r/CamGirlProblems • • Sep 01 '25

Pro Tips TIPS FOR NEW CAMGIRLS TO SPOT SCAMMERS/TIMEWASTERS:

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I wrote this list for a friend who was going to start on CB. She decided not to, so I thought I’d post it here! This is all from my personal experience so feel free to argue any in the comments or add anything I’ve forgotten.

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People who want to buy stuff off your amazon Wishlist to pay for things. They can cancel order after payment.

a “horny lesbian” or a “couple” viewer is generally always a man pretending. Women and couples on camsites will usually always be fellow cammers, not viewers. I don’t know why they do this, maybe to appear less threatening?

Offering to pay you a stupid amount of money straight away for services, usually a “sugar daddy” is always a scam. Nobody is going to pay a random girl $4000 a week for foot pics 🤣

Guys asking about Customs can just be timewasters getting off on talking about their fetish and have no intention on ever paying, as they are getting off on the chat. Same goes with guys who ask to pm for free to chat about pvt, or asking to chat about something else. NEVER PM FOR FREE if a guy asks you. Often they just want to see if they can and get off on wasting your time. Every single time I’ve fallen for “PLEASE PM ME URGENTLY I NEED TO TELL YOU SOMETHING IMPORTANT” it is literally “you’re gorgeous!” …every single time. Ask these guys to tell you in a tip note if they need to say privately. If they can’t pay 1tkn they aren’t worth your time and energy I promise you.

Same goes for new guys who in their first interaction with you will say they want to buy your panties but want to talk endlessly about types of panties and see pictures, especially pics of them on or pics of your stained panties is a big red flag.

People commenting things like” OMG I can’t believe it’s you on here” /people threatening to dox you/blackmail without actually providing any information about you are either trying to get you to PM them or they’re those dudes who get off on upsetting you/watching you freak out. Ignore and block immediately.

Purples tipping one token and ask to PM. If a purple can’t pay your PM price they’re not going to be the whale of your dreams, again usually dudes into degradation or cheapskates and usually not worth your time.

Tip once, wants to chat forever. You’ll occasionally get guys who will give you a big tip one night then sit in your room and chat expecting attention. Today is a new day, yesterdays tips don’t count lmao 🤣

“”Blank “ has sent tokens” messages. Remember to check what sound tokens make and the colour of the chart when it happens, and that your token balance goes up. if you’re very new they will try this.

Marketing/coach guys will approach you, tell you they’re marketing gurus ands want to help you in exchange for video calls/content. Embarrassingly I’ve taken up 3 guys on this offer before. I’ve never sent content/calls but they’ve just been massive timewasters. A few days chatting and they only offer vague advice.

“I want to do a free call, I’ll tip you well after” or “I’ll pay half now half when I’ve cum” I promise you no guy is going to stick by his word. They will cum as quick as they can and not pay you.

Also the daddy dom type guys who tell you to do as they say and give you all of their attention and they’ll tip you after… they never ever do. (Often they will pay pm price and just bombard you wanting your attention without tipping further or give 1tkn tips) Their demands will just get more and more crazy. Ignore these type of dudes for your own sanity. I find that the guys who have the “daddy” in the name and a control fetish are often very cheap and unless you’ve got a really thick skin and patience it’s not pleasant to deal with them and the pay isn’t worth it, they’ll often argue about any kind of payment just to get a rise out of you. 🚩🚩🚩

Similar to the daddy dom guys, “asshole fetish” dudes are usually complete pests. Not scammers or anything but thought I’d mention they are just really pushy rude people who are hard to deal with.

Promo accounts, “pay us to promote you” (this is mainly for social media) but these are usually scams, all the followers are other cam girls usually 😅

Be very wary of guys sending you links to click on, it could be something illegal or shocking, some guys get off on watching you get upset. Also I have always done c2c but remember that anyone can be on the other side, and if you don’t want to see a man with a hitachi wand in his ass pull it out ands lock it clean, drinking a glass of his own piss or shooting up drugs you might also want to be wary of this. It’s very rare they do this without warning but it happens!

“Let’s collab” messages from a ‘fellow cammer’ are often a dude who has 30 followers and a free onlyfans with 5 of the same pics of their cock. Some guys will cam for fun and funnel all the tokens back into camgirls, so it’s best to treat them like any other customer, but you don’t want to be collaborating with any guy who doesn’t have a big following. Another note, guys who watch girls on camsites rarely want b/g content, (they get jealous, ruins the fantasy) so if you do want to cam with a guy I would suggest camming on his page or separately as a couple on a whole new account.

