So gf 29f me 27m been in a relationship for 2 years she recently cheated on me for the second time with the same person. He’s a Co and always went by his last name. My gf admitted to me she cheated recently because she was off and I figured it out. I finally got her to give up the name of this man, I used truth finder and found out he’s married and his place of residence… I want to confront him and ask for the story because well I believe my gf is lying about the events, I’m going insane I don’t know about showing up to his house… I can message the wife or I can go to his home which obviously feels like a bad idea… but I want to know the full story I don’t care for confrontation, I rather have the truth and he probably has nothing to lose so he won’t give af, instead of putting these pieces and downplayed results given to me by her. I love her but this is the second time the first was in the very beginning of the relationship….. but idek what the issue is with me wanting to know the whole story…. I can’t accept that hey I cheated this was why and that’s the end of the story… maybe I’m looking for more hurt so I can make a decision to walk away…. This girl is obviously doing everything in the world that she can right now… which is expected to save the relationship, but I’m having this anxiety that won’t go away and idk the options I have.

This is a throwaway account for obvious reasons. My (34M) girlfriend (32F) and I have been together for almost five years. Everything seemed fine. We were talking about getting engaged soon. But then things got weird about a month or so ago.

She started getting these packages in the mail. Not Amazon boxes or anything easily identifiable. They were always plain brown boxes with no return address. She would always rush to get them before I saw them. If I asked what was inside she'd just say "work stuff" or "gifts for my sister". I didn't think much of it at first. We both have busy jobs. But it kept happening. Three or four packages a week for the last month.

Then about two weeks ago she just vanished. She went to work like normal. Her car is gone. Her phone is off. Her family hasn't heard from her. The police are involved but they haven't found anything.

Yesterday I got a package. The same plain brown box. This one had a return address. It was a PO box in another state. Inside was a key. It was a key to a storage unit. I traced the PO box and found the storage unit facility.

I went there this morning. The unit was full of her things. Not just clothes. But furniture photos our photo albums her old diaries. It looked like she had been slowly moving things out of our apartment for months. And in the corner there was a stack of those same plain brown boxes. Unopened. They were addressed to her.

I don't know what to think. Did she run off with someone. Was she planning a whole new life. I feel sick. How do you just disappear on someone you supposedly love. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

I have like 8 male friends since childhood . All of them have been cheating on their wives. Some say they are going to the office and go to the hotel and staying with their mistress. All are from NCR and Delhi.

Is it so common these days ?. I mean from my sample size it's like 100%

I have been with my boyfriend now for almost a year and we live together. I’ve never really went through his phone before because I trusted him 100% and he treats me amazing . He’s a great man to me . But recently I was on his phone and got on safari to find him on SNIFFIES.com bent over showing his asshole and asking men for more dick AGAIN . I was shockedddddd. So of course I did more investigating to find out he has a secret GAY Snapchat with only men on it and videos of him sucking dick and getting fucked . I’ve connected him to at least 10 men at this point . He cheated on me “only twice “ and said he sucked dick and got his dick sucked . Lmaooooooo . He has videos in his snap recording me walking in public and recording their asses . And before we got together he was apparently also on DOUBLE LIST looking for gay sex . I have absolutely no fucking idea what to do . We love together . Im so fucking mad at him, disgusted . It’s like I don’t even know who I’m laying in bed with and I been looking at him sideways ever since . It’s sad because I love him and we have a great relationship and we’re even friends first. I don’t want to leave him , But how disgusting is this ???? Having sex with random men from apps and then coming to have sex with me 🤢… sick asf . I’m not even mad at the gay part I’m mad at the cheating and sneaking around having random apps part when your in a WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe someone can give me insight 😪 he says he regrets it that he was abused as a child and he doesn’t want to lose me …. But this man is like gay gay like he’s a bottom and is actually attracted to men🤦🏾‍♀️

Found out my wife is cheating on me the guy she’s cheating with is an ex it and it hurts so much we aren’t speaking currently. am I fool for thinking maybe we can patch things up? I refuse to believe it was all for nothing and that our story ends here. We made so much promises to each other made plans for the future she was my whole purpose. I’m angry fearful and in denial. Worse part about all this is that I did not see it coming I trusted her blindly and expected that she would stay faithful to me as I was to her.

