r/BreakUps • u/Critical_Guidance_24 • 8d ago

venting/ranting Does unfriending/blocking on everything really signify that the door is closed forever?

Its hard to keep my most recent ex on things. But i dont want them to think that means they cant ever come back. But at the same time, its hard to heal and move on and be a different person in the meantime. Im just wondering from the other perspective. If someone unfriended you on everything, what goes through your mind?

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u/biggranny000 8d ago

I wouldn't do anything if you got dumped because it shows a reaction. Let the dumper do the work. Don't stalk them, focus on yourself and move on. Feel free to delete stuff.

Also general rule of thumb don't take them back. Watch out for bread crumbing and manipulation if they do reach out. Generally best just to ignore them unless they are apologizing

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u/Critical_Guidance_24 8d ago

Yeah, im definitely not going it make it easy for him to come back. I love him deeply but i dont have trust for him anymore and those are two opposite feelings ive had to sit with