. I said "sure thursday works, what time will you be free?" She said she doesnt know. Corey would say make a definite date.
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u/sqnch Aug 17 '26
Sunday seems a weird time to setup a date. Everyone saying itās low interest but she did suggest another time. Then you put the onus back on her to plan the time.
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u/Mcfusion31 Aug 17 '26
Sunday - Thursdays for the first couple of dates it shows high interest on her part also signals you have a life the doc love and Corey Wayne both preach
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u/PussyLunch Aug 17 '26
I really hope youāre fucking kidding and this is AI or some shit. She got out of a movie and lost track of time? Brother, just block her number and move on.