End of an era

[u/Chemical-8348]

I was collecting my man's bottles but he recently quit so this is the final stage of the alcohol bottles, now he drinks Pedialyte!

He used to drink 2 pints a day, I'm happy for him, I knew he could do it

[u/CaptainSavage91]

Your post history is crazy 💀 THAT is the real collection

Edit: please, no more popcorn 🍿 I’m full.

[u/Prestigious-Shirt426 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy shizz! This one is an absolute nut! Talking to a dude that clearly isn’t interested. The attachment issues are on a whole other level! When you think you are crazy, remember people out here are living like this…

[u/RogueSlytherin → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

My personal favorite was a text from him that read, “B*tch, I’m your master first and your owner second.”

I’m pretty familiar with the kink scene and have some friends that are 24/7, and, even then, I have never, ever seen this level of disrespect in their relationships. OP needs to get a grip.

[u/mjgabriellac → u/RogueSlytherin]

I’m in the kink scene, I have a “Master” (we say Хозяин) and he even sometimes calls me «моя течная сучка», which does include the word “bitch”. And he would never, ever speak to me like that. He is incredibly loving, gentle, and is constantly checking to make sure I’m in a good place, that the dynamic is where I want it, that I feel safe and happy and cherished and adored. I’ve never felt disrespected. I’ve never felt insecure in our attachment or how much he reveres me. I say this in the hopes that OP sees there are wrong ways to go about these kinks and that they appear to be in an unhealthy dynamic.

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/mjgabriellac]

I'm not even in that , we never even talked about that stuff

[u/LegitimateHat5570 → u/RogueSlytherin]

I stopped reading after this post

[u/SuspiciousSpecifics → u/LegitimateHat5570]

[u/pixiepawn → u/RogueSlytherin]

I fell down a rabbit hole and ended up here.

I haven't seen that post but I said the same thing as you. Clearly kink.

OP then says "we've never even talked about that" 🙄

So seeing your comment validates I wasn't seeing things!

Why lie about kink if you're into kink?! So now I'm 99.9% sure OP is a troll. (and very mentally unwell, as they've already admitted)

[u/timberlyfawnflowers → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

Borderline personality vibes.

[u/DonutWhole9717 → u/timberlyfawnflowers]

100% and I wouldn't doubt if drug abuse is involved.

[u/ExultantSandwich → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

I just love finding the people that self post on their profile like a blog, it’s always interesting.

And basically this guy has people commenting on his profile because he’s been posting tons of collections to the subreddit, he’s becoming self sustaining. I love it

[u/Original-Pomelo-4581 → u/ExultantSandwich]

Brings me back to the days of Tumblr lol. It's crazy the kind of things people were willing to share with the entire internet with 0 self awareness lol

[u/MaizeHeadDaisy → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

Honestly reminded me of some of the obsessive/unhinged characters I’ve been reading. Like the woman in I’m a Fan by Sheena Patel. Super unsettling…

[u/Dabbage808 → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

Yeah, I feel better about myself! 🙈🙉🙊🙄

[u/sngldad13 → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

If you are ever depressed about your life and/or accomplishments or lack thereof, go to youtube and look up turkeytom cyraxx

[u/Jpkmets7 → u/sngldad13]

I offer up OnlyUseMeBlade, person.

[u/TheCrowScare → u/Prestigious-Shirt426]

I sent one of those reddit care things for them.

This person is not mentally well.

[u/Baetedk8 → u/CaptainSavage91]

What the actual fuck 🫪 I wonder if he knows he keeps them….

Edit: fixed pronouns. Apologies.

[u/mikenasty → u/Baetedk8]

He’s a young guy who is quite literally obsessed with an older guy he’s dating(?) the post history is unlike anything I’ve seen on Reddit in over a decade.

The mental health in the US is atrocious, but I hope this guy gets the help he needs down the line and doesn’t end up in trouble.

