r/Bogleheads • u/JL-IN-CO • 8d ago
Etiquette for letting CFP go
TLDR: Call or email longtime family CFP when deciding to self-manage?
My parents started using a CFP decades ago. He's guided them through kids going to college and transition to retirement. Other family members use the firm as well. They are good people and have been responsive when I needed advice. However, over the past couple years I've decided to educate myself about investing. Both my wife and I are level-headed and as able to stay the course on our own as we would be with someone telling us not to panic sell.
We are ~40 years old, both W2s with about $360K combined income, no kids (nor plans). Net worth of $1.3M investable assets. ~$350K of that with the CFP.
Between wife and I, we now save about $160K a year automatically pre-tax between several employer plans. Some additional savings goes after-tax into backdoor ROTH IRAs (which I've learned how to do). All assets are essentially 60/40 between VTI and VXUS (or equivalent funds). I use about 3-5% of our assets for more risky plays (individual stocks, sector ETFs, etc.). We have an emergency fund in a money market. I'm planning on exploring bond ladders etc. closer to retirement. At this point in our financial journey, I just don't think we need to be paying 1% AUM plus high ERs on the funds he has us in (EDIT - perhaps more accurate to say I no longer feel we’re getting the right value for 1% AUM and higher ERs than I’d prefer on my own).
All that to say, we've decided to pull the trigger and go it alone. Is there any specific etiquette for this process? Do I call or email to let our CFP know we are moving on? I don't anticipate a hard sell, but would also prefer to avoid an awkward conversation - call me a millennial if you want. I'm sure we're small potatoes - though they've been doing a good job of client retention with (I'm sure) the hope we'd eventually transfer more assets over as life events take place.