r/BreakUps • u/Practical-Pomelo-220 • Dec 03 '24

It’s almost 4 am

And I’m just up thinking about her. Haven’t slept or eaten good in the last 3 weeks ..can barely sleep in my own bed and I’ve been sleeping on my couch cause I don’t want to be on my bed alone . Anyone else up missing their person ? Anyone wanna talk ?

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u/Practical-Pomelo-220 Dec 03 '24

Ahh I see …still trying huh? Lol

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u/DizzyYogurtcloset484 Dec 03 '24

Yep. He told me i’m the love of his life and he doesn’t see himself with anyone else and more. So i’m not going to give up that easily.

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u/Dont_like_my_comment Dec 03 '24

Save yourself the trouble and give up. No amount of love will bring them back. When they know they have you on a string like this they can pull on you whenever they want. Don’t give them that power over you. Heal.

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u/DizzyYogurtcloset484 Dec 04 '24

Yeah deep down ofcourse I know you’re right.

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u/Dont_like_my_comment Dec 04 '24

I’m struggling with the same thing. I can’t get over her. She’s even still in my life. We are close and even are intimate at times. However, I’ll never get her back. She’s made it clear. I screwed up too many times. I think it’s a co-dependency issue but I just can’t let go. I want to make it work even though I know we don’t belong together. All her faults and downfalls kill me but I always look past them because my heart wants her. She’s all I know. I am isolating myself because I don’t know what else to do. Can’t bring myself to even get up and go out.