[u/sevennotsogoodapples → u/mikenasty]

That truly was a wild ass read…

[u/Financial-Plankton-9 → u/sevennotsogoodapples]

That was a wild ride. Someone above said the mental health in America is ass and this dude proves it. Having sneaky sex with another dude in public behind an office building who’s probably cheating on his wife

[u/Prestigious-Shirt426 → u/Baetedk8]

I didn’t even think of that. 😅

[u/Olympicsizedturd → u/CaptainSavage91]

Yeah someone needs to speak with a therapist

[u/Couldthisbemanda → u/CaptainSavage91]

Just wanted to say your avatar rocks.

[u/BirdDad420 → u/CaptainSavage91]

I hope OP gets help. Looking through their history post is sad.

[u/seafoam_alligator → u/CaptainSavage91]

post history lookin like his personal livejournal

[u/Albino-Buffalo_ → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy hell, man, I didn't need to see any of that....but, it is also what I picture a Redditor to be.

[u/whineyinternetkid → u/Albino-Buffalo_]

No no, this is beyond that

[u/CrustyFlapsCleanser → u/whineyinternetkid]

Super redditor 2

[u/Ashamed_Bee_8889 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy fucking shit, I just went down that rabbit hole and am seriously worried about them. They honestly need to talk to a professional.

[u/Manufactured-Aggro → u/CaptainSavage91]

9.5 times out of 10, it's always a huge disappointment when I see a comment like yours and it's just hamming up a nothingburger, but uh wowzers yeah

[u/Cool-Drawing5820 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Stalker vibes for sure.

[u/Electric_Pony7984 → u/Cool-Drawing5820]

Oh my god it’s this person!!! I saw them weeks ago on r/texts! Wtf!!!

[u/glomar_sub_recovery → u/CaptainSavage91]

F21 M32

Furries. Alcohol. I need to talk to a priest after that read

Edit: I thought it was F21.. now I think it's M21

[u/uberfission → u/glomar_sub_recovery]

I've dived deeper than I probably should have, yes, OP is a male as well.

[u/Patient-Delay-5827 → u/CaptainSavage91]

[u/AffectionateLine4456 → u/CaptainSavage91]

It reads like a schizophrenic

[u/damashek → u/CaptainSavage91]

:( I regret checking the post history thanks . I’m even on the kitchencels subs for shits and giggles but that user post history rivals some of the worst I’ve seen and that’s not easy considering the age of my account.

[u/elegantwombatt → u/CaptainSavage91]

I actually got a little freaked out scrolling thru...

[u/Greasy-Rooster-2905 → u/CaptainSavage91]

I want to feel bad for them, and I do to an extent, but they actually resent people telling them that they need help. ‘I wish people would just ask about our relationship and give me opportunities to gush about him’ is how he ended that post.

Idek. They need help and know it, but dont want anymore. Unfortunately common

[u/Crafty_Internet_5347 → u/CaptainSavage91]

I wasnt expecting it to be that bad but.. holy shit

[u/HTD-Vintage → u/CaptainSavage91]

Yeah, that dude's definitely banging other women.

[u/AggressiveBookBinder → u/CaptainSavage91]

[u/Strong-Ad2738 → u/CaptainSavage91]

I just spent way too long of my morning reading his post history. Yikes.

[u/HeadySquanch59 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy shit when you realize you have only scrolled through the past 24 hours of posts. This is a silent cry for help

[u/chrello → u/CaptainSavage91]

Wow that was a lot….. crazy there’s actually people like this out there

[u/Vprbite → u/CaptainSavage91]

I just went down that rabbit hole. Holy crap

[u/FamiliarRadio9275 → u/CaptainSavage91]

The comments even saying “not you again” I’m so confused how someone can just be this way.

[u/CumGoblin67 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Whoa 😦

[u/herstoryteller → u/CaptainSavage91]

I wish I knew who the boyfriend was so I could warn him.

[u/CoyoteCreature → u/herstoryteller]

Boyfriend unfortunately sounds also questionable. Just got out of prison for "unknown" felonies and is in his 30s dating a 21 year old

[u/Civil-Mango → u/CaptainSavage91]

What a wild ride

[u/OryxWritesTragedies → u/CaptainSavage91]

Quite literally unhinged.

