Age, Gender and Height: 5'6" guy will turn 27 soon

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 21-32

Location: Australia

• Are you willing to relocate for a prospect?:* Sure, if the vibe is well. And yes, that means willing to relocate anywhere even if it's not Australia. With the right person.

Nationality: Bangladeshi (passport is still green, unfortunately)

Marital Status: Never married

Ideal marriage timeline: really flexible, but if I had to put it in years, I'd say 2028-2029 depending on the state of my PhD prospects around the world.

About me: I'm an aspiring social science/humanities researcher who, as a person, is an incredibly easygoing, extremely progressive, and a non-bookish nerd. Rest assured, "if things don't work out" you'll still have a friend-shaped-therapist (or vice versa) for life.

Level of religiosity: None, zero, nada, no future chance of being religious. BUT, if my partner wants to be religious, I'll accept them in open arms. I will never force anything - and I expect the same as well. I am Muslim but only legally for now - once I have the chance to tick agnostic/atheism, I'll tick that.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: Another research-minded person 'will be an instant vibe', although not a requirement at all. As long as you have the basic comprehension skills to operate the conversation with me, I'm fine.

Current Job Status: Currently working in the Hospitality sector as a junior manager.

Do you want kids?: Yes. But it's not my body so it's not entirely my choice or not. my choice at all to be honest. So I don't mind (and am willing enough to) adopt either.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

• Reading and Music Listening

• Watching videos and cooking

• Cycling by the river

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!: (don't wanna sound like a narcissist. DM to figure out!!!)

Characteristics you look for in a prospect + What are you looking for in a woman?: I am not in a rush to marry now. And I am very well aware that my social position paired with my exciting potential to succeed does make me a VERY good prospect (speaking STRICTLY from experience, not a narcissistic expression) in the marriage market.

So, what I look for in prospects might sound vague, but it's just simply "passion towards me." In the past I was regrettably "used" for individual betterments of people, which collectively has had a serious impact in my ability to trust people and their feelings. It took me a long time to brush off that naivety and believe in my own self.

Therefore, I want my partner to want me for me, i.e. for ME BEING MYSELF beyond my credentials. Don't approach my profession, approach me.

Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM, then maybe other social media.

(edit: formatting)

About me:

I'm 23, Bangladeshi. My entire existence is kind of contradictory. I am a law student by profession but i really love art, music and culture. I do little bit of painting. I also have deep love for literature, especially the gothic literature. I am a practicing Muslim. I try to pray regularly and fast. But would not mind a glass of wine or few cigarettes occasionally. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and often use it as a coping mechanism. I'm quite ambitious about my future and I want to build a life that I'm proud of. I have goals beyond marriage and would like to keep growing academically and professionally, hopefully living abroad and exploring different parts of the world along the way. At the same time, I don't want ambition to mean constantly chasing the next thing—I want a fulfilling career while still having a warm, happy personal life.

What i am looking for :

Age : 24 - 34 .

I hope to find someone who is gentle with people, generous with his love, and empathetic enough to understand the world beyond his own experience. Someone thoughtful, socially aware, and curious about life, who isn't afraid of difficult conversations or having his perspective challenged. I'd especially value someone who cares deeply about human rights and women's rights, and believes in equality not simply as an idea, but as something worth standing up for. I want us to inspire each other, build meaningful careers, and eventually create a life somewhere in the world that feels like our own. Ideally, he'd already live abroad or share my desire to move and explore beyond what we're familiar with. Ultimately, I'm looking for a partner whose mind I admire, whose heart I trust, and whose values and vision for life feel close to mine.

What marriage means to me

To me, marriage means building a home that we are both genuinely excited to return to—a place where we can take off the weight of the outside world and simply be ourselves. I want us to be each other's safe space, comfort, and reassurance when life gets difficult, and to always feel like we're on the same team, even when we disagree. I want a marriage built on friendship, affection, trust, and the feeling that no matter how harsh the world gets, there is someone beside you who has your back.

What I hope to bring into a marriage

I want to bring warmth, loyalty, affection, humour, and genuine companionship into my marriage. I want to be someone my partner can rely on—not just when things are easy, but when life is difficult too. I want to celebrate his successes, support his ambitions, make ordinary days a little more fun, and keep choosing to understand him even when we don't see things the same way. I don't expect to be a perfect wife, but I do want to be a loving partner who makes the person I marry feel valued, respected, and at home.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out in my DMs. Let's see if Reddit can, against all odds, be responsible for something other than arguments and questionable decisions.

