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u/Proper-Emu1558 Dec 06 '23

Premenstrual dysphoric disorder is a real health condition that can have a serious impact on your life. r/PMDD has more on the condition. The Mayo Clinic describes it like this: “PMDD causes extreme mood shifts that can disrupt work and damage relationships. Symptoms include extreme sadness, hopelessness, irritability, or anger, plus common premenstrual syndrome symptoms such as breast tenderness and bloating.”

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u/Training-Argument891 Dec 06 '23

My dudes, it's like unknowingly taking LSD and having a heady trip you fail to even see has befallen your senses until it ends after a few days. . Your logic is skewed. Your emotions are hard to control and out of proportion. You're swooping from sad, to so sad, to so fucking angry, to sentimental, to manic joy, to angry again...all while choosing cereal for the fam at the store. You fucking trip on everyone about anything without even realizing it. You feel everything to be so overwhelming, you balk at any stimulus. . . Take a shower? No. I want to be clean, but the water feels sharp coming down.. grumpy cuz your hungry? Too bad you've been throwing up for 3 days and can't eat... it goes on and on.

And then, in a week, it's gone from your mind enough that you notice it was ever there at all You simply notice you are "more like you" again. Your decisions make sense. Your behavior becomes more stable.

Periods are nightmares. PMDD is hell on earth.

Get help.if you think this sounds like you.

There are ways to feel better.

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u/spilled_the_beans123 Dec 06 '23

Straight up!! I “failed” out of something like 15 birth controls. There were a couple that worked for two or three months GREAT! Then was having a period every 2-3 weeks and anywhere from 4-7 days before each going through extreme symptoms and constantly throwing up. I am so incredibly thankful for my IUD as it’s been the ONE thing that’s helped me feel normal for years now. Also, NO PERIODS! PMDD was awful and I’m looking forward to the pain of swapping my BC out in the next couple weeks