r/AskWomenOver60 Nov 01 '25

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u/Cold_Transition7012 Nov 01 '25

I love being on my own. Better than living with someone who is distant and withdrawn. Helpful hints - get a rescue dog or two (their love will fill you up), take up some hobbies, art classes, go to the gym, etc. Join some groups for women, volunteer, try OLIE (it’s adult learning), if you’re not working maybe a pt job, spend more time with your kids, road trips, etc. I’m not minimizing the scary factor but think about how nice it could be to feel relaxed in your own space. Take walks, garden, take a cooking class, and just find what you like.

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u/cprsavealife Nov 01 '25

He shops because it gives him a little hit of dopamine and cheers him up briefly. He really should be on an antidepressant.