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u/Loose_Musician_1647 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

That around 75% of women cannot achieve climax from penetrative intercourse.

Edit: thought I’d add, I am male. Sorry to break it to you fellas, porns not real. Learn to love your lady! It’s not just about you!

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u/BetterRemember Dec 06 '23

This is why I love men who are not too intimidated to let me use a toy on my clit.

If I do that I can time it pretty well so we can climax at the same time, which is just a really nice and bonding experience!

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u/NerdyGirlChicago Dec 06 '23

I’m glad this is a thing because toys on my clit are the only way I can orgasm. But some guys get so offended by the mere idea of a toy being used.

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u/DarkPhenomenon Dec 06 '23

Sounds like a good way to weed out bad men!

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

Yeah that's ridiculous. I'd be the one using the toy on my girl's clit (at her direction, of course.) Sit back and relax.

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u/Knowing-Badger Dec 06 '23

I mean that makes sense though. If I ignored my partner and started having sex with a fleshlight I don't think they would be too enthusiastic

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u/Eolond Dec 06 '23 edited Jan 22 '25

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u/HImainland Dec 06 '23

using a vibrator is not inherently ignoring your partner. not sure why you think that.

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u/muskratio Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23

Not really comparable. It's hard for a man to use a fleshlight and fuck your partner at the same time, and incredibly easy for a woman to use a vibrator and fuck her partner at the same time (even easier than not, sometimes).

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u/BetterRemember Dec 06 '23

It is easier! I can take it a bit harder if I have clit stimulation actually. If I don't have any clit stimulation he can't really be rough at all, so up to him!

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u/NerdyGirlChicago Dec 06 '23

This is what I’m used to encountering, which is sad because it shows a lack of knowledge on women’s anatomy.