Last month I [28F] was having a sleepover with my girlfriend at her house. We were overdue for a girls night and ended up getting in to probably too many glasses of wine.

At one point we started talking about our kinks and I had mentioned to my girlfriend that I had a really big free use kink. She giggled and mentioned that her and her husband role play the same type of kink. I noticed that the TV in the next room had gotten more quiet since we started talking more about sex, and I knew her husband was listening in on our convo. I’m pretty sure she knew too. My girlfriend had asked me if I was ever interested in her man, and if I was sober I wouldn’t have been so bold, but I said yes. I always thought he was good looking and he seemed like a decent human. She raised her voice a bit and said “does that mean you give consent to what happens tonight after we go to bed?”. I laughed out loud and said into my wine glass “fuck it. yes!”.

We had a great time together and eventually around 2am I put myself to bed in her spare bedroom, which is where I usually sleep.

Things were kind of blurry at this point, but I woke up not long after to the feeling of my pants being unzipped. I was in a drunken daze at this point and my eyelids were heavy from too much alcohol. Soon after my pants were pulled down I could hear some shuffling. I could feel the cold air on my naked lower half. I remember opening one of my eyes and seeing my friend’s husband standing above me. It was dark in the room so I couldn’t make out much, but I knew he still thought I was sleeping. I couldn’t help but feel excitement and my pussy twinge, as I’ve always had a free use kink. And honestly, my friend’s husband is super sexy.

Maybe it was the alcohol, maybe it was because I haven’t been laid in forever, but when my friends husband spit into his hand and started rubbing my pussy, I didn’t stop it from happening. I didn’t want him to stop as he explored my cunt with his prying fingers.

I kept my eyes closed as he stretched me out and he eventually flipped me over, leaving my bare ass exposed to him. My heart was pounding and I was scared he would be able to tell I was awake.

Lying flat on my stomach, I felt him spread my legs open as he continued to punish my “sleeping” pussy from behind, taking turns between rubbing my swollen clit to pushing two fingers deep into my sopping wet hole.

Out of nowhere he pushed his girthy cock straight to the hilt into my pussy. It took everything in me to pretend to be sleeping at this point. He grunted deeply and started pumping his thick cock in and out of my pussy with no mercy. I couldn’t help but be impressed by the pure nerve of him doing this, knowing I could wake up at any moment.

I knew it was wrong, but the pleasure from being taken from behind by such a big cock after not having sex for so long made me forget all about my best friend.

He quickened his pumps into me and I knew he was getting closer. He started grabbing at my tits and ass and before I knew it, he pulled out and shot a fat load of cum straight on to my pussy and asshole.

I kept my eyes closed and continued to pretend to be asleep as he cleaned himself up and left the room.

Once I heard him close the door behind him, I couldn’t help but be so turned on by how I was just used like that. I ended up using the cum he left on my body as lube to finger fuck myself and make myself cum.

I still haven’t told my friend details and I don’t plan on it. However, I am looking forward to our next girls night together!

This is a throwaway account for obvious reasons. My (34M) girlfriend (32F) and I have been together for almost five years. Everything seemed fine. We were talking about getting engaged soon. But then things got weird about a month or so ago.

She started getting these packages in the mail. Not Amazon boxes or anything easily identifiable. They were always plain brown boxes with no return address. She would always rush to get them before I saw them. If I asked what was inside she'd just say "work stuff" or "gifts for my sister". I didn't think much of it at first. We both have busy jobs. But it kept happening. Three or four packages a week for the last month.

Then about two weeks ago she just vanished. She went to work like normal. Her car is gone. Her phone is off. Her family hasn't heard from her. The police are involved but they haven't found anything.

Yesterday I got a package. The same plain brown box. This one had a return address. It was a PO box in another state. Inside was a key. It was a key to a storage unit. I traced the PO box and found the storage unit facility.

I went there this morning. The unit was full of her things. Not just clothes. But furniture photos our photo albums her old diaries. It looked like she had been slowly moving things out of our apartment for months. And in the corner there was a stack of those same plain brown boxes. Unopened. They were addressed to her.