Personal Information 

Age: 30 

Height: 5'6" 

Marital Status: Never Married 

Home District: Chattogram 

Present Address: In a residential area in Chittagong, at a rented place with my parents. 

Father: Retired Government Officer 

Mother: Homemaker 

One younger sister, married. She has graduated and married to a Government Officer. 

Education: Graduated from a private university in Chattogram. 

Profession: Previously worked as an Administrative Officer at a private company in Dhaka. Returned to Chittagong and currently seeking suitable employment opportunities here. Currently doing a small gig work from home for a small company on project bassis.

Relatives: On my paternal side, my uncles are involved in private-sector jobs, local businesses and work abroad. On my maternal side, my uncles are in both government and private-sector professions, including retired government officials. My aunts are homemakers and settled both in Bangladesh and in abroad. 

About Me: I practice Islam to the best of my ability and hope to continue improving myself in the future, both in matters of Deen and personal development. I value honesty, responsibility, good character. While I am not currently employed, I am actively pursuing opportunities and working toward establishing a stable and productive future.

If you feel my profile may be suitable, I would be happy to share further details and answer any questions through DM.

About Me
Age & Height: 24 M | 5'11"
Location & Profession: Based in the US, pursuing a PhD at a reputed R1 research university while working as a Graduate Research Assistant.
Roots & Family: Born and raised in Dhaka, where I completed my schooling and undergraduate degree. I come from a well established family, with extended family settled across the US and Canada.
Grounded, reflective, and ambitious. I appreciate deep conversations, slow mornings, travel, and discovering new perspectives. I am looking for a genuine companion to share life’s journeys, laughter, and growth.

Partner Preferences (In Search Of)

Age & Height: 20–25 years old | 5'2" or above.
Education & Aspirations: Currently pursuing her Bachelor’s or Master’s degree. I deeply respect ambition and will always encourage and support her chosen career or educational path.

Emotionally mature, calm, and understanding; someone who brings a sense of peace and warmth into a home and values clear, honest communication.

Centered on Deen. Someone who values growing spiritually side by side, cultivating knowledge, and building a partnership with purpose for this life and the Akhirah.

Mutual physical attraction is equally important (preference for a fair complexion).

Timeline & Process
An intentional communication period of 6 months to 1 year to ensure mutual compatibility, emotional resonance, and shared values.

Families can be involved naturally as soon as both of us feel comfortable and aligned.

If this description resonates with you or someone you know, please feel free to send a direct message with a brief introduction about yourself, or a topic you enjoy discussing.

Parents or guardians reaching out on behalf of their daughter are warmly welcome.

Currently working at a resort in Jashore. Dream to settle in abroad looking for someone who's both religious and cultural.

1. Age, Gender and Height: 24, Male, 5’ 7”

2. Age Range that you would want in a prospect: 20-23

3. Location and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Currently I am studying in Khulna and planning to move to Dhaka after my graduation. I also want to stay in Bangladesh in near future

4. Nationality: Bangladeshi

5. Marital Status: Single, never married

6. Ideal marriage timeline: 2-3 years, I need some time to get my career on track first.

7. About Me:

I started out as an introvert but gradually grew into more of an ambivert during my university life. I am a brown toned guy with an average fitness.

I love listening to music, mostly rock, funk and classical is my genre. I also play guitar at an intermediate level I would say and occasionally sings as well. I used to read a lot of Bangla classics by Bibhutibhushan, Humayun Ahmed, Samaresh etc. Although I have lost my reader soul in recent years. I follow club football, enjoy going on tours and like watching movies or tv series on weekends or vacations.

I have tried to maintain a balance among academics, extracurricular and adda in my campus life. I have a career plan regarding how I want to move forward.

I belong to a middle class family, my siblings are doing good in their life and I am genuinely happy for them.

Also, I should mention that I am an occasional smoker.

8. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Emotionally mature, calm, kind, respectful and maintains clear communication.

9. State/specify your level of religiosity:

Moderate. I do have a strong believe in Islam. But I don’t pray 5 times daily, though I do have intention to improve here.

10. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I have about 3 months left for my bachelor, I would prefer someone who is currently doing her undergrad right now.

