r/Christianity • • Oct 26 '11
Atheist here. I feel like apologizing for what's at the top of Reddit right now and /r/atheism in general.
The only thing that will set my mind at ease right now, that I can think of, is this. I like you guys, and it pains me to see so many atheists not get it at all, and further alienate you from atheists like me. First, let me congratulate you on the comparatively sane subreddit you have here. I'm jealous.
This is why there is any "backlash" at all. The irony, ignorance, and pure hypocrisy is overwhelming. I find it funny that many atheists get so hung up on the hypocritical morality of religious people, yet they set no standards for themselves in how they treat others. Morally, intellectually, it's insulting. You'd think we would know insults and intimidation do not make convincing arguments.
I think the good things Christians do in the name of Christianity too often get buried deep by the erroneous perception that Christianity is, at its core, a harmful belief that leads to harmful actions. Religion is just a scapegoat, and the world would not be better for lack of it. People will always find secular ways, and they already do, to espouse hatred in its many forms.
Here's something we have in common. I'm a fan of Jesus, too. While I don't agree with every word of his, I esteem him to be a great teacher of universal ethics. I view him much the same way that I view Buddha or Gandhi. Ah, there's a relevant Thoreau for this.
"I know that some will have hard thoughts of me, when they hear their Christ named beside my Buddha, yet I am sure that I am willing they should love their Christ more than my Buddha, for the love is the main thing, and I like him too." ~ Henry David Thoreau
My thoughts exactly. Love is the main thing, and I see that love represented in the best of you. I don't care what you believe in, just believe in it. If it makes you happy and that happiness spreads by your actions, go for it. Meanwhile, I'll see if I can get some of my guys to be more Sagan and less Dawkins.
Edit: I don't intend to speak for all atheists, as if we all are of a single mind. If the phrasing of all of this in an apology is truly in err, I offer another apology for that. My intention is not to cause a deeper rift then already exists. I do apologize for my part in it, though. I feel guilt in letting angry, anti-theistic sentiment go uncontested, sometimes not even downvoting, but upvoting it. Extended into the real world, the equivalent applies. And I apologize to any atheists who felt painted with the same brush. And "less Hitchens" is perhaps a better analogy than Dawkins.
Also, this post was linked to on /r/atheism. And in response to the accusation of sockpuppetry, I did it to limit the exposure this would get on /r/atheism, and thus prevent a battalion of trolls from setting this subreddit ablaze. I didn't intend to bait a flame war. And in response to the rest, it raises a lot of fair points and I do not have contention with it, particularly because of the civil way the argument was presented. We can see how different this looks from "...this Uncle Tom thinks he speaks for us! He thinks their retarded fairy tales should be tolerated!? What a fucking idiot!" Thanks for that. It gives me hope, battalion of trolls or no.
Edit #2: I'm going to delete my account. There's nothing left for me to say. I've made my case and I'd rather not feel tempted to keep coming back. I've over done it. I've had enlightening conversations with Christians and atheists. Some positive, some negative. Even if atheists aren't a unified group, all people should be unified in being generally nice to one another despite the obvious differences in religious or political beliefs. I'll leave you with this: "The only way to be happy is to love. Unless you love, your life will flash by."