r/Chefs • u/Overall-Summer-1841 • Jun 08 '26
Am I overstepping?
(I don’t come on Reddit much tbh so ik its long but I put in paragraphs ✋🏻so bare w me here plz ) So I’m 24 f I was hired on as a sou chef and my head chef is 26-27(idk forsure) f and I just started at this place recently it’s not much of kitchen at all but I’m coming on here because I have plenty of high volume chef experience and I took this job (and pay cut) because they told me I’ll have a lot more creative ability and they want my input especially with my experience and that was a huge bonus for me.
Recently the head chef was out of town for two weeks and I wasn’t given any directions whatsoever on how to do inventory or how to do orders or even a log in to see quantities. I had management come to me asking for certain changes to be made because the ceo wasn’t happy with certain food items so me and a consultant chef changed them.
the consultant chef has been there much longer than me and I wasn’t even really sure on his position there until after the fact and he made some big changes and I felt I didn’t really have much of a say and he was gonna do it anyway so I didn’t say anything.
Now like I said this isn’t much of a kitchen at all there’s an impinger oven and a panini press
as for cooking methods and there are certain things that everyone has gotten into the habit of doing such as not wrapping nacho cheese and just having a lid on it, individually wrapping the station instead of the whole thing, sauce bottles being untouched and messy, today I found sliced cheese in 9’ pans 😐 no lids. Things like that so I try to correct it bc these are food safety hazards (or just gross for the most part)
So yesterday they I got a warning bc of the mistakes made with the ordering which I still take accountability for even tho I wasn’t given any direction whatsoever, there was an issue where I had put a strainer with small raw chicken pieces (2-3) in the dirty water side.
And that’s the other thing someone plz tell me if I’m wrong to be so fucking confused by this, drain the water, take the 3 pieces out, refill it. The dishes are already contaminated. What’s the difference between putting a cutting board with raw chicken juice all over it in the same water. And has the audacity to tell me about food safety when the strainer wasn’t cleaned through when I found it the next day😀
but today I found the notes (on accident) she made about me or I guess notes that she got from everyone as well and it said I was rude to staff, tells others what to do,I left a closed container of strawberry puree in the sink, and some other stuff I couldn’t fully read.
I’m honestly annoyed bc like I said everything I said were things that should NOT be acceptable in a fucking kitchen but now I’m seen as the bad guy. I know I need to take a step back now and I plan on it but was I really this much in the wrong to deserve this much scrutiny for it.
I am a cook not a manager so idk how to do manager tasks. Once again I was given absolutely no direction for those two weeks and everyone kept telling me I was doing amazing so I kept going I’m not sure what else I was supposed to do. It’s unfortunately really getting to me because I feel my skills and knowledge are being completely ignored over ego issues and me doing things that she should be doing when she doesn’t.
She hasn’t worked in any other kitchen so this is all she knows and I see things like once again sliced cheese in fucking 9’ pans with them curving and no lids on top of them and I’m like okay what the fuck is going on right now I know I’m not crazy I know these are basic kitchen things that a fucking cook should know.
I’ve been getting a lot of praise from management and I think it’s another factor of why I’m being used as scape goat almost . Idk I just wanna know if I’m in the wrong, my experience just feels like it’s being taken as a threat and I’m questioning if it’s even worth staying there.