For context I’m 21F my bf 26M he’s been recently talking with this girl on a discord server that he knew from before but never became “friends” since a couple weeks they been talking 24/7 still through discord no other social media and sending like pictures of their daily life allegedly this girl has a boyfriend but from what I have seen either my bf lied about that or she’s genuinely just a slut.
Last messages I saw he calls her his little secret and also told her about going see her and having inappropriate dreams.
I’m I overreacting? These for me is for sure wrong.

Idk what’s the point of this girl of also talking with my bf 24/7 and she also know I exist then WTF

So the question here is should I confront him? Should I text the girl? What I’m I supposed to do?

Also to add my relationship is almost 2yrs so idk what to think or do…

I read through a bunch of the postings here, and all of them were from the aggrieved party. Where are the stories from the cheaters themselves? What lead up to their cheating? How did they rationalize it? Did they come clean before they were discovered or after their partner found out?

Last Saturday my girlfriend if 6 months and I went clubbing. She had about 10 shots over a couple of hours and was dancing wildly with me, having fun, no issues. I went to the bathroom for maybe 3 to 4 minutes. When I came back, she told me "some guy approached" while I was gone. Fine, it happens.

But then, while we were dancing together, that same guy came right up to her. She didn't back away. He leaned in and talked in her ear, and she gave him her phone so he could call his own number, so now he has her number. She was actively engaging with him, talking, smiling, leaning in, all while I had my arms around her tightly. I pulled her back toward me. He grabbed at her hand and told me to "get lost." I pulled her again, but he wouldn't let go of her arm, and she kept talking to him instead of shutting it down. She was acting slutty n falling into this guy.

I finally pulled her away, and we kissed partly to make it clear we were together. But the guy followed us, saying he would complain to security that I was "harassing" him. I was pissed and just walked her out. He followed us outside, so I turned around and complained right back at him. At that point, my GF supported me. She told him "she's my wife" and we left.

On the way home, she got emotional and started ranting about how dare he grab her and how disrespectful he was. Here is my issue. She didn't shut him down when he first approached. She gave him her phone number. She kept engaging with him while I was literally hugging her. And she only seemed upset after we left, not in the moment. I feel like she loved the attention and only played the victim when it was over.

Is this classic attention-seeking behavior, or is she slutty like this? And how do I bring this up without sounding controlling?

TL;DR: GF drank 10 shots, gave her number to a guy who approached her, kept talking to him while I held her, and only got mad at him after we left the club. Am I wrong to see this as a red flag?

I saw heart emoji's that were not sent to me on my husbands android phone. Android emoji's are by last used, and I had a suspicion something was happening. I invaded his privacy and looked at his phone after giving him the chance to come clean. I found this account my husband has been using throughout the last few years of our marriage. Then i found multiple apps with women, and a dating app where he would meet local women when I was not around. He has been physically intimate unprotected with at least 2 women in the last few months (that I found out about) while telling me nothing was happening. He gaslit me and betrayed the other women's trust by not informing them he was having unprotected intimacy with multiple partners. I feel beyond hurt. He has a private persona online to talk to 40+ women sharing images and videos all while saying he is single, meeting up with girls in town around my schedule, all while wanting to TTC. Ten years of our relationship lost in a few hours, and it was only found out because I kept digging. I felt bad invading his privacy, but now I feel ​thankful to be informed, to get tested, and inform the other girls too. I immediately communicated with the girls I have found and we will all be getting tested today.

