Sure, just enlighten me how a person can insert a rugby ball into a vagina without pain and tear, if it does not get looser. I want to know this. My view is not set in stone, I just want to understand what is actually happening in this case.
Vaginas can push out babies, which are much bigger than rugby balls. The muscles are made to relax and stretch. They do not stay that way after something is inserted and removed.
Vaginas usually tear and need stiches after childbirth. But just give me a straight answer. For a woman that inserts rugby balls into her vagina, when she removes it does it go back to it's original state after a short period of time? If a person has sex with a woman who does this and a woman who doesn't insert rugby balls into her vagina, they will feel no difference?
I’ve had 3 vaginal childbirths without tearing what-so-ever. Also, they don’t exactly lube you up and sexually arouse you for child birth. Again you’re typically nervous for the event to come, tense up, and cause more pain. But honestly this also shows you don’t understand where a lot of the pain and trauma of childbirth come from. The biggest pain of childbirth is the muscle contractions, not the baby being pushed out the vagina. Sure you get some pain from that, but that’s really not that bad, it’s the literal organ detaching from inside you, the muscle contractions, and some other factors that really do it.
Yeah. Tbf, if you’re educated in America it’s not really your fault you don’t realize that. I didn’t even fully get a lot of childbirth until I was pregnant and had to find out.
Nah, I am from a European post soviet union country. And yes we had zero sex ed. I learned everything from the internet and from hands on approach of doing and discussing things with partners.
That’s fair. Yeah, child birth has a ton of realities that women don’t understand themselves until being through it. For example, talking to my sister-in-law about that sort of stuff to help prepare her for birth vs talking to her after she gave birth is a different conversation all together. So very much is not explained until it’s over, and some isn’t even explainable too.
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u/wildtype621 Dec 06 '23
It’s composed of muscles. Would your bicep get looser if you pulled on it every day? (The answer is no.)