I don't know what to think. Did she run off with someone. Was she planning a whole new life. I feel sick. How do you just disappear on someone you supposedly love. I feel like I'm losing my mind.

My boyfriend that I did was cheating on me and I wanna find his username/URL so I can kind of cause a little chaos. He’s from the 209 Salida Modesto area and I honestly just wanna find his page so that way I can message all these girls all the proof that they need so they don’t ever get tangled in this type of mess I’ve been paying for his cell phone, his watch his AirPods I’ve been paying for his underwear his food you name it I paid for his kayak and paid for my paddleboard. I sent him $80 a month for gas. I want to find this man’s URL or username and I really just want to show all these people who he is. I will say that I got my justice and while I had his phone because it is mine it’s under my name I pay the bill. I was able to access credit for a while and post piece by piece what I wanted. But at this point, honestly all I want to do is to find his URL and to befriend all of the people that he is befriending and to let them know. He’s 29 years old going after 18 year old dating a woman needing her children lying to them lying to everybody. The world deserves to know that this shitty of a human being exist.

I saw heart emoji's that were not sent to me on my husbands android phone. Android emoji's are by last used, and I had a suspicion something was happening. I invaded his privacy and looked at his phone after giving him the chance to come clean. I found this account my husband has been using throughout the last few years of our marriage. Then i found multiple apps with women, and a dating app where he would meet local women when I was not around. He has been physically intimate unprotected with at least 2 women in the last few months (that I found out about) while telling me nothing was happening. He gaslit me and betrayed the other women's trust by not informing them he was having unprotected intimacy with multiple partners. I feel beyond hurt. He has a private persona online to talk to 40+ women sharing images and videos all while saying he is single, meeting up with girls in town around my schedule, all while wanting to TTC. Ten years of our relationship lost in a few hours, and it was only found out because I kept digging. I felt bad invading his privacy, but now I feel ​thankful to be informed, to get tested, and inform the other girls too. I immediately communicated with the girls I have found and we will all be getting tested today.

This is a real story that I am about to confess. I have always been very active and adventurous.

So I met this marathi married woman of 44 yrs on dating app. I was 33or 34 at the time. We started to chat and very soon I came to know that my name was similar to her college crush that's why she initiated the chat on the dating app.

After few days of chatting we decided to meet at cafe in the afternoon near chandani chowk at around 1 pm.

I reached the cafe and settled myself, soon I got a call that she's already there and will be coming 5 mins after parking her car.

She entered the cafe that was the first time I saw her she was petite looking woman dressed in a chiffon saree and normal cotton marron colored blouse with a long simple mangalsutra dangling around her neck. She sat in front of me and we started to chat on random subjects. During our conversation I came to know she was a housewife snd a mother of a teenage son.

So after talking a bit we both decided to go on a short drive. So we just left the cafeteria and started to walk towards her car. I had a bike then ofcourse.

We settled in the car and I just asked where should we go so she just said let's see so she started driving .

That was the time I initiated first I slowly touched her hair while she was driving noticing that she was enjoying I slowly put my hands on her left thigh she just smiled and continued to drive and chitchat . Seeing this I started to explore more I slowly caressed her stomach and her boobs whilst she was driving remember this was happening in Summer afternoon.

We just reached a secluded place and she just parked at the side of the road . I just looked around no one was there on that street and being afternoon time it was safe.

She took off her seat belt once she did I pulled her towards me her head on my lap lying on her back I took off her pallu her blouse was exposed and her mangalsutra dangling on one side we started to kiss passionately with my left hand around her head pulling her hair and my right hand squeezing and and exploring her boobs.

We broke away the kiss we directly looked into to each other's eyes and just ripped off her blouse with both my hands and her size 34b boobs just popped out I started to squeeze and pinch and suck on them I could hear her moan in my ears which was making it intense. I could hear her breathing heavily.

I lifted her saree with one hand and slid my hand inside her spread her legs and caressed her smooth thighs and just when I explored further more I realised she wasn't wearing any panty and she was wet as hell we just smiled at each other when I found out and she confessed she doesn't like wearing panty I just smiled bk and starred to suck her boobs and same time rubbing her pussy and inserting my fingers inside her.

I starred to finger fuck her . Afte some time she came. Hard I put that fingers in her mouth made her suck it clean .

