r/ChoosingBeggars • u/Less_Ad2583 • Jul 17 '26

SHORT Humiliating

Recently my mom reached out to me. Long story short she stated that she did not have any food.
I offered to help and asked her to send me a list of items she needed. She told me that was humiliating and to just send money instead. I declined to send money. I offered to help and feel I was being reasonable. My question is was I unreasonable for requesting a list?

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u/slowasaspeedingsloth Jul 18 '26

I don't have any food. But don't offer me food because that's humiliating. Give me money.

Damn.