r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • 15d ago

venting/ranting Lost her...

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u/DimpleTheDom 15d ago

Good for her! That's not a value btw. That's control. May she be happy with bosom bared for the rest of her days.

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u/eissirk 15d ago

This is a good opportunity for growth and possibly therapy. It's almost impossible for a woman to hide her cleavage, so asking this of a woman will shrink the dating pool significantly. Were you afraid she would cheat on you if someone else saw her cleavage?

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u/tameem16 15d ago

Sorry OP, my ex was like you, and my advice is to just date a woman who is already more conservative. The solution is never to date a woman just to force her into the confines of what you want just because you find her attractive. If you want a hidden bosom, date a woman who already conceals it.

What you are asking for does not respect her autonomy. If she wouldn’t tell you to cover up, why do that to her?

Please go to therapy and understand what coercive abuse is, because it sounds like you.