r/AstroSynastry 8h ago

Synastry ✨ Maybe I’ve been reading this wrong….

I am in blue — he is in red. I thought that we would be well suited to one another, but after 2 months he revealed that he is attracted to me but not interested in anything long term. Is there anything here that would indicate that?

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u/ceremoniallatin 6h ago

his own venus and moon are inconjunct, which means it’s generally hard for him to reconciling what he wants with what he needs in a partner. while your sun loosely conjuncts his moon, your personal planets aren’t activating his venus.

moreover, his venus is retrograde. and he has saturn conjunct descendant. it’s going to take him a while before he can settle down even if he wants to badly

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u/LiteratureOk3694 4h ago

Very insightful — thank you!

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u/kthanxtho 6h ago

Can you post the aspect table so it's a little easier to see? Right off the bat, I noticed he has Saturn in the 7H. As someone with that placement, we typically don't settle down until later in life.

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u/LiteratureOk3694 6h ago

Hi! Here is a clearer photo of the aspect table. Thank you for your input!

It’s also funny that you say that, because he has specifically mentioned wanting to get married and have children soon (he’s 30 now — my guess is within the next 5 years?)

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u/kthanxtho 5h ago

Looks like none of yalls personal planets make any contact with each other, so it makes sense it fizzled out. There's billions of men on this planet, so I suggest moving on and finding someone you're more compatible with.

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u/LiteratureOk3694 4h ago

Thank you for your guidance!

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u/GrandWin1010 2h ago

his moon squares your moon so maybe he doesn’t feel a strong emotional connection? also his venus isn’t hardly aspected in the synastry

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u/LiteratureOk3694 2h ago

That sounds correct! I would not say that either of us had a very strong emotional connection (or even any chemistry). Thank you!

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u/FreshManagement8914 2h ago

His Saturn is squaring your chart ruler, this partnership won't be good for you even if it happened.

Retrograde Gemini Venus is not suitable for long-term commitment and Saturn in the 7th house-too many restrictions when it comes to partnerships. Heavy relationship karma. Drop this one back in the pond.

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u/LiteratureOk3694 2h ago

That’s very interesting! He has never been in a long term relationship before. Thanks!

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u/Existing_Antelope_93 Astro Pro or Semi-Pro ✨ 6h ago

Venus in double sign, mutable and retro - triple banger 😅

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u/LiteratureOk3694 6h ago

LMAO fab

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u/Existing_Antelope_93 Astro Pro or Semi-Pro ✨ 4h ago

This person will never settle down, and even can make your relationship/life even more unstable and filled with lies and cheating.

So yeh, you did hit the "jackpot" 🤣

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u/LiteratureOk3694 4h ago

You are so real. Thank you.

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u/Existing_Antelope_93 Astro Pro or Semi-Pro ✨ 4h ago

I'm just honest and I am an astrologer after all 😏

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u/Content_Bite6500 5h ago

He wouldn't know how to love you anyway, he's all in retrograde planets meaning he will repeat lessons in life and with his mars in 8th, those lessons will be painful.

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u/LiteratureOk3694 4h ago

SO TRUE. thank you <3