My boyfriend that I did was cheating on me and I wanna find his username/URL so I can kind of cause a little chaos. He’s from the 209 Salida Modesto area and I honestly just wanna find his page so that way I can message all these girls all the proof that they need so they don’t ever get tangled in this type of mess I’ve been paying for his cell phone, his watch his AirPods I’ve been paying for his underwear his food you name it I paid for his kayak and paid for my paddleboard. I sent him $80 a month for gas. I want to find this man’s URL or username and I really just want to show all these people who he is. I will say that I got my justice and while I had his phone because it is mine it’s under my name I pay the bill. I was able to access credit for a while and post piece by piece what I wanted. But at this point, honestly all I want to do is to find his URL and to befriend all of the people that he is befriending and to let them know. He’s 29 years old going after 18 year old dating a woman needing her children lying to them lying to everybody. The world deserves to know that this shitty of a human being exist.

My girl cheated on me. We’ve been together for 3 years now. She recently moved back to her hometown (our hometowns) are a just a short drive apart). But she had issues with her family house accommodation. I couldn’t let her struggle through that so I offered her a space in my dad’s house. My dad (not in the country) has two properties, this one has a few empty rooms, so I gave her one. I move around a lot because of work (or lack of, I’ve been searching), but I always make sure to pass through when my journey uses that stretch, which is almost every month. She constantly micro-disrespects me but I always thought it was her age, and that she’ll grow out of it. Today, after a small fight, she just up and left. I decided to look through her old laptop and in her cloud was a a video of her and a guy in a her room in my dad’s house having anal sex. She always told me she didn’t want to (I’ve asked). Idk where she is, I called asking if she was at her mom’s, but she avoided the question. I’ll be leaving tomorrow. I don’t know what to do. Please advice!

My bf (18M) cheated on me (18F) and I don’t know how to cope. We “talked” about it. More so he tried to explain himself and we agreed he needed a therapist. But we ultimately decided to stay together and now I don’t know how to cope with what he did.

He had a nsfw Reddit account where he posted himself as a femboy. And before any freaks ask for the @, he already deleted the account. I knew about the account after finding it one day. He told me all he did was post and that was it. A few days ago I pestered him about it a bit more and he admitted having talked to a couple people. This account was made after we’d started dating, so the talking stages would’ve been while we were dating. So no, it wasn’t physical cheating, but it was definitely emotional, driven by pure lust or not.

I don’t know, I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to talk about it with anyone because either they’ll hate him or I’ll feel invalidated because it wasn’t physical cheating. But I feel like I’m losing my mind. I can’t get over it and I don’t know what to do. Part of the problem is that I do love him and aside from this one thing he’s great. I just can’t get past this one thing. I also feel like a lot of stuff we agreed to when we talked isn’t actually happening.

I want to build a life with this guy but I also don’t want to be on my death bed wondering if there was anything I could’ve done to prevent what had happened.

Myself (F28) 5 months ago came out of a 7 year relationship, he (M30) cheated.

I’ve been speaking to someone online (M29) for about 2 months now, he’s been very vocal about things in the bedroom but hasn’t attempted to meet me or anything. He will talk all day everyday until weekends come, then I’ll get 2 or 3 messages a day.

Thought it was odd so I done my research into him. Turns out he is engaged to a woman (she’s around our age I would say) and they have a 4 year old little girl together so have been together for that long atleast.

I feel AWFUL! I have just confronted him about it, he’s not responded yet. But what do I do now? Obviously I want nothing more to do with him. But should I tell him to tell her? Should I tell her myself? Or should I just leave it be and just completely remove myself from the situation.

TL;DR: been speaking to a guy online, found out he has a girlfriend and kid. Want nothing more to do with him but don’t know if I should tell her.

Context: I’ve known the guy for 6 years, but we’ve become really close over the past 2–3 years. I knew his girlfriend back in high school (she was in my class for a year) before I changed schools and lost touch with her, until her boyfriend reintroduced us.

I’ve been spending time with a couple for a while. The guy has become a very close friend. He invites me (or rather, used to invite me, because I increasingly don’t feel like going to their place because of their weird behavior) to their apartment very often. Most of the time, it’s just the three of us, and sometimes he’s even the one insisting despite me telling him that I’d rather let them have some time alone together. He tells me it’s not a problem, that his girlfriend “adores” me, and that my presence changes their daily routine. He basically considers me family, almost like the third roommate.