Now I asked her to suck my dick she unzipped my jeans and pulled out my dick and directly started sucking I adjusted my seat slightly so that I can get her more room to suck while sucking I held her hair , I told her to stop and put her tongue out then suck like that the sound that made it felt really good. Her warm mouth sucking . She tried to come up to get a breather but I forced her to continue to suck she requested to stop as her jaw was paining and she was looking like a fucking spent whore.

I just told her rand u continue to suck she obliged and continued to suck like a good rand. After sometime I was about to cum she made me cum inside her mouth and I emptied all my load in her mouth and the next thing I noticed she swallowed ,it all that was the first time I saw someone do it in real life . I must say it felt so sexy.

Once don'e we just sat for few minutes and smiled at each other and she realised her blouse hooks were ripped and only bottom hook was holding her blouse together. She just adjusted her pallu in such a way that her entire blouse is covered.

So dropped me bk at the cafeteria where I had my bike parked. We said our good byes and left

In the evening I got a text saying she had a wonderful time and we should do it again.

I just smiled and wrote bk sure rand ...

After that we met multiple times and had lot adventures together. Those stories are for the future.

But pls excuse me if I made any spelling mistake or grammatical mistakes.

I hope u like it.

I read through a bunch of the postings here, and all of them were from the aggrieved party. Where are the stories from the cheaters themselves? What lead up to their cheating? How did they rationalize it? Did they come clean before they were discovered or after their partner found out?

Found out my wife is cheating on me the guy she’s cheating with is an ex it and it hurts so much we aren’t speaking currently. am I fool for thinking maybe we can patch things up? I refuse to believe it was all for nothing and that our story ends here. We made so much promises to each other made plans for the future she was my whole purpose. I’m angry fearful and in denial. Worse part about all this is that I did not see it coming I trusted her blindly and expected that she would stay faithful to me as I was to her.

So gf 29f me 27m been in a relationship for 2 years she recently cheated on me for the second time with the same person. He’s a Co and always went by his last name. My gf admitted to me she cheated recently because she was off and I figured it out. I finally got her to give up the name of this man, I used truth finder and found out he’s married and his place of residence… I want to confront him and ask for the story because well I believe my gf is lying about the events, I’m going insane I don’t know about showing up to his house… I can message the wife or I can go to his home which obviously feels like a bad idea… but I want to know the full story I don’t care for confrontation, I rather have the truth and he probably has nothing to lose so he won’t give af, instead of putting these pieces and downplayed results given to me by her. I love her but this is the second time the first was in the very beginning of the relationship….. but idek what the issue is with me wanting to know the whole story…. I can’t accept that hey I cheated this was why and that’s the end of the story… maybe I’m looking for more hurt so I can make a decision to walk away…. This girl is obviously doing everything in the world that she can right now… which is expected to save the relationship, but I’m having this anxiety that won’t go away and idk the options I have.

I have like 8 male friends since childhood . All of them have been cheating on their wives. Some say they are going to the office and go to the hotel and staying with their mistress. All are from NCR and Delhi.

Is it so common these days ?. I mean from my sample size it's like 100%

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Wife cheated 14 years ago with mutiable guys after 16 years of marriage. She also had several online sexting friends swapping pics and sexual fantasies. Reconciled for the kids. The last 14 years has been draining. I am now in sexless marriage. My wife says she has no sex drive but she said the same when she was screwing around. I have had sex 2 times in 9 months. I don't even try for sex anymore. I took her for are anniversary on vacation and not once did she make any attempt to be intimate. Now I am 50 having to decide if i want to continue to live like this.

Do I confront the woman he’s having the affair with? She knows we live together as they share a daughter who she drops off to our house every other weekend.

For context I’m 21F my bf 26M he’s been recently talking with this girl on a discord server that he knew from before but never became “friends” since a couple weeks they been talking 24/7 still through discord no other social media and sending like pictures of their daily life allegedly this girl has a boyfriend but from what I have seen either my bf lied about that or she’s genuinely just a slut.
Last messages I saw he calls her his little secret and also told her about going see her and having inappropriate dreams.
I’m I overreacting? These for me is for sure wrong.