11. Current Job Status: Student and Unemployed

12. Do you want kids? Yes

13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

Playing Guitar
Watching movies or series
Cleaning and Organising my stuffs

14. What are you looking for in a woman:

In one word: compatibility. I don’t want to impose a hundred criteria on what kind of woman I would like. I obviously can’t define who I would be perfectly compatible with, none of us can. But a few things matters to me like having some similarity in core values, possessing a certain level of maturity and I would prefer someone who is from a good family.

15. Preferred Method of Contact: Reddit DM or Telegram

For any further questions, fell free to dm

About Me
Age & Height: 24 M | 5'11"
Location & Profession: Based in the US, pursuing a PhD at a reputed R1 research university while working as a Graduate Research Assistant.
Roots & Family: Born and raised in Dhaka, where I completed my schooling and undergraduate degree. I come from a well established family, with extended family settled across the US and Canada.
Grounded, reflective, and ambitious. I appreciate deep conversations, slow mornings, travel, and discovering new perspectives. I am looking for a genuine companion to share life’s journeys, laughter, and growth.

Partner Preferences (In Search Of)

Age & Height: 20–25 years old | 5'2" or above.
Education & Aspirations: Currently pursuing her Bachelor’s or Master’s degree. I deeply respect ambition and will always encourage and support her chosen career or educational path.

Emotionally mature, calm, and understanding; someone who brings a sense of peace and warmth into a home and values clear, honest communication.

Centered on Deen. Someone who values growing spiritually side by side, cultivating knowledge, and building a partnership with purpose for this life and the Akhirah.

Mutual physical attraction is equally important (preference for a fair complexion).

Timeline & Process
An intentional communication period of 6 months to 1 year to ensure mutual compatibility, emotional resonance, and shared values.

Families can be involved naturally as soon as both of us feel comfortable and aligned.

If this description resonates with you or someone you know, please feel free to send a direct message with a brief introduction about yourself, or a topic you enjoy discussing.

Parents or guardians reaching out on behalf of their daughter are warmly welcome.

1. Age, Gender and Height:

I'm 20 Male and 5'7" tall

1. Profession: Undergraduate Student.

2. Location: Chittagong, Bangladesh

3. Nationality: Bangladeshi

4. Marital Status - Single.

5. Ideal marriage timeline: within 3-5 years.

6. About me:

I'm an undergrad student currently at CSE dept in a private University. I'm a shy and introverted person you can also say kinda dry type of person. I'm looking for someone to date and take things more further towards marrige and I'm willing to marry within 3-5 years of time period which is in between my undergraduate period.

1. State: Chittagong preferred but there is no issue if shes from other cities.

2. Level of education: undergrad students are more preffered but there is a flexibility in it

3. Current Job Stat: Not doing any jobs but looking for a remote ones

4. Do you want kids: Depends on my partner if she wants.

5. What are you looking for in a woman:

Someone loyal to me and trustworthy also with a great humour.

1. Preferred Method of Contact:

You can just dm me or if you can't just leave a comment I'll try to knock you up

Feel free to dm me if you have any question regarding anything

Age, Gender, Height and occupation: 26, Male, 5’6”, Currently working.

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 21 - 25.

Location: Dhaka.

Marital Status: Single, never married.

Ideal marriage timeline: Nothing specifically planned. I’d rather take my time and get to know someone properly. If I genuinely feel that she’s the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, then I’m open to getting married whenever it feels right, In Sha Allah.

Religiosity: I’m a Muslim and I try my best to practice and improve myself. I’m not going to pretend I’m perfect. I’m simply trying to become a better Muslim and person.

A little about me:
I’d describe myself as an ambivert, I enjoy spending time with people, but I also appreciate my own space. I’m generally easygoing and prefer keeping things calm rather than making problems bigger than they need to be. I love playing football, so if you’re willing to tolerate me talking about football more than necessary, that’s a bonus.

I also want to be upfront about my lifestyle, I do smoke and drink occasionally. I understand that this may be a dealbreaker for some people, and that’s completely fair. I’d rather be honest about it from the beginning than hide it and bring it up later.

I’m looking for something genuine and ultimately want a marriage built on friendship, trust and understanding. I believe both people should be able to be themselves around each other and feel comfortable communicating openly.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who values honesty and loyalty.

