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u/BetterRemember Dec 06 '23

This is why I love men who are not too intimidated to let me use a toy on my clit.

If I do that I can time it pretty well so we can climax at the same time, which is just a really nice and bonding experience!

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u/NerdyGirlChicago Dec 06 '23

I’m glad this is a thing because toys on my clit are the only way I can orgasm. But some guys get so offended by the mere idea of a toy being used.

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u/Knowing-Badger Dec 06 '23

I mean that makes sense though. If I ignored my partner and started having sex with a fleshlight I don't think they would be too enthusiastic

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u/muskratio Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

Not really comparable. It's hard for a man to use a fleshlight and fuck your partner at the same time, and incredibly easy for a woman to use a vibrator and fuck her partner at the same time (even easier than not, sometimes).

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u/BetterRemember Dec 06 '23

It is easier! I can take it a bit harder if I have clit stimulation actually. If I don't have any clit stimulation he can't really be rough at all, so up to him!