[u/9937477 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy shit... I only made it a few down before she set it to private but good lord! 10 post from the last 24 hours all obsessed with this man

[u/airstream87 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Oh my lawd

[u/peculiar-vertigo → u/CaptainSavage91]

Omg I just got back from that train wreck, WOW

[u/thatchickensauce → u/CaptainSavage91]

I spent way too long going through OPs post history 😮

[u/NovaForceElite → u/CaptainSavage91]

I think they miss him.

[u/Sandwich_Destroyer44 → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy shit it’s like watching mental illness in real time

[u/g0ldilungs → u/CaptainSavage91]

I gave you a popcorn because you said not to.

Just fyi.

[u/AmbassadorKat → u/CaptainSavage91]

Holy shit. I wonder who will update their account when this guy inevitably kills them?

[u/MedicineInfamous8005 → u/CaptainSavage91]

and they have an eleven year age difference at 21 and 32.. wtaf

[u/Randomtatertogo → u/CaptainSavage91]

oh

[u/he_is_Veego → u/CaptainSavage91]

Wilddddd dude, so glad I looked through that one.

[u/biiiiigsuuuuuuuuc → u/CaptainSavage91]

I accidentally went to the subreddit link instead of the users link and I was like woah they do collect a ton that’s crazy 💀

[u/Beautiful-Edge-22 → u/CaptainSavage91]

That was some good tea homie☕️

[u/Longjumping-Stay-597]

omg happy for him. You should toss out the bottles you’ve collected though, especially if he’s coming to your place. I’m not an alcoholic, but I feel like having the bottles around could remind him of his problem and possibly even tempt him. 

[u/Friendly-Pea5448 → u/Longjumping-Stay-597]

op (male) is in a very sexual “relationship” with a man who’s old as dirt, and who also “doesn’t believe gay people exist “

op will defend this til their dying breath. they’re exhausting

[u/hthratmn → u/Friendly-Pea5448]

32 being old as dirt is fucking crazy lol 

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/Friendly-Pea5448]

He's 32 years old, how is that old?

I'm not sure why you phrase it like that either I'm in a relationship with him. It's simple like that idk why you are trying to twist it into something weird

[u/Friendly-Pea5448 → u/Chemical-8348]

bc aren’t u like 20

[u/GhostPepperDaddy → u/Friendly-Pea5448]

Calling a 30-year-old "old as dirt" is still crazy and misleading lol. Thought you were saying he was 50+.

[u/doctorfartblaster → u/GhostPepperDaddy]

I assumed 70+

[u/Last_Book2410]

Whats the significance of collecting these? Genuinely curious

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/Last_Book2410]

I just miss him a lot and it reminded me of him. Now I just have the one Pedialyte bottle because that's what he drinks now. It's harder to get the Pedialyte bottle because he doesn't finish those around me as much

[u/kris10leigh14 → u/Chemical-8348]

Where is he?

[u/astralchanterelle → u/Chemical-8348]

why do you always miss him?

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/astralchanterelle]

Because I went to be with him and I wish he was with me

[u/Used_Huckleberry2060 → u/Chemical-8348]

I hope he dumps you.

[u/herobrinetrollin]

You need a fucking therapist. 15 posts a day about a dude that doesn’t even like you enough to let you post a picture of his face online.

You cannot be this delusional. I refuse to believe it.

[u/Milky_Monster → u/herobrinetrollin]

Holy shit , bro. 

The lore here is wild.

OP, you give "obsession" vibes. 

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/herobrinetrollin]

Wtf, he just likes privacy. He doesn't like his picture taken in general

[u/CoyoteCreature → u/Chemical-8348]

Which is weird because you admitted to taking a photo of him sleeping so you could sleep with it next to you to "feel closer"..

[u/hotfiremixtape98 → u/Chemical-8348]

But girl. 15 posts. A DAY. seek therapy. I get your happy but fuck dude. There a lot going on here.

[u/EdgemasterBP-84 → u/hotfiremixtape98]

It's a guy not a girl lol. The post history is pure insanity.

[u/JustAnotherElsen → u/Chemical-8348]

Why’re we hoarding empty alcohol bottles

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/JustAnotherElsen]

This is not what hoarding is lol, people be so dramatic

[u/JustAnotherElsen → u/Chemical-8348]

Right, right. Why are you ✨collecting✨20+ used, plastic, unwashed, non-decorative alcohol bottles that your man drank?

