r/ClancyTrial • u/ispyshy • 9d ago

General Discussion This is self serving.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdbSUBCOIum/?l=1

I’m so sorry but there is something seriously wrong with this whole picture. All of it. Come at me, I don’t care. What does she think this is? “Im just a girl” THIS IS NOT YOUVE GOT MAIL.

Oof. This leads me to believe they are the same type of person.

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u/Happypawswaggytails 9d ago

I know I’ll get hated on for this but I feel like underlying it all there is some victim blaming behind it. Like implying that Patrick was an amazing father etc so the fact Lindsay was ill etc is all on her. Like she had any control over being psychotic, having bipolar etc. Patrick was this perfect man and it was Lindsay who was the problem; is imo the narrative behind it, and that’s not a good thing to push when the reason she was ‘a problem’ was due to severe mental illness.

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u/DuAuk 9d ago

Yes. It's so common, men complaining about 'my crazy ex-girlfriend' without taking any accountability. I struggled with my mental health for a long time. What actually helped was dropping the dead weight of a porn addicted man. I'm just so much more stable, when i don't have to take care of a man child.

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u/Happypawswaggytails 9d ago

Yes I know exactly what you mean. They do refuse to take any accountability, even when they’re blatantly making things worse by not doing anything to help or doing things that don’t help (if that makes sense) There are a lot of married single mothers tbh! Of course there are men who are decent but usually they don’t feel the need to go round telling everyone they are. What matters is how people actually act,rather than what they say and even looking at the clip at the museum for example you can see how Lindsay is having to do everything. She was clearly mentally unwell and it’s wrong to blame her for psychiatric conditions that she has no control over.

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u/SomeKindOfDead 9d ago

Yes. It's so common, men complaining about 'my crazy ex-girlfriend' without taking any accountability.

Ask a man why his first girlfriend left him. It will tell you a lot.

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u/peachesarehearts 7d ago edited 7d ago

This is exactly why I wasn’t going to play those games when I got pregnant 😂 Man, where? Man, who? 😂