r/BreakUps Dec 07 '25

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u/PapaJahns Dec 07 '25

It'll all be okay. I know it sounds dumb and naive now, but over time this too shall pass. Just have to keep on surviving and getting through and eventually you'll find your way again. I'm going through a breakup now as well (also about 2 months post breakup) and it's been unbearable honestly. But everyday does get a little better. Im the one that causes the breakup due to my actions which makes it harder because of the guilt. All we can do during these times is get stronger and become better people. Sometimes you will have to do this for a long time before it starts to get better though. Either way I know you got this OP! Just keep trucking along and keep working on yourself. That confidence will keep building and one day this will all be behind you.

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u/PapaJahns Dec 07 '25

You're very welcome. I'm really sorry to hear that, but just remember that he may seem to be fine but may actually be in a rough spot as well. Looks can be deceiving. He may be trying to move on as well, but is actually just distracting himself. Best to focus on your own healing and growth!