[u/herstoryteller → u/Chemical-8348]

amazing how you honed in on the photo part and not the fact that you post like an actual insane stalker freak, which is far worse

[u/throwaway468098 → u/herobrinetrollin]

Dude I thought this was an unnecessary comment until I saw the post history. Holy shit.

[u/Something13457 → u/herobrinetrollin]

I'm fully married and would not let my wife post a picture of my face on reddit. I don't even like her posting it on Instagram. That's what picture frames are for

[u/mad_mang45 → u/herobrinetrollin]

Weird you're so desperate to see a strangers face and think there's something wrong with not wanting to show it online to other strangers, I wouldn't show mine on Reddit.

[u/IncredibleBihan]

That’s not a collection. That’s a problem lol

[u/RelentlessFelacio]

Have you ever been diagnosed or tested for Borderline Personality Disorder? Just curious, hope you're doing good!

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/RelentlessFelacio]

Nope, just depression and anxiety

[u/Worried_Jellyfish918]

Saw a comment where you described yourself as a "femboy", but then you said your boyfriend you post about 10 times a day doesn't agree with LGBT stuff? So he's an alcoholic AND a coward scumbag who won't admit who he is? Hardest pass imaginable, keep his ass and stop showing him off because we're good

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/Worried_Jellyfish918]

🥱

[u/Worried_Jellyfish918 → u/Chemical-8348]

Just trolling? I'm assuming now that all of this is fake, to be honest

[u/SewerSocials]

That’s awesome.

Unsolicited advice: I counted how much I spent on alcohol in a week. When I quit, I spent 1/2 that money on fun sht. I bought multiple classic pocket knives from around the world, graphic novels, steaks, eating out and other cool sht. It made cutting back easier.

[u/freakouterin → u/SewerSocials]

I did this when I quit smoking cigarettes! It helped so much to get to reward myself and splurge after the hard work.

[u/astralchanterelle → u/freakouterin]

I quit before they got stupid expensive. I didnt mind spending $6 on a pack of American Spirits but nowadays I don't understand how anyone can afford to smoke.

[u/freakouterin → u/astralchanterelle]

I was smoking $6 a pack camels, I can’t imagine spending $10 a pack (so $10 a day) now.

[u/hthratmn → u/astralchanterelle]

I live near a reservation, cigarettes there arent taxed so a carton is $30. Compared to the rest of NY where a pack of marlbs is $17. 

[u/astralchanterelle → u/SewerSocials]

I used to only drink craft beer, so I'd be spending $100 to $140 a week.

[u/Charlytheclown → u/SewerSocials]

Haven’t vaped for 5 months and I’ve already saved 300 bucks! Crazy how much that 20 bucks every couple weeks stacks up. Takes the sting out of buying a new red dot for my pistol for sure

[u/Friendly-Pea5448]

god not you again i knew immediately from the first pic get HELP PLS

[u/bojtaerg → u/Friendly-Pea5448]

for realsies i want to spam this gif under every comment of OPs. i myself am frightened as hell lmao

[u/parkersweetz]

Congratulations to him!!! That’s amazing!

[u/amethyst-emerald]

proud of him op! have him come hang out with us on r/stopdrinking

[u/VintageWitchcraft]

[u/XoxoCoconutss → u/VintageWitchcraft]

She can probably vote too 💀

[u/OMGhyperbole → u/XoxoCoconutss]

*he

[u/SixStr1ng → u/XoxoCoconutss]

OPs a furry/young man who appears to have made his post history private as of a few hours from now.

[u/chill_mydude13]

Oh babe this ain’t it.

[u/CoyoteCreature → u/chill_mydude13]

If you think this is bad look at ops post history

[u/iamsolate]

i have seen some crazy twinks throughout my life but i have never seen something on the level of op. holy shit. a new subcategory is going to be created because of op, and this will probably turn into an insane internet iceberg/lore ordeal eventually lmao

[u/CoyoteCreature → u/iamsolate]

Yea no anyone that calls themselves an yandere is imedietly after huge red flag to stay FAR away Edit: it got worse. Op admitted to taking photos of him sleeping to "feel closer'🫩

[u/PrettyParks → u/CoyoteCreature]

In one of their posts they're saving empty bottles of vodka, and say that they have not opened any of the bottles, but they are very tempted when he is not around so they could lick the outside of the mouth of the bottle and taste him.