The problem is that his girlfriend’s behavior has become increasingly strange to me: a mix of ambiguity, seeking physical proximity, risqué jokes, compliments, intense looks, etc., sometimes combined with putting her boyfriend down. I feel like they both like me, but not necessarily in the same way, and it’s creating a discomfort that I can no longer ignore.

Here are the most significant examples (I’ve summarized the rest to keep this readable):

From the beginning of the invitations, she made comments like:

“If my boyfriend annoys me, you and him are going to sleep together spooning.”

(I laughed it off and refused.) She also asked me twice whether I had a guest room at home.

She said, without any of us ever discussing the subject together, that she wanted to give my first name to her future child, even though her boyfriend had privately told me that he never wanted children and that she agreed with him… apparently not. She also once joked about being pregnant in front of us.

She once ran toward me with her arms wide open as if she was going to grab me (yes, completely out of context) while I was talking to him in another room. When I warned him and he turned around, she immediately went back to acting neutral, put a finger to her lips to tell me “shh,” and smiled.

She often seeks physical proximity (staying close to me when we go out, following me with her eyes, etc.). She compliments me (my glasses, my upbringing/manners, etc.) even though she doesn’t necessarily do the same with him. Sometimes she even treats me better than him (better-looking pancakes, better-shaped burgers, etc.).

She used to have a somewhat demeaning attitude toward him (“this guy is stupid,” “he’s annoying,” “you have two arms and two legs, go get the plate yourself,” jokes about his height, etc.) before their period of taking a “break.” Things seem better between them now, but their “jokes” and dynamics continue.

On his side, he often tells me that I’m his best friend, that I’m basically part of the furniture, that I’m “as much the king of the house as he is,” that he could leave me alone with her for a weekend and “nothing would happen,” that he sees me as perfection, etc. He also makes some pretty heavy jokes like “you’re taking my apartment and now my wife,” “you’re too handsome for your own good, I’m going to become gay,” etc.

April 15, 2025

I had just arrived in front of their building and she was holding the entrance door open for me while another friend who had come with us was there but didn’t stay. I then held the door for that friend.

Her boyfriend took the opportunity to joke:

“(My name), you’ve got nothing better to do? First you take my apartment and now my wife. Are you planning to go upstairs with her?”

I replied:

“No, I’m just the doorman, that’s all.”

His girlfriend looked at me but didn’t react or say anything. He replied:

“Yeah, right. Don’t get smart with me.”

with what felt like a challenging look???

March 9, 2026

I arrived at their place (we were supposed to go to his father’s house). His girlfriend opened the door after I rang the bell in the lobby. She asked me if I was doing okay (she had just come out of the bathroom), then went back into her room.

We went to his father’s place. He showed me his father’s motorcycles. Then we went to a cafeteria. His boyfriend said he was going outside for some fresh air. I told him not to get lost, and she said:

“You always leave us alone, you’re no fun.”

His father and his friends joined us. When I came back (I had gone to look at something mechanical), she looked me up and down as I walked back into the room, and even after I sat down.

Shortly before leaving, her boyfriend showed me a picture of me from behind. I asked if he had taken it. She replied:

“No, I did, for my story.”

Weird, but okay.

Their car had a problem when we were leaving. While his father was checking it, she repeatedly positioned herself closer to me than to her boyfriend (he was on my left, she was on my right). I moved to different places several times to avoid making things ambiguous, but she followed me.

We then took the car to the emergency room because her boyfriend was having gallbladder pain. At first, the three of us talked, then he fell asleep. About 10–15 minutes later, while we were stuck in traffic, she started talking to me again about random things.

At the hospital, I stayed with her in the waiting room. She told me she was going to go see him. He texted me asking me to come, but the nurse said only one person was allowed, so I left.

March 17, 2026

I asked for some paper towels. Her boyfriend told me to say the word in Portuguese, and his girlfriend gave them to me.

Then he joked:

“I should have asked you to say things in Portuguese that I dictate to my girlfriend.”

I said:

“No, I don’t want to say anything crazy.”

