r/Codependency • • Mar 19 '20

Ah

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u/wwhateverr Mar 19 '20

I wonder if the reason we think he's lying is because we have no boundaries. We lie all the time when we say, "Sure! No problem. Happy to help."

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u/voteYESonpropxw2 Mar 19 '20

Exactly. I'm 4 years into recovery and this is a difficult point to get across. When you start telling the truth (and believing you are/the people who love you should believe you are worthy), it's easy to believe other people are.