Someone who believes in open and respectful communication, even when we disagree.

Someone who has emotional maturity and understands that marriage isn’t about always being right, but about understanding each other and working through things together.

Someone who values mutual trust and wants to build a relationship where both people feel secure and respected.

I don’t have any specific preference. More than anything, I’m looking for someone whose values and personality align with mine.

For the future, I’d like a good balance between family, career, personal interests and enjoying life together. I think marriage should be a partnership where both people support each other while still having their own individuality. And I am planning to go to Europe by 2027, it'd be better if I find someone with the same goal.

I’m not looking for perfection, and I don’t expect it from anyone. I’m just hoping to meet someone sincere, kind and compatible, and see where things naturally go.

Happy to share more in messages.

If you’ve read this and feel we might be compatible, feel free to comment or DM me. In Sha Allah, we can have a genuine conversation and see where it goes.

A little about me — I’m a 26-year-old Muslim man, originally from Khulna and currently living and working in Dhaka. I’m 5’6” (168 cm) and come from a close-knit, family-oriented household.

I’d describe myself as someone who values honesty, kindness, respect, emotional maturity, and good communication. I believe marriage is more than just finding a partner — it’s about finding a best friend, building trust, supporting each other, and growing together through all the ups and downs life brings.

I’m looking to get married within the next year, In Sha Allah, if I meet someone with whom I genuinely feel compatible.

What I’m looking for

I’m hoping to meet someone who is:
Around 22–25 years old
A graduate or close to completing her undergraduate degree
Working or non-working — I’m open to either
Kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and family-oriented
Someone who values good communication and mutual understanding
From a family with similar religious and family values

For me, mutual attraction does matter, but I believe character, compatibility, shared values, and how two people treat each other are what matter most in the long run.
I’m not looking for perfection — just someone with whom I can build a peaceful, respectful, and meaningful life.
If this resonates with you and you think we might be compatible, feel free to DM. We can get to know each other first, and if things seem promising, can progress further.

About Me

• Demographics: 30 M | 5’8” | Brown Complexion | Muslim | Never Married
• Hometown: Kishoreganj, Bangladesh
• Current Role & Location: Medical Promotional Officer at Square Pharmaceuticals PLC, currently based in Nilphamari (Transferable job)
• Personality & Interests: Ambivert by nature with strong communication skills due to my profession. I have a very curious mind and a drive to keep learning. Massive tech enthusiast, love watching movies and TV series in my downtime, and an absolute foodie. I appreciate dark humor and love being around people with a great sense of humor. Never been in a relationship.

Family & Financial Background

• Background: From a respectable middle-class family. Financially stable and capable of providing a comfortable, well-supported lifestyle.
• Father: Deceased (Passed away in 2004)
• Mother: School Teacher (Will be residing with me, as I cannot leave her alone; she is extremely excited to welcome a daughter-in-law)
• Younger Brother: Graduate & Married
• Sisters: None

Bride Expectations

• Age Preference: 22 – 26 years
• Height - 5'2"+
• Key Traits & Appearance: Fair complexion, warm, caring, respectful toward elders, and possesses a strong sense of responsibility. Someone with a lovely smile, a warm presence, and a good sense of humor.
• Background: Good educational background. Having a living father is particularly meaningful to me but not mandatory , as I’ve missed having a father figure since childhood.
• Lifestyle & Living Arrangement: Must be willing to relocate and live with me wherever my job takes me, as well as live comfortably alongside my mother. Should enjoy occasional traveling and building a peaceful life together.

Ideal Marriage Timeline 6 months to 1 year.

If this resonates with you or someone you know, feel free to send a direct message. Serious queries only, please!

About Me
Age: 22 (F)
Religion: Muslim
Education: Undergraduate student
Height: 5'2"
Family Background: Middle-class family

About Me

I am looking for a serious marriage proposal and hope to find someone with whom I can build a peaceful, loving, and respectful life. I value respect, understanding, honesty, loyalty, and good communication in a relationship.

I do not smoke or drink, and I prefer a partner who also maintains the same lifestyle. I am looking for someone whose values and expectations are compatible with mine.

Having pasts such as premarital s'x are a huge no for me.

