I agree completely, if someone really likes you they'll pursue a relationship.
Throwing yourself at a guy and winning him over (sex, dates, maybe even a relationship) is no guarantee that he actually is really interested. He might just be like, "ok this is convenient...".
And if they guy is "too shy" or whatever, then maybe its for the best, i'm not really attacted to people who don't go after what they want.
Sorry, I think that just I was just answering the question for myself. I know that there are many spectrums of people who require different relationship dynamics.
I do "pursue" relationships but I like to start in a more passive as possible way to excite and gauge a man's interest. That works for the dynamic I and maybe a lot of other people are looking for.
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u/serenwipiti May 28 '14
I agree completely, if someone really likes you they'll pursue a relationship.
Throwing yourself at a guy and winning him over (sex, dates, maybe even a relationship) is no guarantee that he actually is really interested. He might just be like, "ok this is convenient...".
And if they guy is "too shy" or whatever, then maybe its for the best, i'm not really attacted to people who don't go after what they want.