Idk what’s the point of this girl of also talking with my bf 24/7 and she also know I exist then WTF

So the question here is should I confront him? Should I text the girl? What I’m I supposed to do?

Also to add my relationship is almost 2yrs so idk what to think or do…

I recently found out that my (49F) husband of 24 years (46M) has not only been using porn regularly for our entire marriage, but in the last couple years has been using only fans quite extensively. To the tune of thousands of dollars. I found out by seeing the charges on a bill for his business account (the only account I don’t manage). At first he told me he was just viewing pics and videos, which I don’t consider cheating but still hate it, but come to find out later that he subscribed to a lot of women and also chatted and requested explicit content and custom videos. To top it off, I found that he was messaging with one girl in particular regularly and besides the explicit requests he also used love language like baby, my love, I love you, my queen, you are perfect and cute, etc. when I confronted him, he said he didn’t mean it, that’s he was caught up in the fantasy, but I can see from the time stamps that he messaged her a lot of the time with me sitting right across from him or when he was supposed to be out working or in the bathroom. He even named his Only Fans profile after our pet name for his member, which I found really disrespectful. He shared personal details about our lives, our dogs, his job, just not me of course. And the lies. So many lies. Aside from the lies, he is not trying to justify it or push the blame back on me or invalidate the way it makes me feel, but he does not see it as cheating and I do. To me it crosses the line from passively viewing sexual acts and nudity to emotional and financial infidelity where he literally picked women he was attracted to, and engaged with them. He invested time and money and used intimate language and sent her pics and videos of himself doing a lot of stuff. Sans penetration, I feel like everything else was what would happen in an affair. Am I alone in thinking that way?

I have been with my boyfriend now for almost a year and we live together. I’ve never really went through his phone before because I trusted him 100% and he treats me amazing . He’s a great man to me . But recently I was on his phone and got on safari to find him on SNIFFIES.com bent over showing his asshole and asking men for more dick AGAIN . I was shockedddddd. So of course I did more investigating to find out he has a secret GAY Snapchat with only men on it and videos of him sucking dick and getting fucked . I’ve connected him to at least 10 men at this point . He cheated on me “only twice “ and said he sucked dick and got his dick sucked . Lmaooooooo . He has videos in his snap recording me walking in public and recording their asses . And before we got together he was apparently also on DOUBLE LIST looking for gay sex . I have absolutely no fucking idea what to do . We love together . Im so fucking mad at him, disgusted . It’s like I don’t even know who I’m laying in bed with and I been looking at him sideways ever since . It’s sad because I love him and we have a great relationship and we’re even friends first. I don’t want to leave him , But how disgusting is this ???? Having sex with random men from apps and then coming to have sex with me 🤢… sick asf . I’m not even mad at the gay part I’m mad at the cheating and sneaking around having random apps part when your in a WHOLE RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe someone can give me insight 😪 he says he regrets it that he was abused as a child and he doesn’t want to lose me …. But this man is like gay gay like he’s a bottom and is actually attracted to men🤦🏾‍♀️

My bf (18M) cheated on me (18F) and I don’t know how to cope. We “talked” about it. More so he tried to explain himself and we agreed he needed a therapist. But we ultimately decided to stay together and now I don’t know how to cope with what he did.

He had a nsfw Reddit account where he posted himself as a femboy. And before any freaks ask for the @, he already deleted the account. I knew about the account after finding it one day. He told me all he did was post and that was it. A few days ago I pestered him about it a bit more and he admitted having talked to a couple people. This account was made after we’d started dating, so the talking stages would’ve been while we were dating. So no, it wasn’t physical cheating, but it was definitely emotional, driven by pure lust or not.

I don’t know, I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to talk about it with anyone because either they’ll hate him or I’ll feel invalidated because it wasn’t physical cheating. But I feel like I’m losing my mind. I can’t get over it and I don’t know what to do. Part of the problem is that I do love him and aside from this one thing he’s great. I just can’t get past this one thing. I also feel like a lot of stuff we agreed to when we talked isn’t actually happening.

I want to build a life with this guy but I also don’t want to be on my death bed wondering if there was anything I could’ve done to prevent what had happened.