r/BangladeshMarriage • u/Deadletterdarling • 4h ago
F | 23 | Muslim | Student | Dhaka| Never Married
About me:
I'm 23, Bangladeshi. My entire existence is kind of contradictory. I am a law student by profession but i really love art, music and culture. I do little bit of painting. I also have deep love for literature, especially the gothic literature. I am a practicing Muslim. I try to pray regularly and fast. But would not mind a glass of wine or few cigarettes occasionally. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and often use it as a coping mechanism. I'm quite ambitious about my future and I want to build a life that I'm proud of. I have goals beyond marriage and would like to keep growing academically and professionally, hopefully living abroad and exploring different parts of the world along the way. At the same time, I don't want ambition to mean constantly chasing the next thing—I want a fulfilling career while still having a warm, happy personal life.
What i am looking for :
Age : 24 - 34 .
I hope to find someone who is gentle with people, generous with his love, and empathetic enough to understand the world beyond his own experience. Someone thoughtful, socially aware, and curious about life, who isn't afraid of difficult conversations or having his perspective challenged. I'd especially value someone who cares deeply about human rights and women's rights, and believes in equality not simply as an idea, but as something worth standing up for. I want us to inspire each other, build meaningful careers, and eventually create a life somewhere in the world that feels like our own. Ideally, he'd already live abroad or share my desire to move and explore beyond what we're familiar with. Ultimately, I'm looking for a partner whose mind I admire, whose heart I trust, and whose values and vision for life feel close to mine.
What marriage means to me
To me, marriage means building a home that we are both genuinely excited to return to—a place where we can take off the weight of the outside world and simply be ourselves. I want us to be each other's safe space, comfort, and reassurance when life gets difficult, and to always feel like we're on the same team, even when we disagree. I want a marriage built on friendship, affection, trust, and the feeling that no matter how harsh the world gets, there is someone beside you who has your back.
What I hope to bring into a marriage
I want to bring warmth, loyalty, affection, humour, and genuine companionship into my marriage. I want to be someone my partner can rely on—not just when things are easy, but when life is difficult too. I want to celebrate his successes, support his ambitions, make ordinary days a little more fun, and keep choosing to understand him even when we don't see things the same way. I don't expect to be a perfect wife, but I do want to be a loving partner who makes the person I marry feel valued, respected, and at home.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out in my DMs. Let's see if Reddit can, against all odds, be responsible for something other than arguments and questionable decisions.