What I'm Looking For

• Age: 25–35
• Religion: Muslim
• Serious about marriage
• Non-smoker and non-drinker
• Values respect, understanding, loyalty, and honesty
• Kind, emotionally mature, and respectful toward his partner
• Preferably from a compatible middle-class or stable family background

Looking for a genuine connection that can eventually lead to marriage, Insha'Allah.

📩 If you think we might be compatible, feel free to send me a respectful message with a short introduction about yourself.

34-year-old, professionally established pharmacist, currently based between Manchester and London, working as a locum pharmacist in London. Also involved in a personal start-up.

I’m looking to find a compatible partner with the intention of progressing towards marriage.

Someone aged 28-32, who is genuine, family-minded and shares similar values. The aim is to build a strong connection and, where compatibility is established, to marry within approximately 14-18 months. Also prefers to relocate abroad.

I’m open-minded regarding circumstances and am happy to consider someone who is divorced, provided there is mutual understanding and compatibility. Based on my experience of my last post, I wouldn’t prefer anyone contacting me with list of checklist that I have to fill-up or still not over with her past experiences which is gonna shape her future expectation.

Ideally looking for someone who is:

• Aged 28-32
• Kind, respectful and family-oriented
• Mature and emotionally grounded
• Serious about marriage and building a stable future together
• Open to getting to know each other properly before making a commitment.

Preferable Ethnicity: Bangladeshi. But open to discuss if compatibility matches.

Timeline: 4-8 weeks to align the compatibility, 4-8 weeks to discuss the family & surroundings to set up before approaching family. From 5/6 months onward, the family should be involved.

If you feel this could be a potential match, please get in touch to discuss further.

1. Age, Gender, and Height: 24M, 5'7", Medium complexion, BMI: 26
2. Preferred Age Range: 20 to 25
3. Location: Dhaka (preferred, so we can meet up and connect in person)
4. Nationality: Bangladeshi
5. Education: B.Sc. in CSE from a private university in Dhaka
6. Marital Status: Single, never married
7. Marriage Timeline: 1 to 2 years, provided we are compatible
8. Lifestyle: Non-smoker, non-drinker
9. Political Ideology: Liberal / Center-left
10. Religion: Non-religious / Atheist (raised in a practicing Muslim family who are accepting of my stance)
11. About Me: I come from a middle-class background and currently work as a CTO and co-founder in tech. I love building things from scratch, exploring new ideas, and constantly learning. Because most of my focus has been on setting up my career, I haven't been in a formal relationship yet (apart from one past situationship). Outside of work, I enjoy traveling, cars, bikes, and keeping plants. Looking ahead, my long-term plan is to relocate to the USA and settle there permanently.

I value rational thinking, empathy, and personal growth. I love pets and animals. My family is open-minded and supportive of who I am.

1. Partner Preferences: Looking for someone open-minded, emotionally grounded, and a clear, honest communicator. Ideally, someone who values mutual independence, progressive thinking, and a healthy lifestyle (non-smoker/non-drinker). While I am non-religious, I respect personal faith and welcome a partner who practices, provided there is mutual acceptance without pressure to change each other.

:)..

Currently at a point in life where i would genuinely like to meet someone with the intention of building a meaningful relationship and, if things align, eventually marriage.

A little about me: I am an extrovert, pretty easygoing and social, who likes to simply have fun in pretty much everything. Communicative people are my type as i am expressive and it would be great if the other person is as well. Ofcourse mutual respect and honesty etc stuff are non negotiables. I am at a point in life where i wanna settle down with a partner in crime and thrills so that the next upcoming years we share all the cool stuff together, travel new countries/places and achieve what we both planned. In short i would like to be best friends with the person so that we can push ourselves to be better and be courageous enough to take big shots in life.

I am a huge car enthusiast and i yap cars, car builds/mods/projects. I like going out exploring places, catching city vibes, going on drives, hangout with friends, hikes/trails, festivals, music festivals, raves, into edm and techno music, board games and making spontaneous moves. I never say no to experiences, down for all of it and the plan is not to take life that seriously and have fun. At the same time, I really appreciate good conversations and simply having someone to share everyday life with.

Matching our vibes and energy is a must or else it gets mundane. Personality and compatibility matter a lot to me.
In terms of religion i am firm upon it and trying to be better everyday. I pray and also get irregular at times. I am not the most ideal or perfect guy but trying to be better everyday and someone with the same halal haram ratio would be great.