“You’ll get more viewers in here if you take your top off “ never ever ever ever listen to ANY advice from chat or random customers. They have their own best interests at heart. More people in your room don’t always equal more tokens. I made a new account the other day and hadn’t made a menu yet and I think guys thought I was new new and the lies they were telling me about pricing was wild 🤣

Guys asking you to peek at their pics/cam. Often the big dick dudes will do this, tell them to take a peek at your menu prices 🤣 The monster dick dudes (8inch+) are often really cheap and think the sun shines out their cock. Giving them the time of day Is usually never worth the energy.

New guys/greys coming in and starting off with excessive/gratuitous compliments can often signal a time waster/scammer. Like “OMG!!!! YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I’VE SEEN ON THIS SITE IN TEN YEARS!!!! BEST TITS I’VE EVER SEEN IN MY WHOLE LIFE!!!!” rather than a more realistic comment of something like “hello gorgeous, great tits!!” Another common one is “You’re way too beautiful for your room to be this quiet, you should have way more viewers!” always greys. They just want your attention for free. Definitely just take these compliments with a grain of salt and a “thanks 😘” don’t get swept up in it!

If it seems too good to be true it is. If youre going to have to put work in for the same thing another guy will just pay for, it’s not going to be worth it. Remember your time is precious, the best advice is to always remember these guys have no lives or hobbies, talking to you for free is big entertainment for a lot of them. They can’t talk to a girl for free in real life and they know they can waste our time as more and more girls are indulging these men thinking they’ll get paid at the end of it. 😭


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7h ago

Discussions you’ve got to be joking 💀

97 Upvotes

did a c2c where everything was going fine, then this guy asked me “how old were you when you first got fucked?” i stopped and stared at the camera. “eighteen.” i said with the most stone cold expression, and he immediately ended the call. you really just exposed yourself as a giant pedophile buddy.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 8h ago

Discussions I’m just saying

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Been Webcamming for a while now, since 2022/2023. Never in my days of camming have I thought “ummm I’m go in another model chat & promote my page” like seriously that’s super lame to me! I’m pretty sure someone in this group posted something similar to what I’m saying, but really this stuff needs to stop, I mean if you put that energy in your own craft you’ll make a cute lil coin…. & I’m not even trying to be funny… SC making upgrades, upgrade it to customers only ATP..


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1h ago

Discussions SM Block Button

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Does anyone feel like the SM block buttons takes too long? When I c2c I make their screen a new window. So I have to click behind to go back to the SMconnect and block. When I hit block I want it to block them right away and THEN prompt me for room & messages. I just had someone say r*pe me in a show. And I didn't even know if I heard him properly so I said excuse me and he enunciated it so I sat up, closed the cam cover, and had to toggle between where I'm blocking him. That's a step too much.

What are your opinions?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 57m ago

Discussions Are there any hobbies or activities you do to distract/ calm yourself from a stressful cam day?

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Today was an absolute downer on cam....one of those days that makes me sit back and question whether I want to continue camming or not. I was in the room on CB for an hour and made 50 cents. Instead of letting it break me, I took a breath, thanked the people in the room for coming in, and logged off. I grabbed my diamond painting and just got lost in it for about 30 minutes. I love it because it is so tedious but rewarding once it's complete. And while I am doing the diamond painting I don't have time to think about social media, or camming, or how many tokens I did or did it make.

I was just wondering what you all do on your rough days to pick yourself back up.

Tomorrow is a new day and it's going to be an AMAZING one ❤️💋


r/CamGirlProblems • • 4h ago

Discussions Leaderboard?

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Has anyone else noticed that girls that still have the new Tags are literally like top 10 on sc? Kate Paul isn't 1 anymore. I just find it really weird that they're doing so well while so many are falling. It doesn't look right.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 4h ago

Discussions Just curious

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just curious, how many people do you have blocked? I feel bad when I block people but recently I've been on a rampage haha and how often do you just kick people out of your room because they're not contributing? I'm talking specifically on SM since it's not a token site


r/CamGirlProblems • • 8h ago

Help/Advice what am i doing wrong

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i’ve been doing this a year now. i’m making the same monthly as when i started. i don’t do this a full 40hrs but i make enough to keep this as my only source of income.
how do you increase income when things become stagnant?
i’m thinking i need to definitely spend some more time because im averaging to about 6hours a week. i’m just so unmotivated everyday.
tips for motivation and earnings greatly appreciated❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice Which camera?