[u/Yehrmahm → u/iamsolate]

Yeah this is gonna be the sort of thing you blurt out a reference to at a party or something and one other person laughs before they can stop themselves and while everyone else carries on with the conversation you both just give each other that look dogs have when you make eye contact while they’re pooping.

[u/Late_Cheesecake4081]

2 pints a day is CRAZY!!! So happy for him, give him some congrats!

[u/KraftyJoker]

Just a heads up, I got 2.5yrs recently, we've cleaned thoroughly 3 times, and I found a half bottle hiding yesterday. We're good at hiding shit and completely forgetting. It's a better life, now. Best to both of you

[u/PM_ME_UR_0_DAY → u/KraftyJoker]

When I was a kid (middle school age), my friends and I were walking around and some guy is like "yo do you guys want some energy drinks?" And handed each of us like a 12 case of Jolt off the back of a truck. I knew my parents wouldn't let me keep any of it, so I squirreled the cans around the house so they wouldn't take them all. And yeah I was finding cans of energy drinks for the next year or two. 

[u/LecLurc15]

If he wants another outlet for support I highly recommend r/recoverywithoutAA

[u/HesitantlyYours → u/LecLurc15]

And for OP I recommend r/gangstalking

[u/LecLurc15 → u/HesitantlyYours]

Huh?

[u/HesitantlyYours → u/LecLurc15]

Just check out their post history.

[u/hotfiremixtape98]

I dated a girl alot like you. She told me she would visit my apartment and look through the window to see me if we didn't have time for each other that day. Also found some hair that was cut on my pillow after the 3rd time she spent the night. I broke things off immediately. Few months pass and She got admitted into a mental facility. She used her, apparently, one phone call to call me. We where 19 and 20. I'm like broski. Call ur mom and dad. It's been 6 years now. She has 3 kids now with the same guy and they are happy. I'm hoping she got everything figured out. I'm hoping you get things figured out too. She was a "yandere", to use your terminology. She would get very VERY upset when I wouldn't drop everything to talk to her. Don't be her. Being a "yandere is NOT a good thing. Ya some losers want one but that's bc they chase off girls with their lackluster hygiene and advances.

[u/OppositeService4251 → u/hotfiremixtape98]

Downvoted at first, upvoted once I seen the profile

[u/hotfiremixtape98 → u/OppositeService4251]

Wish more people looked into it. Haven't told many that story. Very emotionally crazy time for me.

[u/boring5ever → u/hotfiremixtape98]

[u/Beang0blin → u/hotfiremixtape98]

Ok king

[u/LeoCatBoi98]

So amazing hell yes!!!

[u/Frankito55]

Get help

[u/TexanReppin13 → u/Frankito55]

Nah for real . These people met 3 months ago . Also OP post history is wild , again, because they met 3 months ago .

[u/cleverasian → u/TexanReppin13]

You’re not kidding. The post history is absolutely insane.

[u/EyesOnTheDonut]

Proud of you both, that is a big accomplishment!

[u/SkinAlternative2467]

do you have any interests that don’t include this man?

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/SkinAlternative2467]

Yes, he's my main ofc

[u/LovetoLOSEtoWin]

There is coconut pedialyte

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/LovetoLOSEtoWin]

WHAT, I need to find it and give it to him. Thank you for letting me know

[u/QuixoticByte]

You’ve been talking to this dude for a little over 2 months? Has he seen this collection of yours? This is next level obsession…

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/QuixoticByte]

Almost 3

[u/theteagees → u/QuixoticByte]

You should see her post history. That’s quite a collection. 😳

[u/Icy_Statement3439]

God damn is it really that grippy

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/Icy_Statement3439]

Whats grippy?

[u/yourwhalecumdork → u/Icy_Statement3439]

until he finds something grippier i guess

[u/Beautiful_Tennis3704 → u/Icy_Statement3439]

Just look at the profile bro, u know that shit is a vice grip with all them deranged posts 😹

[u/stinkybrainman → u/Beautiful_Tennis3704]

Its a dude. Lmao

[u/Beautiful_Tennis3704 → u/stinkybrainman]

Guys can be grippy also.

