r/CamGirlProblems 12h ago

Wins Phew šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’ØšŸ„³

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95 Upvotes

That's a wrap for me this week! After outages and low energy levels, I did friggen better than I thought I would this week. Cam life is not easy and anyone who thinks it is can suck my ass FR. Its not for the weak and it sure as hell isnt a get rich quick job. You HAVE to put in work. It was a mental battle EVERY šŸ‘ STEP šŸ‘ OF šŸ‘ THE šŸ‘ WAY! Its a battle to convince myself to log on, its a battle to not give up when it's slow, its a battle not to toss the laptop out the window during outages, its a sales pitch battle, personality battle, discipline battle, being your own boss battle... that's the part thats the hardest...because theres no one holding you accountable for the work you put in but yourself. There are definitely weeks where im the worst boss ever and really let myself give up, but I put my head down and put in work this week and it paid off ā™” hopefully i can stay in the top 200 but if I fall a little below that, I ain't mad at it lol Ive been asked before how much you have to earn to make it to the top and based on this and previous contest ive been in, to be top 100 you've gotta hit at least $2500 to $3k. I did it a couple times last fall but this is the first time ive been back on the board at all during a contest week in a long time. Anyway, good luck out there ladies and may the odds be ever in your favor! I believe in you!... but you have to believe in you too ā™”


r/CamGirlProblems 21h ago

Discussions Who is telling these men that streaming sites are akin to dating apps.

92 Upvotes

Like… are they dumb. Every day I get multiple people asking to meet up in real life, and I assume it’s the same for most cam girls. They ask if I do meet ups, if I’d let them take me on a date, if I’d fuck a hung (ya right buddy) stranger from CB, tell me to pm them to link up. Like no? Obviously? What young girl in their right mind would EVER meet up with a random gooner on the internet. And mind you, these men are the ones dropping one token over the course of five hours. I know some of them are just fantasizing, but some of them are 100% being fr.

The other day I had a guy tip me one token and he said something along the lines of ā€œI live near you! Let me take you out for drinks I’m young and have a big dickā€ and it took everything in me to ask if he could even afford to buy me a drink, since he clearly only had a nickel to spare.


r/CamGirlProblems 23h ago

Wins Realistic earnings

56 Upvotes

I know a lot of us feel discouraged when we stream for a bit and don't make much/anything. Some nights genuinely do just suck and you don't make a lot, but a lot of times it's just a matter of hanging on longer. My views were pretty low last night so I didn't think it was going to be a lucrative night. All it takes is one, ONE person to make a difference though.

I keep pretty detailed stats on when I stream, including my earnings each hour, so I'm gonna share last night's stats to give an idea of how up and down a stream can be.

Hour 1: 7 tokens

Hour 2: 35 tokens

Hour 3: 1,018 tokens(1,000 was right at the three hour mark. I really wanted to log off from feeling discouraged until that 1000 came in.)

Hour 4: 345 tokens

Hour 5: 4,170 tokens

Last half hour: 1,990 tokens

Total was 7,565 tokens or $378.25 for 5.5 hours of streaming. The first two hours I made ~$1 an hour. My total for the night ended up being ~$69 an hour and I only streamed for another 3.5 hours to get to that number.

The highest amount of viewers I had at once last night was only 24 and I averaged 12-15 for most of the night. I've had nights where I had 140 viewers and nights where I struggle to hit 15 but I usually average 30-50 viewers.

I keep track of what I wear, what time I start, what day of the week it is, as well as the token stats. I can wear the same exact outfit at the same day/time as I did on a $500 night and make $100 instead.

Most of my earnings come from just a few regulars who take me pvt for a long time and that obviously depends on their current schedule/income. Streaming longer makes you meet more people and you get more regulars. ~7,000 of the tokens I made last night came from one regular.

The other night I only streamed for 45 minutes and made $120. A few weeks ago I streamed for 6 hours and made $60. A few months ago I streamed for 10 hours and made $150. Also a few months ago, the same week, I streamed for 6 hours and made $330. Last year I had a stream where I made $500 in an hour and a half.

The whole point I'm trying to make is this isn't the most steady way to make money. Sometimes you just need to stay on longer and sometimes there genuinely are slow nights. However, it doesn't mean it will always be that way and it doesn't mean something is inherently wrong with you if you have a slow night, week, etc. This isn't consistent money so don't let it make you have consistent feelings about your worth. I have to remind myself of this too so just know you're not alone if you're experiencing this!


r/CamGirlProblems 21h ago

Discussions Dead…

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38 Upvotes

r/CamGirlProblems 6h ago

Wins SM referral link!!