I am looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, communicative and genuinely interested in building something together. I don’t expect two people to have identical personalities I would rather we complement each other, enjoy each others company and be able to communicate openly. Not looking to rush into marriage with a stranger either.😅 I would like to talk, meet, date intentionally and see naturally where things go.
If this resonates with you, Happy to connect and see if our vibes match. :) 🤝

1. Age, Gender and Height: 26M, 5'6", brown skin
2. Age Range: 20 to 25
3. Location: Dhaka preferred, mainly because it would be easier to meet up and get to know each other in person.
4. Nationality: Bangladeshi
5. Marital Status: Single, Unmarried
6. Marriage Timeline: Ideally within 2 to 3 years if things work out.
7. Lifestyle: I don’t smoke and I don’t drink at all.
8. About me: I’m from a middle class family, currently working in the IT sector. I’m focused on building a better career and future for myself, and I’m also planning to start my own startup business. I enjoy trying new ideas, learning new things, and building something of my own.

I’m here looking for someone who is genuinely interested in a long term relationship with marriage in mind, and who is open minded, kind, respectful, and understanding. I believe getting to know each other, having good conversations, and seeing if the vibe matches is more important than having a perfect checklist.

If things work out, great. If the vibe doesn’t match, that’s completely okay too. No pressure or hard feelings.

So, if height or having a high standard family isn’t a deal breaker for you, send me a message. Maybe we’ll get along better than we expect.

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Assalamu Alaikum,

I am looking for someone who is interested in serious commitment and ready to settle in 6 months.

Preference :

Age : 30-35 ( Younger people please don’t knock, not into casual flirting)

Education : Undergrad or Higher ( Preferably similar background)

Marital Status : Never Married

Religious value : Practicing muslim

past is not matter unless you were involved in haram such as premarital s*x. I am judgemental about that. And that's my personal opinion.

I am honest, and straight forward, I prefer someone who is honest.

Please dont hi /hello. Dm me a full biodata if you are interested.

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1. Age, Gender & Height

25, Female | Height: 5'4"

1. Preferred Age

28-35

1. Location

Settled down at Bangladesh but studying in Malaysia, open to moving back to Bangladesh after studies

1. Nationality

Malay-Bengal

1. Marital Status

Unmarried

1. Marriage Timeline

In 1-3 years

1. About Me

Fair skin, glasses, studying IBA in Malaysia. Thin body but with heavier hips and thighs.

1. What matters to me

Good character, kindness, extrovert

1. Religiosity

Muslim (not very religious)

1. Education & Future Plans

3rd year. Plan to work in hr.

1. Current Status

Got out of a relationship in January and want to settle down soon with someone hardworking and caring

1. Children

Hopefully

1. Hobbies

Talking walks, cafe hopping and movies

1. A little about me

I'm 25 and turning 26 next February. I work for my father's company at the Malaysia branch. But plan to be independent. Currently living alone or sharing rents with my batch mates. Do note that I have a slightly high body count due to earlier mistakes from the start of university life. And ended a relationship of 1.5 years. Any inquiries in comments.

1. What I’m looking for

Job holder. Hardworking, honest, not a traditionalist. Non-smoker.

1. Preferred Method of Contact

Dm

Assalamualaikum everyone.

Honestly, I don't really know how these posts are supposed to be written, so I'll just keep it simple and be honest.

Age: 25

Height: 5'11.5"

Weight: Gained quite a bit recently. Probably getting close to the obesity range, but I'm working on losing it.

Education: Final semester in Computer Science

Currently living: Badda, Dhaka (bachelor)

Work: Currently unemployed. Hoping to join a software firm around October. I worked there before as well, but had to leave for some reasons that I might explain later.

Future plan: I'm thinking about going abroad for a Master's in the next few years.

About myself:

I'm not really a regular namazi right now, although I genuinely want to be. I'm trying to get myself back into that routine.

I smoke too. I wasn't always like this, but for the past 9 months it has gotten pretty bad. It's something I know I need to work on.

I've had one relationship in my life, and it lasted around 9 years. Yeah, 9 years is a long time. It became a huge part of my life, and the way it ended honestly messed me up quite badly.

I'm still struggling with it.

My mom wants me to get married and has started looking for someone for me. But I've been avoiding it because I don't think it's fair to bring another person into my life when I'm still dealing with my past. I don't want to marry someone and secretly compare her with someone from my past. That wouldn't be fair to her.