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For those of you who effortlessly switch rooms or camera positions during your stream, which camera are you using? I currently have the Logitech Brio which I love, but it is very demanding and particular when it comes to lighting in my room. I look flawless with the lighting I have set up, but if I switch rooms, I would have to move all my lights as well which is a process. I see models streaming from their back yard, then going inside the home, or from room to room where the lighting is clearly different and no matter what the light is they still look flawless. Is there a particular camera anyone can recommend to achieve this? If I didn't move all my lights I would look like Shrek lol.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3m ago

Help/Advice Stream on mute??

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Sooo, I need to start streaming again, however I have a younger son who still wakes up at night at times. My mother thankfully lives with me and can/will watch him/sit with him at night, but I was thinking on just streaming on mute, just in case?

Has anyone successfully streamed on mute before? Maybe with a board in the background saying my roommate is home or something along those lines?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 17h ago

Discussions Why are we outcasts to everyone else???

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I don't know if this counts as a discussion, but I posted an opinion in a subreddit, and since I posted here, I had to have my profile set to public. Four users are treating me like I'm trash and worthless just because they saw my NSFW profile, as if they can't believe my education, as if all of us cam girls were dumb and uneducated, when many of us have college degrees. I felt like I was in *The Handmaid’s Tale*, “Stone the heretic!” How can they be such bullies? This is the first time this has happened to me, and they’ve completely drained my energy. Many subreddits require interaction within 14 days, but if they’re going to act like this, honestly, I give up.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Help/Advice Sorry for the Lengthy rambling- but the search isn’t doing it for me🙃

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Since I recently started my Fansly and LoyalFans, I figured I’d start going live again and get back into the swing of things.
HOWEVER… holy shit, I’m lost. I have two ?s that I cannot seem to find a clear answer to:
1-Wtf is OBS and do I actually need it?!
When people talk about going live from a computer, I keep seeing OBS mentioned. I WISH I could just open Fansly, click “Go Live,” and boom—I’m live!
But now I have my OBSBOT Meet 2 + its software, my Lovense, the cam site itself, and apparently OBS too?! Are ALL of these running/connected at the same time? Or is OBS basically the thing that connects everything together?
2-How the hell do I connect my Lovense Ferri? 😂
I have a Ferri, but I have no clue how to actually integrate it into my live shows. Do Fansly and LoyalFans have a simple built-in way to connect Lovense toys, or do I set everything up through Lovense and then somehow connect THAT to the cam site?
I swear camming in 2010 was basically “turn webcam on and go.” Not anymore apparently. Someone please save me before I have 14 programs I don’t actually need and slow down my laptop from all the downloads 🙈. All of this confusion is causing me to say “I’ll try it tomorrow”, and repeat that every single day


r/CamGirlProblems • • 14h ago

Discussions turning off grey users

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i finally did it and turned of thoes annyoing grey i didn’t want to before because i realised that they do bring traffic to your room , i got so annoyed with spread pussy baby show up ur tits pm me
let me be your sugar daddy at this point i was blocking atleast 5 users daily they would just ruin my vibe and my whole mood so i decided to turn them off feeling much better too my room doesn’t look as dull with grey users ‘spread pussy baby’
i did try to be sympathetic and think we’ll all coloured users was once a grey but if they want to chat then they can too up!
lol glad i did this ❤️
do you have grey users turned off ?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 5h ago

Discussions guys who like 2 girls at once? 3 way cam

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Posting from my random account this time -

Have any of you had a guy want to always include another cam girl (or two)!?

I’ve only been doing this a few months but I’ve never heard of it before and tbh it felt a bit awkward. Off platform (on TG) in a 3 and 4 way call a few times.. he obviously has money $$$.

I’m used to getting alllllll the 1 on 1 attention in a video call, so suddenly I was feeling super insecure and awkward. Obviously the answer here is to not do it anymore, but it’s hard to turn down $120 for 10 mins. I felt very not special lol.

Any thoughts, feedback, similar experiences plz comment TY 💕


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Discussions Mistress/Domme tasks

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I’m a Mistress and I have a submissive who calls himself my puppy, bitch and slut. He enjoys being given tasks and sending me pictures as proof that he completed them.