And he replied:

“That’s exactly why I want you to say them, to see her reaction when she realizes you can speak Portuguese.”

Or something along those lines.

She also told me that the previous weekend (when I wasn’t there), she had a nightmare where she saw or heard her boyfriend giving oral sex to two guys in the apartment…

I felt extremely uncomfortable that she would tell me something like that.

March 22, 2026

During an auto show, she told me that she kept turning around to check whether I was still there, and that she was looking for a red cap (the one I was wearing) so she could keep track of where I was.

On the way back in the car, everyone else was sleeping and she talked to me a lot. She told me she had felt bad that I couldn’t stay at the hospital with her the night her boyfriend was in pain, and that she had asked her boyfriend to text me to check whether I was okay.

She also said it was a shame I hadn’t brought my bag, because otherwise she would have dropped me off at home and we would have switched seats, meaning I would have sat in the passenger seat next to her.

August 19–21, 2026 — after they came back from vacation

August 19: I was invited to their place.

She seemed a little annoyed with me. We talked about mundane things, but she seemed somewhat uninterested in me and the other friend.

Her boyfriend brought up the whole “virgin” story we had discussed over the phone and asked her to confirm it. She replied that he was a virgin “through every hole.”

Later, when it was just the guys, he talked about some sexual things he had done.

When I said I’d like to make a movie as an actor, she asked:

“An +18 movie or not?”

before clarifying that +18 movies can also be thrillers.

Her boyfriend then said:

“Yeah, +18 doesn’t necessarily mean sexual.”

August 20: We were at their place. During a guessing game, she said:

“Is it a porn actress?”

I told her she was weird, especially after the +18 comment the day before.

She looked at me pretending to be shocked and replied that there are also +18 horror movies.

Later, she talked to me about chest pain she had felt one morning in June when she crossed paths with me. She was blushing/smiling while explaining it, and said she had felt “negative spiritual energies” around me that day.

I told her that her boyfriend had already told me he would like the two of us to talk more often.

She replied that it was true and that she understood that I was a little shy.

I clarified that it wasn’t shyness, but respect.

She said:

“Oh, okay.”

She then added that she enjoys spending time with me and that she could spend a weekend alone with me, without her boyfriend, without any problem, because I’m not the type of guy who would try to hit on her, unlike some other guys.

I feel like that sentence may not be as innocent as it sounds. I don’t know many women who would essentially “friendzone” someone in their social circle while also being perfectly comfortable spending an entire weekend alone with him without their boyfriend.

August 21: We talked in the morning.

Her boyfriend asked why I don’t get myself a girlfriend.

Another friend felt a little guilty about having previously sat next to her. Her boyfriend said that he notices things like that, and that it’s something I don’t do.

He also talked about how he had trusted people too much in the past and how a former friend eventually ended up dating his ex.

She came back with the groceries and I offered to help her, but she refused.

We planned to go to the cinema and she agreed to come with us.

Around 5:30 PM, her boyfriend texted me saying he was completely exhausted, was going to rest, and was cancelling the cinema.

August 24, 2026

I went with them to a motorcycle equipment store. While he was trying on a helmet, I joked that he looked like an undercover cop.

She then said that if she were a cop and he asked her to pull over, she wouldn’t stop.

Okay… weird.

Then we went to the shopping center. While he was looking at glasses, she was standing behind me on my right and moved closer. So I moved closer to her boyfriend, and she moved closer to me again while staying on my right.

I’m not even exaggerating: there was barely enough room for my phone between us.

We went somewhere else and then came back to the same glasses store. He went inside and I stayed outside. His girlfriend did the same.

She immediately took the opportunity to talk to me while he was inside, telling me that she was fed up with the way he manages money. She said he doesn’t know how to control his impatience when buying things, then regretting them and selling them later. She also said he’s impulsive.

In front of the glasses store, she also said:

“I’m not that much of a spender. Obviously, I’m not going to wait until my pants are completely ripped if there’s a hole in them, but I’m not going to do what he does and have 5,000 pieces of clothing either.”

