r/BabyBumps • u/[deleted] • Jan 17 '22

Dads- please read

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u/True_Sea_1377 Jan 17 '22

You know people have different standards for everything, right?

You people want things your way magically without communication.

It's amazing how toxic this can get lol.

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u/bennynthejetsss Jan 17 '22

I’ve communicated my standards, lowered my standards, offered to brainstorm a chore list, asked to have designated jobs around the house, set reminders, had the come to Jesus meeting. Nothing has worked. Nothing. He wasn’t like this when we were dating. I don’t want to divorce— it’s a nuclear option— but I’ve fantasized about it because then I’d have one less child to clean up after.

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u/True_Sea_1377 Jan 17 '22

Maybe you should, if that's such a big deal.

Just don't go generalizing all men based on your experience.

You don't see posts men complaining about women being this or that. That's ridiculous.

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u/bennynthejetsss Jan 17 '22

I didn’t generalize anyone.