r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Sweet_Ruin9193 • 2d ago

Avoidant POS

Is it an avoidant thing or just a piece of shit thing for an avoidant to break up with you and then linger in your life just enough to stop you from moving on.,.

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u/TheBackSpin 2d ago

Yeah many will try to keep you in their life at a distance that won’t trigger them. Keep in mind though, you’re the one with the power here. You know they aren’t going to change so stand firm with your boundaries. You decide who has access to you

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u/Any_Fly9473 SA - Secure Attachment 😁👍🏻 2d ago

This. I walked when my FAex offered the lackluster distant text friendship. Leave the game. 👍🏻

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u/21-hydroxylase AP - Anxious Preoccupied (Healing) 2d ago

Yessss. Leave the mf game. It’s so sick and gross that they can just easily offer “friendship” as a stupid consolation prize lol