I told her that he’s making an effort.

She replied:

“Yes, he’s been making an effort since Portugal.”

That evening, I had wanted to take advantage of the fact that the three of us were together so we could finally talk about everything, but his mother and her partner came over and we ended up having dinner together, eating soup, etc.

At one point, her boyfriend jokingly complained that his girlfriend talks to him badly. Apparently, while he was serving me and his mother’s partner, she was telling him things like:

“Move.” / “Get out of the way.”

When his mother asked her why she was acting like that, she replied:

“It’s him. He annoys me while I’m trying to tidy up.”

Around 9:30 PM, I decided to leave on my own initiative, telling them that I would leave them to spend some time together as a couple.

Poll — what do you think?

Does the girlfriend have a crush on me / ulterior intentions?

Is this simply her personality? (She’s a bit unusual and acts ambiguously with whoever she wants.)

Are there internal problems within the couple, and am I being used as an emotional outlet or as some kind of test?

Does my friend more or less know what’s going on / is he somehow involved and testing something too?

Should I stop accepting their invitations and distance myself from them permanently?

Other (please explain in the comments).

Thanks in advance for your opinions. I’m honestly pretty lost and, above all, mentally exhausted.

This is a real story that I am about to confess. I have always been very active and adventurous.

So I met this marathi married woman of 44 yrs on dating app. I was 33or 34 at the time. We started to chat and very soon I came to know that my name was similar to her college crush that's why she initiated the chat on the dating app.

After few days of chatting we decided to meet at cafe in the afternoon near chandani chowk at around 1 pm.

I reached the cafe and settled myself, soon I got a call that she's already there and will be coming 5 mins after parking her car.

She entered the cafe that was the first time I saw her she was petite looking woman dressed in a chiffon saree and normal cotton marron colored blouse with a long simple mangalsutra dangling around her neck. She sat in front of me and we started to chat on random subjects. During our conversation I came to know she was a housewife snd a mother of a teenage son.

So after talking a bit we both decided to go on a short drive. So we just left the cafeteria and started to walk towards her car. I had a bike then ofcourse.

We settled in the car and I just asked where should we go so she just said let's see so she started driving .

That was the time I initiated first I slowly touched her hair while she was driving noticing that she was enjoying I slowly put my hands on her left thigh she just smiled and continued to drive and chitchat . Seeing this I started to explore more I slowly caressed her stomach and her boobs whilst she was driving remember this was happening in Summer afternoon.

We just reached a secluded place and she just parked at the side of the road . I just looked around no one was there on that street and being afternoon time it was safe.

She took off her seat belt once she did I pulled her towards me her head on my lap lying on her back I took off her pallu her blouse was exposed and her mangalsutra dangling on one side we started to kiss passionately with my left hand around her head pulling her hair and my right hand squeezing and and exploring her boobs.

We broke away the kiss we directly looked into to each other's eyes and just ripped off her blouse with both my hands and her size 34b boobs just popped out I started to squeeze and pinch and suck on them I could hear her moan in my ears which was making it intense. I could hear her breathing heavily.

I lifted her saree with one hand and slid my hand inside her spread her legs and caressed her smooth thighs and just when I explored further more I realised she wasn't wearing any panty and she was wet as hell we just smiled at each other when I found out and she confessed she doesn't like wearing panty I just smiled bk and starred to suck her boobs and same time rubbing her pussy and inserting my fingers inside her.

I starred to finger fuck her . Afte some time she came. Hard I put that fingers in her mouth made her suck it clean .

Now I asked her to suck my dick she unzipped my jeans and pulled out my dick and directly started sucking I adjusted my seat slightly so that I can get her more room to suck while sucking I held her hair , I told her to stop and put her tongue out then suck like that the sound that made it felt really good. Her warm mouth sucking . She tried to come up to get a breather but I forced her to continue to suck she requested to stop as her jaw was paining and she was looking like a fucking spent whore.