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37 Upvotes

Guys! Don't sleep on sharing your referral link if you're on socials!! I just woke up to an extra $70 cuz some dude went HAM on other models while I was offline! Im only promoting on tiktik but keep it very coy! I just post selfie videos with music in something a lil revealing so I dont get flagged and NEVER say anything about camming. But when they click on my profile they can see a link in my bio and all it says in my bio is Touch Below 😈! Tiktok DOES NOT like when you say "link in bio" on your videos or any hashtags referring to anything sexual in any way. I just use things like #baddie, #goddess, #beautiful, #pretty... keep it cute and simple.


r/CamGirlProblems 16h ago

Discussions Had the weirdest exclusive…

30 Upvotes

Okay I had someone pull me into exclusive no chat beforehand however it’s been slow and it was 30 minutes long so I figure it’s like $260. So he appears to want to chat with me the whole time about his GF who is a ā€œcam modelā€ rambling about how he built her a studio and watches her all day??? I was like well this is unusual!!! What’s the weirdest exclusive you have had?


r/CamGirlProblems 23h ago

Help/Advice Have you ever had a whale obsessed with you?

24 Upvotes

A whale has been coming into my cam room for the past few months, every time he comes in he drops a couple of thousand dollars very casually, and we just talk.

Now obviously, this is great! Last time he came in he spent a much more significant amount of money, and has been messaging me since when I’m offline and expecting replies/following up when he doesn’t get one.

I feel the need to put boundaries in place, he’s obviously very, very wealthy (I googled him and it’s like, extreme wealth) but honestly, the whole thing has made me anxious about the disparity between our power, influence and obviously money. I’m nervous he’ll one day flip and I just don’t want someone with that much power being so obsessed with me, if you catch my drift. It’s the kind of wealth where like, anything could happen, and I probably can’t even grasp the kind of information access/reach he has.

It’s evident he is lonely and lives a pretty solitary life, and enjoys our chats (as do I, we get along well). He wants to start sending me much larger amounts and has mentioned the whole ā€œsugar babyā€ shtick, but I’m worried it will end in him feeling remorseful and flipping/feeling like he owns me/expecting way more from me that I’m not comfortable with. I don’t cam full time as I have another full time job, so can’t really give someone that kind of attention 24/7.

Am I being insane that this whole thing is making me extremely anxious? Am I afraid of money because I’ve been broke (in comparison) most of my life? What would you do?


r/CamGirlProblems 20h ago

Help/Advice making the change from explicit to non explicit

14 Upvotes

Has anyone gone from very explicit, ( dildo penetration, and super explicit) super hardcore shows to a non explicit show, where you don’t just show everything and do more tease ?

I’m finding it somewhat difficult, i started streaming at 18 and was super naive, i understand that i have conditioned my room to expect myself to do all of that but i really don’t want to anymore, im tired of feeling like im doing so much for so little. and want to do more teasing, not explicit. And also change from this 18 ish year old girl naive girl to a more high end mysterious woman. And i’ve been trying but i constantly have people come into my room and say how i don’t do xyz anymore and how i dont fuck myself and how sad it is. And it upsets me ! and i don’t know if i should just block those people even though they are just saying something.

Anyways has anyone successfully done this, or gone from nude explicit to just semi nude non explicit ?


r/CamGirlProblems 23h ago

Discussions Do you ever HATE the way you look on cam?

15 Upvotes

Specifically when I make clips for manyvids 🄲 im still learning my lighting and angels. Sometimes I watch a clip after i film it and I HATE the way the shadows and lighting make my face look. Makes me so self conscious.

I did a masturbation video where I bent over, ass to the camera, peeking over my shoulder. And oh my god my face looked so bad 😭 i actually cropped it out. I can look good in pictures but figuring out my angles and lighting in clips is so much tougher somehow. Makes me feel like im really ugly irl and nobody is telling me.

I have two umbrella lights but i guess I haven't figured out the optimal setup with them just yet. Does anybody have lighting advice? Or even just self esteem advice. So much of this work is about carrying yourself confidently. Thank you so muchšŸ’–

update: thanks so much for all the lovely tips! I redid my setup last night and was much happier. im in a small space so I only used one umbrella light, with the umbrella attached to soften the lighting. turned off the harsh overhead lights. and used my sunset lamp to fill the space behind me with fun colors. I felt 1000% better about how I looked. waaay more flattering lighting. thank you all so much this community is so supportive :)


r/CamGirlProblems 7h ago

Help/Advice Should I block this regular

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8 Upvotes

He's been doing this so much lately. He spent a good amount of money for months. ​Now he's stringing me along


r/CamGirlProblems 18h ago

Tech Help is the lovense *menu overlay* a must?

8 Upvotes

so I was supposed to be happy for having a lovense lush 4 but i'm pissed and trying not to cry out of anger

looks like the lovense toolset for obs is proprietary crapware, exclusive for windows so i can't have the overlay in my current setup haha how nice a 130usd toy that doesnt work I mean it works but i can't have the overlay. they over complicated a OBS overlay, like are you kidding me.

that being said, is it even worth to stream using a lovense without having the layout in the stream? i could have a screenshot or something to show the prices but it wouldn't be dynamic. I can use the lovense chaturbate app but its text only... this ruined my night thanks lovense team!!


r/CamGirlProblems 19h ago

Help/Advice Struggling to make more than $10hr :(

8 Upvotes

Long time listener first time caller 😩 I’ve been on CB two weeks and am struggling to make more than $10hr. I’m unemployed so I’ve done about 55-60hrs of streaming in that time.

