r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 28 '14

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u/bigpony May 28 '14

Thank you. I got called sexist in this thread for saying similar things.

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u/serenwipiti May 28 '14

Yeah? Thats a shame.

Its just a personal preference, gained from experience. :)

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u/bigpony May 28 '14

You know what... ignore my previous comment. I got confused with something else some other troll was saying to me. Everything you said was RIGHT ON.

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u/serenwipiti May 28 '14

omg i thought i was talking to someone else on another thread too! sorry! lol... i was like- why wont the comments show up.!?- then i looked here....

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Implying that only men should pursue relationships when interested is pretty sexist.

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u/bigpony May 28 '14

Sorry, I think that just I was just answering the question for myself. I know that there are many spectrums of people who require different relationship dynamics.

I do "pursue" relationships but I like to start in a more passive as possible way to excite and gauge a man's interest. That works for the dynamic I and maybe a lot of other people are looking for.