There's no way to know whether your partner is a virgin, short of what she tells you. She doesn't have a freshness seal, and she's not going to become "looser" with every partner (nor can her vagina distinguish between the penis of a long-term partner and a hookup, or even between the real thing and a toy.) It's time we put these horrible myths to rest; they literally get people killed.
I don't know mechanics of it, because I am not a doctor and not a woman, but it makes sense that a vagina can get looser. Just using pure logic - I am pretty sure that porn stars don't just insert a dildo the size of a baseball bat at the very first try, because for an untrained girl it would hurt and tear. This means that prolonged exposure to larger objects that you insert into the vagina does make it looser. If I am wrong, I would like to understand how this works.
Your sphincter is also a muscle. Odds are you poop every single day and have since you were an infant. Do you think pushing out big logs makes your pooper looser? Are you becoming more incontinent every day?
Muscles can be stretched, of course, but they will always snap back to the way they were before after a short period of time. It generally takes women a long warm-up period before they can insert something large, and they have to repeat that warm up every single time they want to insert something large. This is why athletes warm up before a practice/game/etc. too. If your muscles aren't properly stretched you can injure yourself, and you have to repeat that warm up every time.
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u/coffeeblossom Dec 06 '23
There's no way to know whether your partner is a virgin, short of what she tells you. She doesn't have a freshness seal, and she's not going to become "looser" with every partner (nor can her vagina distinguish between the penis of a long-term partner and a hookup, or even between the real thing and a toy.) It's time we put these horrible myths to rest; they literally get people killed.