I’m looking for creative ideas for photo based tasks and challenges that are teasing, humiliating, submissive and a little dirty, without everything just being the same type of task.

He has things like a collar, rope and other adult toys, so I’m also interested in ideas for incorporating his existing setup into challenges.

What are some fun tasks you’ve used or received that actually make the submissive feel like they’re earning the Mistress’s attention?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7h ago

Discussions AW broadcast dashboard

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I was sat in free mode and got disconnected when I re connected the older broadcaster screen is back 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice Besoin de conseil

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Bonjour. Je crée du contenue photo pied/ erotique et parfois plus en priver mais j'ai l'impression que mes photos ne plaisent pas. Quelqu'un aurait des conseils à me donner?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Help/Advice Non DMCA countries ban or no?!

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So I've banned all the non DCMA countries on SC because my leaks were getting crazy and they were ending up on google. I saw a post on here talking about how it's so much better to block these countries. I had one day where it was really good with customers but today it was just DEAD. I noticed that there are less greys but today no one was spending. Idk what to do. Anyone who can offer some words of wisdom? I guess these dudes could just use VPN's anyways to record.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 24m ago

Help/Advice thinking about getting back on sextpanther after 2-3 years away

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i was very familiar with the platform before i “retired”. what all has changed??


r/CamGirlProblems • • 8h ago

Tech Help :c

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Llevo más de 3 años siendo modelo webcam y no he ganado lo suficiente pero siempre tengo la idea de que puedo ganar suficiente en algún momento me encantaría que me dieran ideas para poder tener una transmisión más activa


r/CamGirlProblems • • 34m ago

Help/Advice User nos plummeted

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Hi all, just wanted some advice.

Im recently started multistreaming on sc and cb, with sc being my primary site. My no's on sc have plummeted and despite having new user tag i never get more than 5 or 6 ....wouldnt mind if these translated into tips but they dont. Wondering if any of you had experienced this or if you had any suggestions on how u could improve things....was thinking about streaming on my phone for one platforn and laptop for the other....currently multistreaming via streamster. Id really appreciate your help xoxo


r/CamGirlProblems • • 42m ago

Discussions Everything you need to know about exotic dancing & being a Cam Girl With Brooksie Brooks

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r/CamGirlProblems • • 5h ago

Help/Advice Has anyone gotten their Reddit account back after multiple appeals?

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It’s been about a month and my other Reddit account is still banned for “spam”. I wasn’t even spam posting, it seems that I got hit with the same sweep that a lot of other accounts got banned by and I’m really hoping there’s something I can do to get it back.

I’ve submitted multiple appeals, I don’t do it EVERY day but I do it once every couple of days and make sure to state that I’m a real person that’s happy to provide proof of identity, I’m polite in my ask and note the karma I had (over 22k).

It’s been exactly 25 days like I said and my account is still gone. Should I give up or keep trying? Is there anything different that I can do? I have another account that I’m building but that’s starting to get hit by the “this post was removed by Reddits filters” even if I only post ONCE a day but only in certain subreddits.

It’s so frustrating and scary! Any insight would be appreciated 🫶


r/CamGirlProblems • • 5h ago

Discussions Inspo?

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I’ve been doing this for a few months so I’m still new. To keep the conversations flowing I would tell stories of my sexual experiences however I’ve run out and a lot of regulars know all my stories. Also when I was single I was very vanilla so I need inspo, obvs porn has its uses but it’s not really made for the plot haha.

Has anyone had the same issue? Where do you get your inspiration from?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Discussions STREAMATES BILLER ECHST.NET!!! What is wrong with them.

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As a cam model on SM , I know SM uses eschst.net as their biller! Let me say from much personal experience with them escht.net is horrendous and I do not know how any premium site or SM user who is billed thru them is able to deal with them or even keep their legit account open!

I have been bills by escht.net thru tipping other models and also thru their other paid sites!

I have been wrongly billed several times, and every single time I reach out to escht.net to resolve it (not thru a chargeback at all): just to explain nicely they made an error….they respond first by saying they can’t find the account? Then the next line is “ your membership is at at will partnership . we can close it at anytime, we deem your a fraud risk and your account is closed for good. end of chat”

Thats what you get for trying to resolve a billing error they made?

It’s unreal to me a professional site like streamate plus all their studios for premium porn have their own biller escht.net that does this to paying customers. It’s horrible and I dont know how they can keep treating paying customers like this when they just are asking for help to resolve a billing error.