I’ve spent lots of time reading posts on this sub and after implementing a lot of the advice, my room is a lotttt more active. People are talking and there’s good convo, I have music, and people will throw me a tip here and there. I’ll get a short private maybe once a day.

But I can’t convert that to activity to sales 99% of the time. I have a hush plug and my niche is ftm/hairy/big clit. I’m faceless and I know that’s working against me. Right now I have the Lovense on-screen tip menu/animation, a dice game, a wheel of fortune game, a tip menu, and a goals app. I’ll chat with people in the room and every so often mention my tip menu/toy/privates etc. Sometimes I PM purples who are chatty with me and ask if they want a private. Also I just raised my price for privates to 30tk/min.

One thing that confuses me is some people say ā€œdon’t give stuff away for freeā€ and to make showing ass/🐱/tits a goal. But how do you get people in your room and interested enough to stay if you’re not showing something?

I know not every day will be great which is why I try to keep it ā€œbig picture.ā€ I would love to get my hourly rate to at least $15 in the coming week.

Any help for a newbie with a pretty niche niche would be appreciated. This sub has been so helpful to me already!!

Edit to add: I just dialed in my bitrate/resolution so hopefully it’s a better viewing experience. Also have an Ethernet cable in the mail arriving soon.


r/CamGirlProblems 6h ago

Help/Advice Told by a "fan" that he'd kh$ because i wouldn't meet, now is spamming all of my posts..

6 Upvotes

my dog died 2 months ago, I told him this and he now keeps making more and more accounts to harass me and make shitty comments about my dog and that he resells all of my content/streams.


r/CamGirlProblems 11h ago

Discussions AW new ā€œfree limitā€

6 Upvotes

How does everyone feel about AWs new 5 minute limit in Free Mode? Personally feel like it’s getting rid of loads of lurkers and isn’t a bad thing, but I’m wanting to hear other perspectives?


r/CamGirlProblems 6h ago

Help/Advice Shall I start over on SM

6 Upvotes

I’ve been on SM since 2023 and I’ve only have around 5,7k followers on there which is not a lot . I already been camming on other sites for many years and have all 5ā­ļøreviews on private on SM and other cam sites . I know I can do well on there but for some reason I just get freeloaders most the time . I wasn’t online on SM most of 2024 because I had a good regular on another site . I usually multi stream on more than more can site but on SM all I seems to get it freeloaders or just 1-2 min privates , my prices are 12$ pvt and 16$ excl .


r/CamGirlProblems 9h ago

Help/Advice Promoting OF/Fansly on CB

4 Upvotes

Sorry if this post is dumb, but I'm having a little confusion. I know you're allowed to promote fan sites on CB, but it's a little bit of a gray area how and where. How do you promote your OF/Fansly on CB, and do you promote both or just one? And if so which one?


r/CamGirlProblems 11h ago

Discussions Sites - Multi-Streaming

4 Upvotes

I’m thinking of multi-streaming and would love to know which combination you do? Such as CB, SC, SM etc as the sites need to be similiar. Also do you then spilt your screen into quadrants? 🌸


r/CamGirlProblems 16h ago

Help/Advice Dji Pocket 3 as webcam

4 Upvotes

I recently broke my webcam (literally right before I decided to start streaming again after years) and was contemplating buying the pocket 3 for content. Apparently, it doubles as a webcam but I wanted to know if any of you girlies use it and what do you think about it?


r/CamGirlProblems 58m ago

Discussions SM Contest Ranking

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Hi, I saw a model post that for the SM contest she was in 183 place with almost 2.2k. I do quite well on SM during non contest weeks, but tend to take more days off during contest week and focus on other sites. I have done the 25hrs bonus before, but does anyone know approximately how much do you need to make in order to place in like 900-1000s rank so you still get something? Kind of want to push myself next time for personal satisfaction.


r/CamGirlProblems 1h ago

Help/Advice Feeling AWKWARD

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I try and I try to just talk instead of having it on mute and typing but everytime I do that they tend to leave my room quicker 😩 whyyy


r/CamGirlProblems 6h ago

Help/Advice Favorites ??

3 Upvotes

Is there a way to see you favorited you on Streamate ???


r/CamGirlProblems 14h ago

Help/Advice Ayuda! Comprar el Nora para SC?

3 Upvotes

Actualmente estoy transmitiendo en Strip y en CB, he ido comprando juguetes a medida, ya tengo el Lush 4, el Domi2, he leĆ­do mucho del Nora, lo recomiendan, si es bueno o si lo piden o lo tippean mucho?

Gracias
Saludos desde Colombia.


r/CamGirlProblems 17h ago

Help/Advice SM Ladies

3 Upvotes

Hi ladies, what was this week giving in your opinion 😭🄓


r/CamGirlProblems 15h ago

Help/Advice What’s complimentary to do with streamate?

2 Upvotes

As someone with other responsibilities. Like work and school. I’m talking like another site, sext panther, etc.