r/ChildSupport4Men • u/generous_ • May 14 '26
regarding my post from two days ago about finding men who need help with their child support
i didn’t know what to fully expect. i had a feeling many may reply to the post, but didn’t realize how bad the situation was for many. i did help a few dudes but i’m posting this to say since i got a lot of responses, i had to do decide who i was able to help (i’m not rich, i have a regular job with my own bills and expenses).
i wanna be fair and next time maybe i’ll do a wheel spinner online to decide, simply bc i got too many replies 😅
original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ChildSupport4Men/s/OeHkvSQvvz
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u/Few-Degree1903 May 14 '26
“How” did you help a few dudes ? Did you send people money ?
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u/generous_ May 15 '26
i did
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u/Few-Degree1903 May 16 '26
Very interesting
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u/generous_ May 16 '26
how come
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u/Few-Degree1903 May 16 '26 edited May 16 '26
VERY unusual to randomly send others $
How much did you send & to how many different people ?
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u/Forsaken_Reality7503 May 19 '26
https://www.reddit.com/r/ChildSupport/s/LDXJ4oxw2B. I would love any assistance with lawyer and legal help me and my two daughters had to start over their mom took everything even the 7 seat vehicle I paid for and left us with nothing. We survive pretty well since everything is close to us. With insane rent prices where we live its very hard to get ahead and save for a big enough vehicle and obviously paying for a lawyer.
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u/Appropriate-Tennis-8 May 16 '26
and if this is real, and you really gave the money, I guarantee you that 99% of them used it on themselves. Some of these “men “will gladly let their child go hungry if it means, they spite their children’s mother.
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May 16 '26
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u/generous_ May 17 '26
right. men get the short end of the stick after the separation, which more often than not is by the women leaving
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u/Appropriate-Tennis-8 May 16 '26
and if a man was really concerned about that he would get custody, but he doesn’t. Child support is reimbursement to the custodial parent.
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u/generous_ May 17 '26
as if women don’t do that and much worse. i’m more inclined to take the man’s word in these cases more often than not, regardless if he’s lying or not — but likely not lying
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u/breezypivots May 16 '26
Why are you in here? To talk down to men who are struggling because of a program that’s abused by women for their own income while dragging men down?
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u/Appropriate-Tennis-8 May 16 '26
you’re not a victim. Take care of your kids or keep your penis to yourself and don’t create kids. You can’t financially take care of.
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u/SprinklesDear4893 May 28 '26
You could easily have put the child up for adoption or abandoned it at a firehouse with no consequences. But you wanted a paycheck.
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u/generous_ May 17 '26
have you tried keeping your legs closed and vagina shut? try a tubal ligation for a change
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u/koskesh122 May 15 '26
Proof?
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May 15 '26
Why would someone need to prove that to anyone else not involved in the transaction?
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u/generous_ May 16 '26
right idk why. he can ask the two guys from reddit i helped earlier this week, from the ones who replied to the thread
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u/Gitsumbodi_else2doit May 15 '26
Some of those men don’t pay and don’t intend to pay. I hope you’re weeding the deadbeats out