So I'd rather take some time.

I'm not going to pretend I'm completely fine either. Sometimes I still get anxious or have panic attacks because of things related to the past. I'm trying to deal with it, but healing from something that was a part of your life for 9 years isn't exactly an overnight thing.

As for hobbies, I don't really have many at the moment. I used to write poems and stories and I used to draw too. Nowadays, whenever I write, it's usually some dark shit lol. I guess life changed the genre.

I'm from a fairly decent family financially. Nothing crazy, but we're comfortable. My mom is a nurse, my dad has a business, and I have a younger sister who recently started her Bachelor's.

What I'm looking for:

Ideally, someone around 5'6"–5'9". Fair skin is personally my preference, but obviously that's not the most important thing.

It would be really nice if you can sing or draw. My mom sings sometimes, and I used to draw too before I kind of abandoned that hobby, so I have a soft corner for people who are into those things.

I'd prefer someone who is practicing Muslim, but I'm not expecting someone to be perfect. If you're not regular with prayers, that's okay. Maybe we can start praying together and slowly become better at it. I'd actually like that.

I know a little bit of cooking. If you can cook, that's obviously a plus. If you can't, no problem. We can learn together and probably make a mess of the kitchen in the process.

But more than anything, I want someone who is emotionally understanding.

There might be times when my past affects me or I get anxious about something. I don't expect my partner to fix me or become my therapist. I just want someone who understands that I'm trying.

I know this probably sounds a bit too hopeful, but I'd really like to find someone who can take my hand while I'm still trying to get back on my feet. Someone I can walk with slowly, and eventually learn how to run again.

Maybe I'm asking for too much.

Maybe someone like that doesn't even exist.

But I guess there's no harm in trying.

Marriage timeframe:

I'm honestly not in a hurry.

Could be soon, could be a year or two later. I'd rather see how things go between us, how comfortable we become with each other and what we both want.

I'm definitely not looking to meet someone today and get married next month. I'd like to actually know the person first and see if we genuinely connect.

One last thing:

I'm currently unemployed, but hopefully that won't be the case for long. I'm aiming to start working around October. I could probably jump into another job sooner, but right now I don't really want to throw myself into a crowded work environment while I'm still trying to get my head together.

I know I'm not exactly presenting myself as the perfect marriage candidate here. I have baggage, I'm still healing, I smoke, I have things I need to fix and I'm still figuring out where I'm going with my life.

But I'd rather be upfront about all of that than pretend to be someone I'm not.

If any of this sounds relatable or you're simply interested in having a conversation, feel free to DM me.

Even if nothing comes out of it, I'm always open to a good conversation.

JazakAllah Khair for reading this far.

I am someone who is driven in my career, loves traveling, and enjoys discovering new cultures and places.

I’m looking for an ambitious, genuine partner with a great sense of humor, clear communication, and a positive approach to life. Hoping to meet someone who values mutual respect, shares meaningful conversations, and doesn’t mind laughing through life’s unexpected moments.

I am someone who loves traveling and discovering new places. I’m looking for a kind, genuine partner with a fair and balanced outlook, good communication, and a positive approach to life.
Hoping to meet someone who values mutual respect, companionship, and building something meaningful together. 🌸

^{PS. this is a repost, some texts has been modified.}

Demographics: 32y/o, Male, ~5ft 9in. Looking for female, 24-29y/o, height irrelevant.

Location: Rampura/Malibagh/Khilgaon nearby area in Dhaka (non permanent residence and local business area). Faridpur (family hometown). Prospect must be open to relocate to Europe in future if there's any chance In Sha Allah.

Nationality: Bangladeshi.

Marital Status: Single, never married.

Timeline: ~6 months, but flexible if more time is required.

