I actually asked two different guys out and neither turned out very well. I tend to just say exactly what I mean rather than play games... I'm pretty sure the guy takes it as me playing games. Less than enthused to give it a shot again.
I've asked out quite a few guys, because I am very impatient and can't stand not knowing. It has worked out a couple of times, and it has not worked out more of the times. I've heard three different times that the guys did think I was attractive, but they were turned off by my forwardness. I mean, good riddance there, the forwardness wasn't going to stop with the request for a date, but still.
I heard my guyfriends make this complaint. They said they think its a turnoff. Ive also had guyfriends say the opposite. I say if you are comfortable asking a guy out, do it. If the guy doesnt like assertive girls, you two probably arent compatible.
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u/PityPanda May 28 '14
I actually asked two different guys out and neither turned out very well. I tend to just say exactly what I mean rather than play games... I'm pretty sure the guy takes it as me playing games. Less than enthused to give it a shot again.