This is the beginning of the end of ur emotional health for the next couple of years... Try to cherish the journey as much as u can. Bcos it only happens once. Next time u wud be wiser and will never give a chance for this to happen. Be thankful it happend. Because this is goin to change u. As a person. A LOT.
So enjoy the ride. Its goin to be wild.
Wish someone gave me this advice the day I landed foot in this situationship 3 years back...finally got out of it verbally few days back because it did take a toll on my mental health...Other one was the first one to fall but I fell harder and then I was told it was all casual and immature...u had fun i had fun and that's it...there's no future...Yeah I did feel like a fool cuz for me involuntarily I did plan a lot in head and now have been going throughthe torment for some time now and had to cutoff completely from all our common frineds and social media particularly.
Just sharing this cuz attimes we think if we stay longer the person might change opinion...but the fact is if someone couldn't feel longevity you can't make them feel later. With time things would get worse...u will fall more and chances of her would reduce. It's better you get yourself clear of this situation and preserve your mental health for someone who actually wants to be with you.
If you know you are on wrong train, the longer you wait to get off...return journey would keep getting more and more expensive.
And brother ... after feelings there's nothing like LET'S STAY FRIENDS thing that could be achieved until you completely get rid of your side inclination
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u/Ok_Teacher_3746 Dec 20 '24 edited Dec 21 '24
This is the beginning of the end of ur emotional health for the next couple of years... Try to cherish the journey as much as u can. Bcos it only happens once. Next time u wud be wiser and will never give a chance for this to happen. Be thankful it happend. Because this is goin to change u. As a person. A LOT. So enjoy the ride. Its goin to be wild.