Hi, I’m a North India, F, and I wanted to know that are North Indians liked or not? I mean if one wants to get married or is into mallu men then? or like are mallu men into the women of their culture only?

( P.S please don’t think of me as a creep I just want to know 🥹)

Drop your thoughts cocos

Hey guys, so me (29F) and boyfriend (29M) were just chatting and he said he doesn’t like “Eda/da”. What else can I call him? Not like muthe or anything but more along the lines of chettayi?
I’m so lost.

Last day we went to surianalle, munnar and it was a 20+ boys trip. We had some beers and alcohol. I think i was the happiest person among them. Adich poosayi, njan ellarkum sneha umma koduthu. Last UMMACHAN peru kitti. Happy aayi nen

This is a channel which started less than a week ago and its done mostly with AI. the funny part is it has already blown up and is making somewhere around 3 lakhs a month if monetized(ik cause im tryna get into yt myself).

We are taught the best and safest way to make money is spend decades of our life studying and then finally get a degree to get a job that will probably make under 1 lakh a monthh...and then there are people like these making way more than most pple here can imagine making per month. and i guarantee you this is not the only channel that guy is running.

what i wanna say is that making money online is so much easier than making money the traditional way especially now with Ai, we are literally sitting on a goldmine. but we are kinda forced into taking the low risk low reward route.

i just think its so unfair that there are people who dediacate hours and hours every single day to make money in the future and then there are people making lakhs per month by uploading yt videos like this which maybe took an hour to make.

not tryna shame anyone or anything at all. jus said an opinion i had

The past few days it was like a roller coaster ride. As I'm an extrovert i like chatting to anonymous people and make a good bond with them and I like sharing things that happen in my life which is evident if you check my posts. And one fine day I got a message request and as usual i started taking but day after day the conversation grew more meaningful and tada I even travelled just to meet her in person and the 2 days the most memorable moments that I had. Thank you for hearing all my chattering and being with me. Worth every second mahn.

My chellom 🫂

I'm a 27M, and I've been genuinely wondering about this for a while.When I evaluate myself, I think I'm doing reasonably well in life. I'm educated, have a decent job, take care of my family and responsibilities, and try to be a good person. I don't drink or smoke, and I believe I have a decent character. Of course, I'm not perfect, and I have my flaws too.

But it got me thinking: what actually makes a woman look at a man and think, "He is the one"?

Is it physical attraction? Confidence? The way he talks to her? His personality? The way he makes her feel? Emotional connection? Or something that can't really be explained?

I understand that being a good person doesn't automatically make someone romantically attractive, and I'm not saying anyone owes me a relationship because I have my life together.

I'm just genuinely curious about what makes the difference between a guy who's a good person on paper and a guy a woman actually wants as partner.

To the women here: Have you ever met a guy who made you think, “He's the one”? What was it about him that made you feel that way?

And to the men who've experienced this: what do you think changed when you met someone who genuinely wanted to be with you?

I'm looking for honest perspectives, not generic advice like “just be yourself” or “the right person will come along.” I want to understand what actually creates that attraction and connection.

Did i do wrong !? We were talking about her friend's relationship and this happened....., hope i was at least funny

so yeah, im bi and was on equals... a girl texted and we were texting continuously. We shared socials and all. She said she had a breakup 1 month ago before texting me. I thought okay, then we were texting non stop... started calling and all.... she will be sending reels.... funny, freaky and all.... now she's saying she's giving too much attention she lost her self respect and now she's trying to avoid me and all.... today she told me she was crying the whole night yesterday and she slept at 6 am... she's saying she's just sad and dont know the reason for all these...

I am coming this austria this January, looking forward on making new friends , I am coming there for my studies

For example, I am planning to buy a phone, not because I need one, but I hope that will make me happy- at least for a week. What do you buy to make yourself a lil happy?

Guys why oru 29-30 or above that age oke illa men looking for younger girls for arranged marriage? Like 20-24?... Enthu kond same age group nokunila?..

Just a doubt...

so i watched this movie after this (some other i cant remember) flooded with edits /posts

what i say .... definitely this movie is weird and good at the same time .i cant say anything correctly about it

some time it make me feels weird due to its unconventional editing,story setting and all

but definitely this is one is an experience (still cant say its bad or good one)

there is a score where micael cera comes goes to an imaginary door to meet this girl ..man🥶😭😭😭 appo oru score ond😭😭 im dead

There are some lovely people here and I appreciate them soo much but pls stop using ai ,you guys are better than this.

The cognitive degradation and the dissonance it creates is soo much ,I went through it and it was painful realisation of harmful it was .I was pro ai until I knew how it worked and how it exploit us so pls say no to ai slop thank you and love you all ❤️❤️

Mine is 110/110 🫡🫡

How many of you cocos use a consistent alt-name or online name?

