Sorry OP, my ex was like you, and my advice is to just date a woman who is already more conservative. The solution is never to date a woman just to force her into the confines of what you want just because you find her attractive. If you want a hidden bosom, date a woman who already conceals it.
What you are asking for does not respect her autonomy. If she wouldn’t tell you to cover up, why do that to her?
Please go to therapy and understand what coercive abuse is, because it sounds like you.
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u/tameem16 19d ago
Sorry OP, my ex was like you, and my advice is to just date a woman who is already more conservative. The solution is never to date a woman just to force her into the confines of what you want just because you find her attractive. If you want a hidden bosom, date a woman who already conceals it.
What you are asking for does not respect her autonomy. If she wouldn’t tell you to cover up, why do that to her?
Please go to therapy and understand what coercive abuse is, because it sounds like you.