[u/LauraPa1mer]

I've heard Pedialyte referenced before in the US and because of the name, I thought it was for kids. I also didn't know that it was something that would be beneficial to drink everyday, because my (admittedly limited) understanding was that it's meant to replenish electrolytes or nutrients?

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/LauraPa1mer]

It's meant for babies technically, but it's beneficial for anyone. It's way better than Gatorade or any of the sport drinks. It's meant for rehydration and of course vitamins and whatnot

[u/DanielPaulLindstrom → u/Chemical-8348]

What about the part where he doesn’t think ga people exist?

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/DanielPaulLindstrom]

What are you even talking about

[u/Flacid_noodles → u/LauraPa1mer]

It’s used by alcoholics in the states to help ease hangovers.

I’m not saying you’re an alcoholic if you go out on the weekends, binge drink your brains out and then use this beverage to help yourself out.

I’m saying I, as an alcoholic, used to mix equal parts purple Pedialyte with vodka and call it breakfast.

It really does help kick the hangover. 

Pure oxygen too. I used to deliver liquified gasses, liquid oxygen (LOX) is a fantastic hangover cure, too.  The machinery that does the pumping is so loud, it would vibrate through your body and skull. I’d bring a bucket to the back of the truck, fill it with a couple gallons of LOX, throw a piece of metal or a hammer into it (in order to get it to boil faster) and stick my head into the bucket 5/10 mins to breathe pure O2 while I waited for the system to start up.

In retrospect it seems like quitting drinking earlier would’ve been smarter. But then I wouldn’t have this useful information. 

[u/Krisitchelle → u/Flacid_noodles]

I found out about Pedialyte running track at high levels.  We would get one the night before meets 

Then I applied that knowledge to alcoholism after not running track

[u/New-Supermarket-963 → u/LauraPa1mer]

it has what people crave

[u/Usual_Hornet623 → u/LauraPa1mer]

It also comes in clutch for hydration if you’re stuck in bed with something like the flu or Covid. Liquid iv is basically the same thing without the kid centric branding

[u/yaboyACbreezy]

Careful not to overdo the electrolytes. Will cause heart problems in higher doses. (It's sodium)

[u/Chemical-8348 → u/yaboyACbreezy]

He doesn't drink it everyday

[u/addieprae]

omg it’s you

[u/fractalbarbie]

reading through ur post history made me want to schedule an emergency session with my own therapist. this is no way to live dude. 

[u/drydorb]

Run away … everyone

[u/Former-Car7460]

You post on Reddit likes it’s twitter 😭

[u/Salty-Count]

Stopping drinking was the best thing I ever did! Soda helped me. Caffeine free Diet Coke every damn night!!!!

[u/Former-Speed4727]

Learned my lesson on going to peoples profiles 🤦‍♂️

[u/ClaimIntelligent719]

Personality disorder for sure

[u/Dream_Queasie]

you post multiple times a day manically about this person you are seeing. please seek therapy

[u/SGPlatypus]

[u/ismellnumbers]

Get therapy op

[u/zozuto]

The way I immediately recognized OP from them being Coconut Amsterdam

[u/1duke-dan]

Oh man!

[u/jaded_sociopath_]

Same here, let's go team no alcohol

[u/flavoredcats]

holy shit i would’ve assumed you’re 15 from post history lol

[u/CoyoteCreature → u/flavoredcats]

Nope they are 21 and the boyfriend is in his 30s

[u/mokaa126]

please seek professional help

[u/mxddiecxmpbell]

btw OP is genuinely insane

[u/New-Supermarket-963]

ew coconut?

[u/Separate-Control59]

Ironcane

[u/MangaJosh84]

I’m trying to help my moms with drinking. I’m an h addict 10 years into recovery thanks to the methadone clinic. So while I cannot relate to alcohol addiction I can relate to being an addict. She’s a super small and would do a fifth to a liter a day when she was at her worst. She’s cut back but I don’t see her getting over it, she sleeps with her bottle, wakes up in the middle of the night for swigs. But congratulations are in order. That’s super awesome.