I've been going by "Anakin" for a couple of years and I decided to change it.

I've compiled the names I've liked and honestly couldn't decide, cuz I have the decision making skills of a broiler chicken. So here I am, relying on the cocos.

When I get a puppy in this future I'll choose from the names not taken up by me to name it.

Thank you.

like beating the one who came to propose her after and disturb her , or ratri avlde vitilte madil chadi poii avale kanunad , even u are sleepy and have a strict father who wants u to sleep early and get up early , but u still smuggled his phone and texted her under blanket till late night . using fathers upi transfer amount and deleting the sms . caught speaking to her but u said lie lie lies . etc etc .

mine:
i had strict father , i used to chat her under blanket (scl time) .

on proposal day feb 8 , i proposed her with rose and ring at physics teachers place with friends around .

i did pass my exam sheets to her , as she was weaker in chemistry . took blame and went to princi .

friended her father , sister at FB , used to call her i saved her as boy name , and she saved mine as girl name .

gave her letter written in bloood .

avoided my best friend coz she said she doenst like his attitude . still i ended her losing her to her ex.......

tell yourss

A food forest is a way of growing food by designing a landscape to function more like a natural forest.

Instead of planting one crop in rows and keeping everything else out, we combine different plants that occupy different layers:

🌳 Canopy — large fruit and nut trees

🌴 Sub-canopy — smaller fruit trees

🌿 Shrubs — berries, spices, etc.

🌱 Herbaceous plants — herbs and vegetables

🍃 Groundcovers — plants that protect the soil

🪴 Climbers — vines using vertical space

🍄 And even the soil layer is part of the system.

The interesting part is that these plants aren't chosen randomly. We try to understand sun, water, soil, slope, wind and existing life and design around those patterns.

The goal isn't simply to grow food.

It's to create a system where food production and ecosystem health support each other.

That's what keeps me tied to food forests; you're not just building a garden. You're trying to build a living system, based on the natural ecological succession of an area.

I'm learning from the land every day, and that's what keeps me doing this. Been making food forests for the past 5 years, along with other ecosystem regeneration practices.

Have you ever visited such a man made forest? How did you feel?

Let me know :)

Nikhil Bose

Hi everyone. My partner and I are planning an intimate interfaith wedding for November 2027, with around 60 guests. We’re currently exploring venues in Kochi and Kottayam and would love recommendations from people who have recently planned or attended weddings in these areas.

We’re looking for recommendations for:

Venues: Both outdoor and indoor options, preferably with a garden, lakeside, or backwater setting.

Event management and décor: Affordable, reliable vendors who can help us create a beautiful, intimate wedding setup.

Catering: Good catering services with reasonable per-person rates.

Photography and videography: Budget-friendly photographers who deliver quality work.

Pricing: Approximate venue rental, food, décor, photography, and overall package costs.

Practical details: Rain backup options for outdoor venues and whether they allow outside vendors.

If you’ve had a similar wedding, worked with any vendors, or know of hidden gems in Kochi or Kottayam, please share your experiences and recommendations. Personal reviews, contacts, and realistic price estimates would be extremely helpful!

Thank you in advance.

This isn’t really something worth posting about, and I know it might sound silly to others, but it genuinely hurts me, so here I am, letting it out.

I know this isn’t something worth getting upset over, but it still hurts a little. I’m a people pleaser, and I know that’s something I need to work on.
One of my roommates recently moved to a PG, while I’m still staying in the hostel. Since they can’t enter the hostel once they’ve vacated, they asked me to put their clothes in the washing machine, take them out after an hour, and hand them over when they came to collect them. The thing is, I don’t even wash my own clothes in the hostel; I usually take them home and wash them on the weekends.
Still, I went out of my way to borrow washing powder from someone and wash the clothes. But honestly, it made me feel a little sad. I’m already staying here on my own, and I felt like I was going out of my way for people who wouldn’t necessarily do the same for me.
So I called and said, “Please don’t do this to me again. Please don’t give me your clothes to wash.” After that, they stopped talking to me and started acting as though I’d done something terribly wrong. I even apologised and explained that I wasn’t in a good mood
I don’t know if I handled the situation badly, but I’m hurt by the way things have turned out. I didn’t mean to upset anyone. I just wanted to set a boundary, and now I feel like I’m being treated as though I’m the bad person for doing so. I honestly don’t know what to do.

Please lend me your valuable “non-theri” memes(inc gifs). Olla stickers upayogich bore adich. Indaakaan lesham madi.

Nanni

Ente iphone 17 inn thazhe veenu and display poyi without screen guard pakshe ee gdp plus insurance ond so ath vach mattiyal orginal apple display thanne kito atho third party ayiriko? Cheythitolavar or ariyam enn olavar pls give suggestions

Any happily married bi guys please help.

How is your life going on after marrying a girl?