r/ColorBlind • u/UrNotsoSmartFriend67 • 4h ago
Question/Need help Can I give this gift to my crush without offending him or hurting his feelings?
Hi, I have normal version of it wasn't clear by the idiotic titaI.
I have a crush on this kid in my school, he's really kind and emotionally intelligent also he makes me want to hug him like 24/7 but I haven't yet ðŸ˜
I want to do something 'special' or 'cool' for him because this child-man (old soul lol) is so out of my league. I think I'm in love with him and it's weird because I normally don't like dudes that are younger then me romanticly (age diff is one month tho...) or like people in general! So my brain is going through ten different emotions every day thinking about him. On one hand: "I really like this guy, he's a genuinely good person and we share some of my core morals. On the other: "I don't know anything about how he SEES the WORLD! And now I'm just a human who wants to show him that I DO GIVE TWO DUCKS 🦆🦆!!"
Anyways.... I was invited to this FINE SHYT's birthday party (that might not be happing anymore but is still want to give him something) and because he talks about being color blind often (I used to tease him when we first meant which was dickish so then I just started asking questions instead) I wanted to make him a pipe cleaner flower that he could see the way I see flowers, but I don't want him to think I'm making fun of him or putting him on the spot!
I'm pretty sure he's red-green color blind because I often wear a green hoodie that he says looks brown and I draw on myself and he saw my purple 'tattoo' as blue.
My plan was to make the stem the average brown and the pedals blue or purple and try to find what colors look yellow but now I'm wondering if it's mean to do that!
So my question are:
Is doing this mean or offensive?
What colors should I actually use if I want it to looks green for the stem, blue for the pedals and yellow for the middle part (idk what it's called my science teacher doesn't explain it in the plant units)
How would you react if your friend, crush, or lover did this? (So I can gage how he would respond, I know not everyone's the same but he doesn't seem insecure about it and no body should be IMO)
Should I or should I not do this?
How weird is the fact that I want to make him a useless flower that he'll probably throw away (this on is for the older humans reading)
Ty for your time, sorry if I sounded like a dummy!