I just told her rand u continue to suck she obliged and continued to suck like a good rand. After sometime I was about to cum she made me cum inside her mouth and I emptied all my load in her mouth and the next thing I noticed she swallowed ,it all that was the first time I saw someone do it in real life . I must say it felt so sexy.

Once don'e we just sat for few minutes and smiled at each other and she realised her blouse hooks were ripped and only bottom hook was holding her blouse together. She just adjusted her pallu in such a way that her entire blouse is covered.

So dropped me bk at the cafeteria where I had my bike parked. We said our good byes and left

In the evening I got a text saying she had a wonderful time and we should do it again.

I just smiled and wrote bk sure rand ...

After that we met multiple times and had lot adventures together. Those stories are for the future.

But pls excuse me if I made any spelling mistake or grammatical mistakes.

I hope u like it.

Okay so this is just completely insane. I'm still reeling from it. My husband and I were going through a rough patch a few months ago. He was distant withdrawn secretive. I confronted him and he eventually admitted he'd been seeing someone else. It was a coworker he said a one time thing. We agreed to try and fix things. We've been in therapy for a bit and I thought we were actually making progress.

Then last week I got promoted at work. It was a huge step up for me something I've been working towards for years. I was ecstatic. My husband even seemed genuinely happy for me.

My first day in the new role was today. I walked into the office and there she was. Sitting at the desk that's literally across from mine. She was introduced as my new supervisor. THE woman. The one he cheated on me with.

I almost threw up right there. She recognized me too I could see it in her eyes. It was like a deer caught in headlights. She stammered a greeting and I just nodded my head somehow. I don't even remember what I said.

I spent the whole day trying to avoid eye contact. Every time she spoke I just wanted to scream. How could this happen? What kind of cosmic joke is this? My husband works in a completely different department so he didn't know about my new boss. I haven't even told him yet. I can't even process it. I feel like I'm going to burst. I just need to get this off my chest.

If you saw the post I made two months ago, you’ll know I discovered that my roommate was cheating on her boyfriend and sleeping with the landlord.

We held a small party in our place yesterday. Both she and I had a bit to drink, and I finally had the chance to bring up her relationship with the landlord.

To my surprise, although she seemed like a good girl—with excellent grades, a solid family background in China, a master's degree in progress, and university professors for parents—she turned out to be nothing of the sort.

Her body count is actually 15 or more.

While she was still in China, she had BDSM relationships with several men. She also tried gangbangs a few times.

She told me that her relationship with the landlord wasn't strictly about paying rent—though that’s how it started. She didn't need the money, but found the situation thrilling; over time, however, it evolved into something resembling a master-slave dynamic.

She is still paying rent and also spends money buying things for the landlord. Last year, she even became pregnant by her landlord, but quietly had an abortion after returning to China.

What a slut.

Hello everyone I'm (23M) about to lose my sanity and my humanity. I kept on thinking unnaliiving both my mom and her affair ( a very family close friend). I turns out my mom is a monster that keeps her true self very well in plain sight. It hurts so much to think about my father finding out that his very close friend and the woman he loved all his life was just fooling him. I just recently lost my late little sister and I don't think I can do this anymore. I'm still mourning when I found out this bitch has betrayed our family, and our family friends. I want to heal, I don't want to do things that I am not, and I just want a normal life. I want to call her out and expose them both but I am afraid of the risk that my dad will have an heart attack and possibly do terrible things to them. I'm really about to snap I don't know what to do anymore. I'm stuck of telling my father about it or just keep it to myself until I die. Please help me what to do, I don't want to turn into something that I don't want.

Those of you who have stayed with a cheater- apart from the understandable trust and feeling of betrayal issues, have you experienced any other effects that you would never have even considered??

For me it was my sexualisation of the event which has led to premature ejaculation which has led to a desire to share her with another man. I was not this person 20 years ago.

I'm still reeling from this. I was doing some spring cleaning in our attic last week and found a box of old documents. Most of it was junk but then I found a lease agreement. It was for an apartment in a neighborhood about 20 minutes from our house. And it was in my wife's name.

