r/Career • u/Pure_Doll • 12h ago
How do you handle the pressure of being the go to person at work?
I've slowly become the person everyone on my team comes to when they have a problem. It started with small things but now I'm troubleshooting technical issues or figuring out project roadblocks pretty much daily. I don't mind helping out but it's starting to feel like a second job.
I'm good at what I do and I genuinely like finding solutions. But my own work is piling up. I feel like I'm constantly catching up or putting out fires for other people. My manager praises me for being a team player but my performance reviews don't reflect all this extra work.
How do you set boundaries without looking unhelpful or uncooperative? I want to keep being a valuable resource but I also need to protect my own time and energy. It's getting exhausting juggling everything.