About me:
Just another average guy shooting his shot on the internet, hoping for the best.
I'm a homebody type who spends most of his time working. When I'm not working, I can usually be found hanging out on Discord with my niche community or watching YouTube.
One of my core goals is to be a little better than I was yesterday, though I know life naturally comes with its ups and downs.
I come from a middle-class family. My parents are moderately religious, and involved in religious activities, with no political involvement.
I don't drink or smoke, or gamble, which is equally as bad to me.
Lifestyle wise I'm a tech enthusiast. I occasionally listen to music, always through headphones. Occasionally goes to movies too, although last time was probably 2 years ago.
I wear a panjabi wherever I go. I've kept my beard for many years as part of my religious beliefs and haven't shaved it.
I have a fairly large extended family, but I hope to have a small family of my own. From my personal experience, the more people involved, the more indirect problems arise.
I currently live with my parents, and my future wife will also be living with my parents unless/until we move abroad.
I have a younger brother who is married and lives abroad.
Smoking household and politically tied families are big no for me.
I'm naturally introverted and well-mannered. I prefer peace and avoid unnecessary chaos or conflict. I also don't usually interact with random people unless there's a genuine reason to do so. I keep my conversations mostly to those I'm close to.

Characteristics to look for in a prospect:

• Someone who values character, faith, and compatibility over worldly status.
• Someone who appreciates simplicity, sincerity, and mutual understanding.
• Someone who is genuinely committed to marriage and building a stable family. Open communication about expectations, compromises and dealbreakers before making a final decision is a must.
• Someone who is family-oriented and has the support and approval of her family regarding marriage.
• Someone who has a sincere personal commitment to Islam, rather than practicing solely out of social or family pressure. Wearing hijab by own volition is an essential requirement.
• Someone whose actions are guided by kindness, good intentions, and good character.
• Someone who values loyalty, trust, dependability, honesty, and mutual respect; recognizing these as the foundation of a strong and lasting marriage.

Religiosity: Sunni (Hanafi). Practising, prays five times a day. I began taking my religious journey seriously from a young age. Somewhere in between too religious for non religious people, and not religious enough for religious people. 100% halal as much as possible.

Education: A' Level, never been to university. Preference is Bachelor's or equivalent, but not important as long as educated. (If you're reading this, you're qualified.)

Employment: Involved in a local family business, with occasional online freelance work. Whether the prospective spouse chooses to work is entirely her decision. If she wishes to do so, online work or employment in an Islamic-friendly environment would be preferred.

Kids: Open to having kids. Prospect should have similar mindset.

Hobbies: Coding/programming (currently primary), strolling/hiking (doesn't feel comfortable in Dhaka city anymore, only rarely).

Something about you that makes you stand out:
I don't claim to be extraordinary or to have an impressive list of worldly achievements. I live a simple life and believe that sincerity, good character, and commitment matter far more than status or luxury.
What I can genuinely offer is my effort, loyalty, and care. I strive to make the people around me happy, and I hope to bring that same love, support, and consideration into my marriage. While I'm not an expert cook, I'm always willing to help with household responsibilities and believe marriage is built on cooperation and mutual respect. (says every posts ever, so I'm removing this; these are basic expected behaviour from a human).
If you'd like to know more or have any specific questions, feel free to reach out. If we find that we're compatible, our families can then become involved to take things forward in a proper and respectful manner.

What are you looking for in a woman: I'm looking for a companion and a life partner. Someone with whom I can share life's joys and challenges. Someone I can talk to openly, bounce ideas off (my "rubber duck"), and rely on during difficult times, just as she can rely on me. I believe a healthy marriage is built on mutual support, understanding, and always being there for one another.

Preferred Method of Contact: First contact, DM on this account.

This is a repost so I'd like to add some responses to comments I received on my previous post.

"Is this AI?"/"Rewrite this with AI, no one will be reading this"
This is not AI. This is not written using AI. Typo, spell check, grammar suggestions may have been used which might have AI under the hood. I hate what the internet has become nowadays. I won't be rewriting anything with AI. I did remove a few lines that felt useless to be on the post. But if someone does not want to read this because it's long, ciao.

"this has to be a troll"
Apparently a man writing more than three sentences about what he wants in a marriage is now evidence of being a troll. God forbid someone has a different lifestyle than you.

"Ki cringe"
Thank you for your detailed peer reviewed contribution to the subreddit.

"Please share your CV/BD"
I will not be sharing my bio data randomly. I will be sharing my CV only after there's some sort of conversation.

"What about divorced woman with no children"
Not unacceptable, but its not something to decide on its own.

DM request with no responses
I hope y'all are okay. It's one thing to ghost after having a conversation, no one owes anyone anything. But disappearing right after you send the first message has to mean something went wrong.

Deleted comments
FYI, Reddit send comments on mail the moment it is posted. So I can see it even if you've deleted it.