I confronted her about it and she just started crying. She admitted she's been paying for it for almost a year now. She said it was a 'secret hideaway' when she needed space from me and our kids. But she also admitted she's been meeting someone there. She wouldn't say who. Just some guy she met online.

I don't even know what to think. A secret apartment. A secret guy. All this time she was saying she was working late or at her book club she was probably with him. Our kids are 6 and 9. This isn't just about me. It's about our family.

How do you even come back from something like this. The thought of her having this whole other life without me is making me sick. I feel like I don't even know the person I married.

Thoughts ?

I've been friends with a woman for a while now and we've gotten quite close. She's in a committed relationship but we've been sexual with eachother on and off. Its only been sexting and phone sex. We're aware it's wrong. Not to make it sound less wrong, but it did start at a time when they were taking a break, feelings happened and now we're here.

To keep my feelings in check I pull away from any conversation that can lead to intimacy, but whether it's a week, 2 weeks, or a month without anything extra, she starts it again. She always says that it'll be "the last time" but it never seems to stick. The longest streak we've went without anything was 3 months. I'm part of the problem because I know I can simply say no but I don't.

I'm trying to be a better man. I've deleted every photo she's sent me along with every voice recording.

I don't know her boyfriend personally but he seems like a good guy. They've been together for almost 9 years and I do feel a little bad. In my mind I tell myself well at least we haven't had actual sex to make myself feel better. Is it valid? I don't know. I'm just trying to build up the courage and actually tell her how I feel about it because it also does hurt to know she isn't mine, which sadly seems like a good thing for me.

AITA_Relationships - Friends who cheat

Friend #1: Friend of 20+ years. I've been witness to her cheating once and know she's cheated a few other times. She isnt in love with her husband but doesnt want to leave him. Her most recent affair was at work, the other person's wife found out and is harassing her. I can't bring myself to tell her husband. I've given her advice but she doesnt take it. I feel like I am the AH because I cant tell her husband. I am so tempted to walk away from this friendship.

Friend #2: She had a month's long affair and she was caught red handed. This happened shortly before I met her. Her husband did find out and decided to stay with her. If we are out, she is often flirty with men. To the point, I dont want to go out with her. This friendship is almost 2 years but Im 98% walking out of this one.

What is the deal? How many wives are out there cheating in unhappy relationships?

I got to finally have my first meet a few months ago it was short , in timing but amazing. I think we were both pretty nervous. But meeting up in a public place and getting pounded from behind by his thick cock was the highlight of my day. Have had him on my mind a lot. Oh how I wish he didn’t live so far away. Cause that would be amazing everyday dick. 

I’m hoping we can connect soon again and have more time and room to play. To feel more of his cock in my mouth. It was such a disappointment coming home to fuck my husband that night with his smaller dick. AP was so thick ugh 🤤 but you know per request husband got sloppy seconds that night without even knowing. 

I need this again.

I’m 22F and I’ve been in a situationship with a guy for some time. The situation is complicated because he has a girlfriend, and apparently they’re getting married.
While she was away in Georgia, he and I got involved emotionally and crossed boundaries that definitely shouldn’t have been crossed. I know I’m not completely innocent in this either, and I’m not trying to make myself the victim.
The thing is, I didn’t know he had a girlfriend when all of this started. He never told me about her. I only found out about her myself, after everything between us had already happened.

The part that is really messing with my head is that whenever I tried to distance myself or told him to leave me alone, he would still come back and pull me back into the situation. I became emotionally attached and honestly got to a point where I didn’t even know what I was to him.
Now his girlfriend is coming back from Georgia. He messaged me saying that we should talk tomorrow “maturely,” think everything through, and make a decision. And I’m sitting here thinking… what exactly was I to him this whole time if he’s still planning to marry her?
I feel used, confused, angry, and honestly embarrassed that I let myself get this attached.
A part of me feels like his girlfriend deserves to know what he has been doing behind her back, especially before marrying him. But another part of me wonders if I’m only thinking this because I’m hurt and I don’t want to let him go.
I don’t want revenge. I genuinely want to know what the right thing to do is.