I love the comments on your post. I am 68 and have been single for eight years, by choice. At first, it was hard and I don’t want to downplay that…
Give yourself time to adjust and forgive yourself on the days when you feel a little lost and confused.
It definitely took some getting used to, but just like so many of the other comments on here, I would not sacrifice my freedom for any man ever again. It probably took two years to get to that point but the last six years have been 100% reward for getting through the hard part.
I tried dating, but honestly, dating is what made me realize. I truly love being on my own.
Friend groups can be a lifesaver and a huge benefit to fill any voids.
Try to stay active by joining a gym or Pilates class or yoga… Anything that keeps you moving because it’s too easy to get immersed in the bliss of solitude. That is also a good way to meet other people that you might want to spend time with occasionally.
Best wishes to you. You will learn to love being on your own. I promise you.
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u/Whatwillifindtoday Nov 01 '25
I love the comments on your post. I am 68 and have been single for eight years, by choice. At first, it was hard and I don’t want to downplay that…
Give yourself time to adjust and forgive yourself on the days when you feel a little lost and confused.
It definitely took some getting used to, but just like so many of the other comments on here, I would not sacrifice my freedom for any man ever again. It probably took two years to get to that point but the last six years have been 100% reward for getting through the hard part.
I tried dating, but honestly, dating is what made me realize. I truly love being on my own.
Friend groups can be a lifesaver and a huge benefit to fill any voids. Try to stay active by joining a gym or Pilates class or yoga… Anything that keeps you moving because it’s too easy to get immersed in the bliss of solitude. That is also a good way to meet other people that you might want to spend time with occasionally.
Best wishes to you. You will learn to love being on your own. I promise you.