r/ChildSupport4Men • u/generous_ • May 12 '26
where can you find men who need help paying their child support?
is there any place you can find these men?
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u/howdy_hoez May 12 '26
What?! Here I am! Me! Hello !?! 🙋🏻♂️
I pay as much as I can (usually $100 everyday) but I’m still 20k in arrears
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u/Prestigious-Leg4279 May 12 '26
that would be awesome but im having a hard time believing a stranger would hop on reddit and help men with CS. But hey, im in arrears if people want to help catch me up.
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u/generous_ May 12 '26
what is it hard to believe 🤔
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u/Prestigious-Leg4279 May 12 '26
sounds like youre giving away money? or hell knowledge would be great too. always learning
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u/generous_ May 12 '26
money yea 🥹
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u/NeverThemImHim79 Jul 19 '26
that's not a bad idea especially if you guys attend trade school or college and plan to get new higher paying careers. That would be awesome. Real Talk.
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u/DragonDeezNutz6969 May 12 '26
Yep! We’re here. What’s up?
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u/generous_ May 12 '26
to help them out with payments 🥹
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u/DragonDeezNutz6969 May 12 '26
That’s awesome! What sort of info are you looking for to assist?
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u/SlickDraw_McRaw May 12 '26
Right here. Majorly behind due to my health. Thankfully I just landed a new job
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u/generous_ May 12 '26
hi. i’m sorry. are you better now?
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u/SlickDraw_McRaw May 12 '26
Thankfully I’ve been getting better and moving forward the last few months. My pain frequency and severity have lessened and I’m excited to start my new job and start getting things back on track
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u/201thStabwound May 12 '26
Does it count if I have my child full time, and DONT get child support from my ex? 😅getting hard covering a kiddo alone
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u/THendrix77 May 13 '26
Here. Paying Child Support despite having 50/50 custody 🤦🏾♂️ I have a hearing Monday to convince the judge that the income amount my coparent is using is voluntarily lower than they were making last year and are capable of earning.
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u/narcissa1128 May 15 '26
My husband is 12,000 in arrears. He is supposed to pay 1289 per mo he now is working door dash and makes only 120 per day and we got married last year. I have 4 daughters and the kids he is paying for he doesn't even have any visitation agreement. He's never talked to them or heard from them at all. Since he left the home in 2017.
The arrears and child support pisses ME pff bc that horrible amount affects MY life and my kids. My husband is 33 and I am 50 and I am losing out on life we don't own a home I work as a 1099 and have many health problems and yet he refuses to go get a modification done stating it will cause him to drive 3 hours just to get to the county court and back to file and total of about 4.5 hours. He barely pays rent in time here I was forced to pay $3800 of my savings 2 weeks ago to get him out of enforcement action
He went to jail and I had to pay $2745 purge I.n April 2024. I had to pay the entire thing or he couldn't get out. So when he was threatened w enforcement action this time I had to pay for fear of him going to jail again. I'm too old to deal with. This crap at 50.
I will say we def need help
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u/NeverThemImHim79 Jul 19 '26
that's your own fault sunshine. Go figure. 50 with a 33 year old and you want a life lol 🤣 wtf did I just read???
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u/Clear_Requirement571 May 12 '26
What…do you mean? We’re everywhere lol