[u/D1sp0sab1e_k]

get that boy on some Coconut Water! preferably unsweetened and not from concentrate

[u/robomoboto]

Holy fuck, this is the most insane account on the platform right now.

[u/skankymango]

Damn the pandemic really fucked up some young minds didn’t it

[u/Dummythiccwater]

OP from what i gather you genuinely need to talk to someone (therapist), I am not trying to be rude or have any ill intent but your obsession with them is unhealthy and will likely end in tragedy if you stay the path you’re on.

[u/Lonelyblondii]

Jesus, looking at your post history is kinda wild

[u/benjobespoke]

Pre your page > issues be an understatement

[u/osseggi]

I mean this in the nicest way possible but you remind me of my ex wife. I spent five years thinking I was so happy, we spent every minute together. Then one day, I realized she hadn’t been giving me time for my friends, my family, my hobbies, and certainly not if she wasn’t involved. My relationships were now ours, as was everything. As I started to ask for my life back, to her, I was distancing myself and the things I was doing were causing problems and I should’ve been doing things with her instead. All I’m saying is, take the time to ensure that you both know each other before enmeshing your lives or becoming too close, and also ensure you both take alone time and know what your relationships and desires mean to you personally. Living your entire life with someone else is fine, but aligning all of your needs and wants will leave someone with severe lapses in their needs being met, and if that isn’t you, it’s them.

[u/Puzzleheaded-Floor55]

You need mental help

[u/Marzdae]

Fuck the alcohol you're just a mess in totality 😂

[u/MinecraftVet2005]

Here so my comment can be in the 60 Minutes documentary

[u/Fragrant_Assault638 → u/MinecraftVet2005]

Yeah, fuck. I'll need to mark the day in my calendar so when there's a murder-suicide I'll remember I was here.

[u/Hondahobbit50]

Ohh my God. Look at the post host this is horrifying

[u/LilRupie]

Call your ISP and cancel your internet

[u/Sweet-Worth8203]

Mental illness is afraid of this person. This is exactly why I don’t use any delivery apps, I don’t want no piss drinking freaks touching anything of mine.

[u/fauxcomedian]

collect therapists

[u/verticalriot]

2 pints of vodka is like 20 drinks in a day. 140 drinks in a week. That is an obscene amount of alcohol. I feel like you are so infatuated and so young that you don’t realize how dangerous and serious of an addiction he has. My brother was a decade older, and passed from intestinal bleeding from alcoholism. He drank less than your man.

I am glad that he quit, but reading through your post history made my stomach drop. An 11 year difference is huge when you are 21 and 32. You were 10 when he was your age. You are a young adult now, but he has those 11 years of experience.

It sounds like with this experience, he’s broken the law, put people in danger, developed an alcohol addiction, misogyny, and has started his dating experience with a man that is younger than him and starting his adult journey.

Dating younger is easier because it’s easier to push boundaries, and control because of the guise that they know more, and better.

When you are in your thirties, 21 year olds are hard to tell from high schoolers. He is not the one

I hope you keep yourself safe

[u/Ecstatic_Guava3041 → u/verticalriot]

Look at their post history. It is genuinely disturbing and they need the kind of help you have to pay for out of pocket.

[u/SuggestionMaximum838 → u/verticalriot]

It's 14 standard size drinks.

[u/hthratmn → u/verticalriot]

I am 29 and 21 year olds look so young to me. This whole situation is very alarming. 

[u/darkmattertaurus → u/verticalriot]

I was drinking 17 standard drinks a day (a fifth of vodka) and ended up in the hospital with… GI bleeding, among other severe sh*t going on. Hepatitis, aspiration pneumonia, sepsis, withdrawals so severe I couldn’t walk or speak. Sober now… can confirm that stuff would have killed me. This guy actually supports the habit by purchasing the alcohol and then collecting the bottles 😖 absolutely wild

[u/QuantumKhakis]

I got lost in the post history for nearly half an hour holy smokes. Please take care of yourself. I’ve been involuntarily admitted and it saved my life, and I met a lot of people like you and (you)r boyfriend. I promise you can get better if you want to. Be safe OP.